Edward Williams
known as Gramps, Grandpa, Manny, Grampa
also written Grandpa Williams, Gramps, Edwin, Ed, Emanuel Lehman, Emanuel (Manny) Lehman, Emanuel, Manny, Grandpa, Grampa, Lehman, Williams, Ed Williams, Grampa Williams, Edward in the book
Biography
Mom’s father. Raised Mom and Lloyd alone after his wife died. Suffered a serious lye burn at work, treated with ACTH and Cortisone. Daddy argued with him about his drinking but valued his help to the family. Gave Daddy two thousand dollars from savings for a house addition, helped with gardening, canning and childcare, and gave Mom money for false teeth and dresses. Introduced with Agnes as Ethel's parents. The family believed his first name was Edward, but Ethel's baptismal record listed Edwin. He changed his complete name as a young man; Carol says there is no way to know which name he actually gave himself. Had rheumatism, sometimes called lumbago, that acted up in damp weather. Referred to it as 'rheumatiz' when predicting rain. His personal name is not given. Called Grandpa Williams; Bernie's maternal grandfather. Birth date also recorded as “1882” (History of the Guild Family). Occupation also recorded as “Co-owner of The Sunshine Store; wheat-farm farmhand; lumberyard manager and subsequently accountant.” (History of the Guild Family). Born Emanuel (Manny) Lehman; changed his name to Edward Williams sometime between 1905 and 1910. Raised in a Church of the Brethren (Dunkers) family. Described as handsome and strong, with straight jet-black hair and fair skin; retained his black hair apart from white at the sideburns until death. Married an unnamed woman in Astoria at age 17. Ethel reportedly related the account of his discovery of his bride's infidelity, assault on her lover, alleged burning of the house, and flight. The passage speculates about reasons for his name change, including fear of prosecution or a bigamy charge when marrying Agnes Tomitum; it states that correspondence with Harvey established that the lover had survived and the first wife had disappeared. Occupation also recorded as “Co-owner of The Sunshine Store; wheat farmhand; lumberyard manager; subsequently accountant” (History of the Guild Family). Born with the name Emanuel (Manny) Lehman. His parents were Pennsylvania Dutch (German-Americans) and Church of the Brethren members. Described as handsome and strong, with straight jet-black hair that remained black except for white at the sideburns until his death. Married an unnamed woman in Astoria at age 17. The account of violence, an alleged house fire, and flight after discovering her with another man was reported by his daughter Ethel long after his death. Correspondence with Harvey reportedly established that the other man survived and the first wife disappeared. Changed his name sometime between 1905 and 1910; the proposed motives of avoiding a killing trial or a bigamy charge are explicitly speculative. death date recorded both as “February 22, 1953” and as “1953” in the book; kept as written. occupation also recorded as “Held several unspecified jobs; later worked at the Herman Nelson Corporation.”, “Worked nights at a foundry; reportedly assumed the duties of judge, postman and coroner during a Swine Flu epidemic.”, “Accountant; managed a diner and a dance hall attached to the lumberyard” in the book. Identified as Grampa. Roundish, medium height and complexion, with largish ears, jet-black fine hair and eyebrows, and a soft body. Sometimes unshaven, stoic and sometimes dour, with an intelligent-sounding voice and slow, deliberate movement. Had only a touch of gray at his sideburns to the day he died; no death date or place is given. Severely depressed after Ethel's mother's death and increasingly difficult because of drinking. Opposed college for Ethel. Lived intermittently with Ethel and Floyd, then permanently from about 1934 until death. Helped with children, housework, gardening, and canning. Contributed earnings and savings, including $2,000 from Postal Savings, toward two bedrooms and a bath. Burned his leg in metal stripping acid at work; treated with Tryptar and two skin grafts, then stopped working and used a cane. Delores and Bob were his favorites among seven grandchildren. Died of a heart attack at 71; buried without a headstone in Riverside Cemetery, Moline, Illinois. A separate statement places a surgery that prevented Lloyd attending his father's funeral in 1965; the contradiction is unresolved. Did most of the family garden work while alive; deceased by the time of narration. Carol's maternal grandfather. Lived with the family until his death. Helped plant and harvest the garden and helped with canning. Shelled peas and snapped beans with young Carol under the elm tree. Shared the second bedroom with the boys. Bought Mom a mangle one year to help with ironing. Raised rabbits when the family first moved to 39th Street. Spent evenings picking gathered nuts out of their shells. Described as Mom's biggest helper during canning season. Ate cold pork sausage and sage patties directly from the grease in which they were preserved. Spent afternoons cracking gathered nuts at the basement workbench with an old metal shoe last and picking out the nut meats. Recited long, entertaining limericks from memory around the kitchen table after supper. Did not get along well with the narrator's dad; there was much sharp talk between them. Other references to 'Grandpa' are not explicitly identified as Grandpa Williams. Shared the other bedroom with Bob and Bernie when the house had two bedrooms. Nicknamed the narrator Pudge. Remembered as very comfortable and loving. Narrator's grandfather and her mother's father. His unnamed wife died of tuberculosis when their daughter was eleven, and he raised the daughter alone. A serious lye burn left a scar; the narrator was unsure whether his cane use resulted from that accident. The narrator explicitly doubts her childhood recollection of an affair, a house burning, and the timing of his move to Moline and surname change from Lehman to Williams. Grew ingredients for homemade horseradish and kept whiskey hidden in basement cement blocks. Died immediately after a massive heart attack in the hallway on a Sunday. Lived with the family. Remembered planting the first garden and helping Daddy dig the basement and raise the house. Smelled of minted snuff, gave pony rides on his knee, sang songs, and recited limericks. Shelled peas or snapped beans beneath the elm in summer. The subsequent berry-picking recollection calls the accompanying grandfather simply Grampa; he knew wild berry patches and sold surplus blackberries house to house in Villa Park. Listened to baseball broadcasts on an old Philco radio at the kitchen table. Kept pencil-written records of games and every player on cardboard separators from Shredded Wheat boxes and saved every score card. The narrator also mentions his accident and his dying in the narrator's arms, without dating or describing the accident. The Church Recorder incorrectly formalized Ed's name as Edwin instead of Edward in Ethel's birth record. His parents and siblings had a different surname from him. Moved the family into a boarding house after Agnes' death; later drank heavily. Occupation also recorded as “Accountant; managed a diner and a dance hall attached to the lumberyard; later worked at the Herman Nelson Corporation.” (History of the Guild Family). Edwin was a reporter’s error in Ethel’s birth announcement. Moved the family into a boarding house after Agnes died. Drank heavily while grieving, leaving Ethel with caregiving responsibilities. Lived intermittently with Ethel and Floyd, then permanently from about 1934 until death. Helped raise seven grandchildren, did housework, gardening and canning, and contributed earnings and savings, including $2,000 for a house addition. Burned his leg in metal stripping acid at work; recovered with Tryptar and two skin grafts, then stopped working and used a cane. Died of a heart attack at seventy-one and is buried without a headstone in Riverside Cemetery, Moline, Illinois. The passage also places his funeral in 1965 in Lloyd’s account; this conflicts with the stated 1953 death. Named in Bernie's vague memory of being bounced on his knee. Name preserved as printed.
Timeline
May 19, 1881
Birth of Edward Williams
Carol's Chapter1882
Birth of Emanuel (Manny) Lehman
Later known as Edward Williams.
History of the Guild Family1882
Birth of Emanuel (Manny) Lehman
Edward Williams was born with the name Emanuel (Manny) Lehman.
History of the Guild FamilySometime between 1905 and 1910
Manny becomes Edward Williams
Motives offered for the name change are speculative: evading trial for a presumed killing or avoiding a bigamy charge.
History of the Guild FamilySometime between 1905 and 1910
Emanuel becomes Edward Williams
Changed his name; the passage offers speculative reasons involving fear of prosecution or a bigamy charge.
History of the Guild Family1907
Edward Williams marries Agnes Tomitum
Carol's Chapter1909
Lloyd’s birth
Listed before Ethel despite the opening description of her as firstborn.
History of the Guild Family1911
Birth of Edward and Agnes’s daughter
The narrator’s Mom was born to them in 1911.
Carol's ChapterJanuary 28, 1911; previously believed to be 1909
Birth of Ethel Kathrine Williams
Carol gives Ethel's birth date as January 28, 1911. Ethel had believed she was born in 1909, and her grave marker was engraved before the error was discovered.
Carol's ChapterJanuary 28, 1911
Ethel Katherine Williams is born
The birth announcement incorrectly named her father Edwin.
History of the Guild FamilyJanuary 28, 1911
Birth of Ethel Katherine Williams
Firstborn of three children; her father's name was mistakenly recorded as Edwin.
History of the Guild Family1912
Birth of Lloyd
History of the Guild Family1914
Ralph’s birth
History of the Guild Family1914
Birth of Ralph
History of the Guild Family1922
Eleven-year-old Ethel takes on family care
Her father’s heavy drinking left her largely caring for herself, Lloyd and eventually Ed.
History of the Guild Family1922, after Agnes’ death
Ed and the children move into a boarding house
Mrs. Howe helped Ed raise the children. As he drank heavily, eleven-year-old Ethel increasingly cared for the family.
History of the Guild Family1925
Grandpa Williams and family move to Moline
Grandpa Williams, Mom and Lloyd moved to Moline.
Carol's Chapter1925
Ethel, Ed and Lloyd move to Moline
Ethel was fourteen.
History of the Guild Family1926
Ethel moves to Moline with her father and brother
Ethel was 15.
History of the Guild Familyabout 1934
Ed joins Ethel and Floyd permanently
Stopped working, possibly from severe depression; remained with them until death.
History of the Guild FamilyAbout 1934
Ed joins Ethel and Floyd's household permanently
Previously lived with them on and off. Remained until death and helped raise the children.
History of the Guild Family1953
Death of Grandpa Williams
Lived with Carol's family until his death in 1953.
Carol's ChapterFebruary 22, 1953
Ed Williams dies of a heart attack
Died at seventy-one; buried without a headstone in Riverside Cemetery, Moline, Illinois. Conflicts with the separate reference to his funeral in 1965.
History of the Guild FamilyFebruary 22, 1953
Death of Ed Williams
Died of a heart attack at 71; buried without a headstone at Riverside Cemetery in Moline, Illinois.
History of the Guild Family1965
Lloyd's lung surgery and missed funeral
One of two surgeries for a collapsed lung. Passage says it prevented attendance at his father's funeral, upsetting Ethel, despite separately dating Ed's death to 1953.
History of the Guild Family1965
Lloyd’s surgery prevents attendance at his father’s funeral
One of two collapsed-lung surgeries. This funeral reference conflicts with Ed’s stated 1953 death.
History of the Guild Familydate not given
Serious lye burn at the foundry
Fell into a vat of lye and burned his leg while working nights at the foundry. A one-page newspaper article reported a successful new treatment; the injury left an awful scar.
Dee's ChapterDuring a Swine Flu epidemic
Emergency service during a Swine Flu epidemic
According to the narrator's mother, Grampa assumed the duties of judge, postman and coroner in their hometown, working days and nights while many people died. He was apparently immune.
Dee's ChapterWhen my Mom was eleven years old
Grampa's wife dies of tuberculosis
His unnamed wife died of tuberculosis, after which he raised the narrator's mother alone.
Dee's Chapterdate not given
Recalled move to Moline and surname change
The narrator recalls Grampa moving himself and her mother to Moline and changing his name from Lehman to Williams. She tentatively connects this with rumors of an affair and a house burning, explicitly warning that her recollections may be wrong.
Dee's ChapterYears later, after he had died, during the holidays
Grandchildren discover hidden whiskey
At a family holiday gathering, grandchildren discovered Grampa's stash of whiskey bottles in cement blocks at the bottom of the basement stairway.
Dee's ChapterSunday
Grampa's sudden heart attack
Grampa collapsed in the hallway from a massive heart attack and died immediately. Delores was at home and watched in panic as the ambulance took him away.
Dee's ChapterOne year
Grandpa Williams buys a mangle
Grandpa Williams bought Mom a cylindrical ironing machine to help with the large amount of ironing. The children thought it was a great invention and fought over whose turn it was to help.
Carol's Chapterdate not given
Gathering and preparing black walnuts and hickory nuts
Regular family outings into the woods supplied nuts that were dried on the garage roof, shelled by Grandpa Williams, and baked by Mom with butter and salt.
Carol's Chapterlate Forties or early Fifties
Grandpa Williams works at Herman Nelson
Worked as a fireman at the industrial plant.
Carol's Chapterlate Forties or early Fifties
Lye injury and experimental drug treatment
Accidentally stepped into a vat of lye. Doctors treated his severely injured leg with ACTH and Cortisone. An article appeared in the Dispatch.
Carol's Chapterdate not given
Gramps funds more room for the children
Gave Daddy two thousand dollars from his savings account to build an addition onto the house because the children needed more room.
Carol's ChapterWhen she needed a passport to visit Carol in Germany
Ethel searches for her baptismal record
With no birth certificate and official records destroyed by fire, Ethel located her baptismal record. It spelled her middle name Kathrine, listed her father's first name as Edwin rather than Edward, and established 1911 rather than her believed 1909 birth year.
Carol's ChapterAs a young man
Grandpa Williams changes his complete name
Carol reports that Grandpa Williams changed his complete name and says it is impossible to know which name he actually gave himself.
Carol's ChapterAlmost immediately after the purchase and over the years
Making the small house into a lasting home
Dad raised the house and built a basement, chimney, and water system, then enlarged the kitchen and added bedrooms and indoor plumbing. Bob and the narrator helped a little with the bedrooms; Grampa is remembered helping with the early garden and basement work. Later came green asphalt siding, a new garage, and a work shed. The chicken coop became a playhouse. By the telling, the home was Dee’s and had white siding again with forest-green shutters.
Bernie's ChapterOne year
A blackberry harvest large enough to sell
After an especially abundant wild blackberry harvest, Grampa sold berries house to house to rich people in Villa Park.
Bernie's Chapterdate not given
Grampa Williams's accident
Mentioned as a vivid memory; no circumstances or date are given.
Bernie's Chapterdate not given
Grampa Williams dies in Bernard's arms
Bernard recalls Grampa dying in his arms and holding a mirror to his mouth to see whether he was still breathing.
Bernie's Chapterdate not given
Family evenings with toasted nuts and Grandpa's limericks
A recurring family memory: Grandpa cracked nuts gathered in the fall, Mom toasted the nut meats after supper, and the family ate them while Grandpa recited limericks around the kitchen table.
Iris's Chapterdate not given
Agnes marries Edward
History of the Guild FamilyAs a teen; the next day
Manny punished for attending a dance
His father banished him to hard farm labor after he danced in defiance of religious rules.
History of the Guild Familydate not given
Brothers own The Sunshine Store
Successful combination hardware and grocery store.
History of the Guild FamilyAt age 17
Manny's first marriage
Married an unnamed woman about whom the family knew little.
History of the Guild Familyabout six months after they were betrothed
Reported assault and alleged house fire
Ethel later reported that Manny beat his wife's lover and left him for dead, then allegedly ordered his wife outside and burned the house. Later correspondence established that the man survived.
History of the Guild Familydate not given
Manny flees to Newburg
Took half the store cash and bank savings, left Harvey a note, and departed by train.
History of the Guild Familydate not given
Farm and lumberyard work in Newburg
Worked on a wheat farm, later managed a lumberyard with a restaurant and dance hall, and subsequently became its accountant and prospered.
History of the Guild Familydate not given
Marriage to Agnes Tomitum
History of the Guild Familyafter Agnes’ death
Ed moves his children to a boarding house
Mrs. Howe helped Ed raise the children.
History of the Guild Familyafter Iris’ birth in 1930
Mary tells Ethel the bigamy story
Ethel did not tell her children until adulthood. The story’s details are not supplied.
History of the Guild Familydate not given
Ed funds room for seven teenagers
Contributed $2,000 from postal savings toward two bedrooms and a bath.
History of the Guild Familydate not given
Ed is badly burned at work
Slipped from a catwalk into metal stripping acid. Tryptar and two skin grafts healed his leg; he stopped working and used a cane.
History of the Guild Familydate not given
Agnes and Edward marry
History of the Guild FamilyAs a teen
A dance followed by hard labor
After Emanuel attended a forbidden dance, his father banished him to a farm for intensely hard labor.
History of the Guild Familydate not given
Brothers own The Sunshine Store
Manny and Harvey owned a very successful combination hardware and grocery store.
History of the Guild FamilyAt age 17
Manny's first marriage
Married an unnamed woman about whom the family knew little.
History of the Guild Familyabout six months after they were betrothed
Reported assault and alleged house fire
Ethel reportedly said that Manny found his bride with another man and beat him, leaving him for dead. He allegedly ordered his wife outside and burned the house. Later correspondence with Harvey established that the man survived.
History of the Guild FamilyAfter the reported assault and alleged fire
Manny leaves Astoria for Newburg
Took half the store cash and half their bank savings, left Harvey a note, and fled by train to Newburg.
History of the Guild FamilyAfter settling in Newburg
Farm work and lumberyard prosperity
Worked as a wheat-farm farmhand, later managed a lumberyard with an attached restaurant and dance hall, and subsequently became its accountant.
History of the Guild Familydate not given
Marriage to Agnes Tomitum
Mentioned in discussion of a possible reason for Edward's name change.
History of the Guild Familyafter Iris’ birth in 1930
Mary tells Ethel the “bigamy” story
The story itself is not given. Ethel waited until her own children were adults to tell them.
History of the Guild Familydate not given
Ed helps enlarge the family home
Contributed earnings and savings, including $2,000 from Postal Savings, for two bedrooms and a bath, saying the little house could not hold seven teenagers.
History of the Guild FamilyQuite late in life
Ed suffers an acid burn at work
Fell from a catwalk into metal stripping acid, burning his leg from ankle to knee. Tryptar and two skin grafts enabled complete healing; he stopped working and used a cane.
History of the Guild Family
Stories mentioning Edward
- Tin-Tub Baths and Saturday Night MoviesBarbara recalls Saturday baths in a kitchen tin tub with stove-heated water before Daddy and the boys built an addition with a bathroom. She describes crowded sleeping arrangements, a two-seater outdoor toilet, brown-painted iron beds, wool army blankets, and chenille bedspreads. Other memories include late Saturday movies while her parents played cards, Sturdevant Milk advertisements, visiting salesmen, and listening in on party-line conversations.
- A Car for College and a Family That Always HelpedDiana recalls demanding study habits, family gardening and tomato sales, and her anxious departure for college. Iris and Bill’s gift of a car made nursing school feasible. During an earlier John Deere & Company strike, Iris brought groceries when the family lacked money. Diana describes her scholarship, difficult college years, friendship with Martha Kawada, and graduation. Memories of planting a flower garden and helping haul water from the water works lead to gratitude for the family’s enduring support and resourcefulness.
- From Pudge to Gramma DeeDelores recounts her birth as Ethel and Floyd Guild's third daughter and fifth child, her mother's choice of her name, and the nicknames given by her grandfather, father, and grandchildren. Gramma Dee is the name she feels suits her best.
- A Family Remembered with Love and PrideThough her childhood memories are vague, Delores remembers warm and happy feelings. She lovingly describes her grandfather, parents, and six siblings, expressing gratitude for her life and pride in the family her parents created.
- Pudge's Memories of a Lovable GrampaDelores remembers swinging on Grampa's leg and sitting on his lap. He called her “Pudge” for her dimpled cheeks; Bernie says she was his favorite, probably after Bob. She recalls his horseradish garden and his grinding radishes outdoors because of the smell. She also witnessed his sudden fatal heart attack in the hallway on a Sunday and remembers her panic as the ambulance took him away.
- Grampa's Hard Work and CourageGrampa suffered a serious leg burn after falling into a vat of lye while working nights at a foundry. A newspaper article described a new treatment that healed the burn but left a terrible scar. Delores is unsure whether his cane use was connected. Her mother recalled his taking on the duties of judge, postman and coroner during a Swine Flu epidemic in their North Dakota hometown, apparently immune while many others died. After his wife died of tuberculosis when their daughter was eleven, he raised the daughter alone.
- Family Rumors and Grampa's Hidden WhiskeyDelores cautiously recalls a childhood rumor about Grampa having an affair and burning down a house, explicitly saying she may have the facts wrong. She thinks it was around the time he moved himself and her mother to Moline and changed his name from Lehman to Williams, and suggests Diana may know more. Years after his death, grandchildren digging in cement blocks at the bottom of the basement stairs during a holiday gathering discovered hidden whiskey bottles. Delores says her mother had kept his drinking to herself.
- An Acre and Four Rooms to Call HomeCarol remembers moving to 3209 39th Street in 1942 at age four, running through empty rooms and jumping through windows. The $2,187 house stood on an acre in South Moline Township and initially had four rooms, an outhouse, and a well, but no bathroom, basement, or garage. Her father built a basement. A family of ten shared the small house, with the girls' living-room beds put away each morning and Grandpa Williams living there until his death in 1953.
- The Garden That Fed the FamilyThe orchard and garden supplied fruit, berries, and vegetables that Carol's mother preserved for winter, with help from Grandpa Williams and Iris. Carol recalls shelling peas, snapping beans, apple pies, and the sound of canning lids sealing. About 1950, she helped her father prepare tomatoes for sale to Sam Gnatovich at three dollars a bushel and kept the proceeds. Her father later sold the garden land to George and Evelyn Sajben. In later years, family members could not reproduce their mother's dill pickles and suspected her well water made the difference.
- Washday Work and the Wonder of the MangleCarol recalls the all-day weekly laundry routine, usually on Monday, for a household of ten. Mom used a wringer washing machine, reused the wash water, and rinsed clothes in two tubs with bluing and Borax among her laundry supplies. She carried wet laundry upstairs to hang outside, arranging sheets to hide underwear, or dried it in the basement during winter or rain. Clothes were folded away or dampened for later ironing, and clean sheets marked the end of a hard day's work. One year Grandpa Williams bought Mom a mangle, and the children were so impressed that they fought over turns helping iron.
- Gramps’s Helping Hands and Generous HeartCarol recounts Edward Williams’s birth, marriage to Agnes Tomitum, and family losses. After Agnes died of tuberculosis, he raised Mom and Lloyd alone and moved with them to Moline in 1925. Despite arguments with Daddy over drinking, Gramps was a valued family helper. He contributed two thousand dollars for a house addition, worked in the garden, helped with canning and childcare, and paid for Mom’s false teeth and occasional dresses. Mom’s “good” dresses for 500 Club meetings were cotton housedresses costing two dollars and seventy-nine cents in J. C. Penney’s basement.
- Experimental Treatment for Grandpa’s Injured LegWhile working as a fireman at Herman Nelson in downtown Moline, Grandpa Williams accidentally stepped into a vat of lye, severely burning and eating away the skin and flesh of his leg. Doctors used ACTH and Cortisone, described as experimental drugs at the time, to heal it. The Dispatch published an article about the treatment; Carol thinks it is in the family scrapbook.
- Mom's Kitchen, Backyard Roasts, and a Special Sunday DinnerCarol recalls homemade meals, sweets, Friday-night treats, and bedtime snacks, including Lloyd teaching the children to dunk peanut butter sandwiches into cocoa. She remembers coloring margarine and refusing ten cents to eat liver. After the move to 39th Street, Mom raised chickens, Bob had a pig, and Grandpa Williams raised rabbits. Watching a chicken being killed terrified Carol, though chicken dinners and competing for the wishbone were memorable. Daddy prepared backyard wiener roasts. Restaurant meals never occurred and dinner invitations were rare, making a Sunday ham dinner with Ruth and Tom Johnson especially memorable.
- Woodland Nuts and a Buttery TreatThe family regularly went into the woods to gather black walnuts and hickory nuts, then dried them on the garage roof. Grandpa Williams spent evenings removing the nuts from their shells, and Mom baked them with butter and salt.
- Mom’s Records and a Lifetime of DevotionCarol recounts Ethel's birth in Newburg and her search for baptismal records when she needed a passport to visit Carol in Germany. The record supplied the spelling Kathrine, listed her father's first name as Edwin rather than the family's remembered Edward, and revealed a birth year of 1911 rather than 1909. Her already-engraved grave marker would remain incorrect, but she enjoyed learning she was two years younger. Carol also honors her mother's tireless work caring for the family, her support and guidance, and her life without an outside job after her first baby or learning to drive.
- Canning Shelves and Grandpa's Special Sausage CrockMom preserved the garden and orchard harvest every year with help from Grandpa Williams and Iris, reusing hundreds of jars. Jelly was sometimes sealed with paraffin or covered with waxed paper and a rubber band. Dad built basement shelves like library stacks; jars sometimes spoiled and exploded, especially peas. Iris recalled catsup, spiced pork, pepper hash, and cabbage and cucumber relish. Bernie remembered pork sausage and sage patties preserved under solidified pork grease in a decorated gray crock on the cold porch. Made especially for Grandpa Williams, the patties were eaten cold straight from the grease. Bernie still has the crock.
- Little Glimpses of an Early ChildhoodBernie recalls playing with the rubber buttons on his sun suit, a vague sensation of bouncing on Grampa’s Williams’ knee, a humming red top, and a wooden duck toy. He does not remember his birthplace house, but introduces the fragmented memories of the family's second house at 127 35th Street as material for a poem.
- The Little House That Grew with the FamilyBernard remembers the small house on 39th Street that became the family's enduring home. He believes Mom secured the loan to move the children away from the river and railroad tracks. Dad gradually transformed the four-room house with a basement, furnace, well, enlarged kitchen, bedrooms, indoor plumbing, siding, garage, and work shed. Memories of moving day, Grampa's songs and knee rides, the McFarlands, and freedom to play convey the deep closeness of the family.
- The Homestead's Shade, Blossoms, and Sweet FruitBernard recalls the elm Dad called a Piss Elm, which survived the children's climbing and sheltered Grampa Williams's food preparation and the girls' summer activities. He describes favorite bushes, rhubarb, poplars, mulberries across the road on Britz’s side, colorful flowers, and unusual garden crops. He remembers stomachaches from overeating mulberries and ends by joking that the homestead's fauna consisted of children.
- Karo Cans and Grampa's Free Berry PatchesAfter harvesting the black raspberry patch near the outhouse, the children wore long sleeves and followed Grampa to wild raspberry and blackberry patches in the woods. Empty Karo Syrup cans hung around their necks left both hands free for picking. One year's blackberry harvest was so large that Grampa sold berries house to house to rich people in Villa Park.
- Summer Baseball on Grampa's Philco RadioBernard remembers adoring Grampa Williams and following him as a toddler. His most vivid memories include Grampa's accident and death in his arms, but especially summer days when Grampa listened to baseball at the kitchen table while Mom ironed and listened too. Grampa meticulously recorded games and players on cardboard from Shredded Wheat boxes, saving every score card. The sounds of baseball broadcasts still bring Bernard an immediate, fond memory of Grampa.
- Family Remedies and Memories of Childhood IllnessBernard recalls ringworm treatments for himself and Bob, crediting Daddy's use of Kerodin with becoming a standard treatment after the Arp doctors heard of it. He remembers Daddy's foot fungus and recurring malaria, Gramps's weather-sensitive rheumatism, and Mom deliberately exposing the children to whooping cough. Despite saying he cannot remember childhood sickness, he recalls ringworm, measles, and chicken pox. Other memories include Mom's sewing injuries, sunburn and bursitis, his own dog-bite scar, a girl's scarlet fever that he tentatively attributes to Carol, and the family's belief that childhood vegetables would protect them from cancer.
- Toasted Nuts and Grandpa's Remembered RhymesIris remembers Grandpa Williams spending hours at the basement workbench cracking nuts gathered in the fall, using the metal shoe last Daddy used to resole shoes. After supper, Mom toasted the nut meats with salt and butter in a tin pie pan. The family enjoyed them around the kitchen table while Grandpa recited long limericks from memory, some sad and some funny. Iris regrets not recognizing the importance of preserving this old family tradition.
- Penny Candy, Hollyhock Dolls, and Front-Porch DaysIris recalls a small grocery store in a converted home's front room across from 1015 29th Street, where bread, milk, and penny candy were available. Living between the river and railroad tracks, the family received visits from hobos seeking food, and Mom shared despite the family's own limited supplies. Grandpa gathered dandelion greens for Mom to cook in bacon drippings. Iris remembers River Drive, Dad's beloved Model T Ford, a short-lived rabbit hutch, and making dolls from hollyhock blossoms beside the garage. One summer she badly hurt her knee falling from her bicycle on a black-cinder-covered street and spent long days recovering on the porch swing and cutting paper dolls. After Carol's birth, Mom was ill and weak for a long time; Iris tentatively recalls Grandpa being there part of the time and remembers Uncle Lloyd's brief visits. Grandpa Williams and Dad exchanged sharp words, while Saturday evenings also brought card games with Mom, Dad, and friends.
- A Frightened Train Ride to Grandma's QuiltsWhile Agnes was in a sanitarium, Ethel and Lloyd traveled fearfully by train to spend four or five months with Michael and Millisa Lehman in Astoria. Lizzie was remembered for her quilts and Michael for strict discipline. Ethel did not question the difference between her father's surname and theirs; Mary later told her the unspecified “bigamy” story after Iris' birth in 1930.
- Loss and Growing Up Too SoonRalph died of double pneumonia despite a snowstorm sleigh journey to hospital and a blood transfusion. Agnes died in 1922 after tuberculosis and complications from swine flu. Ed moved Ethel and Lloyd to a boarding house run by Mrs. Howe. As he began drinking heavily, eleven-year-old Ethel took on care for herself, Lloyd and her father. Ed continued managing a diner and dance hall; Ethel recalled being caught by him kissing a dance partner in a car.
- Gathering the Family's Memories, Facts, and First-Class MythsBernie introduces accounts of Floyd, Ethel, and Edward Williams compiled after family members had already written their memories. Earlier impressions were deliberately left unchanged. Bernie credits relatives' recollections, photographs, grave-site work, genealogical tracing, and oral-history interviews, including Diana's margarita-assisted conversations with Mom. Although initially described as true stories based on the most reliable information available, the accounts are also explicitly called anecdotal, possibly allegorical, and unprovable.
- Red Hair, Handmade Knickers and North Dakota SnowEthel's early life in Newburg included a comfortable home, her Norwegian immigrant mother's skilled sewing, and harsh winters. Agnes made her knickers from a catalog picture, making her the first girl in school to wear them. Ethel remembered tunneling through snow to the barn, skiing over fences to school and learning to walk on tiny snowshoes.
- The Lehman Family's Dunker RootsEdward Williams was born Emanuel (Manny) Lehman near Astoria in 1882, to Pennsylvania Dutch parents Michael and Lizzie Lehman. They owned a large farm in the Dunkers' community and reportedly had migrated from Hershey, Pennsylvania. The passage traces the Church of the Brethren from eight members in Germany in 1708 through persecution, refuge in Holland, and settlement in Pennsylvania, describing its baptismal practice, pacifism, simple living, and opposition to slavery. Emanuel's siblings were Mary, Henry, and Harvey.
- Manny's Forbidden DanceAs a teenager, Emanuel defied his father's religious prohibition on dancing to accompany a girl he admired. His father sent him to a distant farm for intensely hard labor to end his 'dancin’ phase.' The family account says the girl never married.
- From the Sunshine Store to a New NameManny and Harvey owned a successful hardware and grocery business in Astoria. According to an account Ethel reported long after his death, Manny discovered his young bride with another man, beat the man, allegedly burned the house, and fled after withdrawing half the store cash and bank savings. In Newburg he worked on a wheat farm, then managed a lumberyard with an attached restaurant and dance hall, subsequently becoming its accountant and prospering. Between 1905 and 1910 he adopted the name Edward Williams. The passage offers speculative explanations involving prosecution or bigamy when he married Agnes Tomitum, while stating that secret correspondence with Harvey revealed that the assaulted man had survived.
- Brownie’s Dancing Days and a Lifetime of MotheringDespite grief at home and being refused a college education, Ethel found happiness in friends, dancing, and work. Mary Hill introduced her to Floyd, whom she married in 1928. Together they raised seven children, while Ethel survived a serious goiter and worked several jobs. In widowhood she enjoyed crafts, cards, grandchildren, and travel, including a cherished 1979 European holiday funded by Bernie. She died during a visit to Diana in 1988, remembered for her unqualified love.
- Uncle Lloyd’s Visits and Cocoa-Dunked SandwichesLloyd moved to Moline, married and divorced, and later lived in Savannah, Illinois. His Army Signal Corps service included injuries during an amphibious landing in New Guinea, followed later by lung surgeries. The account says a 1965 surgery kept him from his father's funeral, although Ed's death is elsewhere dated 1953. Lloyd eventually disappeared from the family's lives, but his beloved visits left a lasting breakfast tradition of sandwiches dunked in cocoa.
- Grampa’s Helping Hands at the House on 39th StreetEd Williams became a permanent member of Ethel and Floyd's household around 1934, helping raise seven children and handling housework, gardening, and canning. He contributed earnings and savings toward enlarging the house. A severe acid burn at work ended his later employment, though treatment healed his leg. The family remembered his affection and help, alongside episodes when Floyd had to retrieve him after drinking. He died of a heart attack in 1953 and was buried without a headstone.
- Red Hair, Snowshoes, and a Mother’s Handmade KnickersEthel’s early life in Newburg combined material comfort and her Norwegian mother’s skilled sewing with severe winters. Ralph’s death and Agnes’ tuberculosis disrupted the family, sending Ethel and Lloyd on a frightening train journey to their grandparents in Astoria. After Agnes died, Ed’s grief and drinking left young Ethel caring for her family. Friends and dancing brought happiness, but her father refused her wish to attend college and sent her to work.
- Dances, Seven Children, and Grampa’s Helping HandsAfter moving to Moline, Ethel met Floyd through Mary Hill and married him in 1928. They raised seven children, while Ethel worked several jobs and survived goiter surgery. Ed became a permanent member of their household, contributing childcare, housework and money, despite drinking and a serious workplace injury. Lloyd served in the Army Signal Corps, suffered lasting injuries and eventually lost contact with the family, leaving fond memories and a cocoa-dunking breakfast tradition. The passage gives conflicting dates for Ed’s death and funeral.
- Manny's Family and Their Dunker RootsEdward Williams was born Emanuel (Manny) Lehman near Astoria in 1882 to Michael and Lizzie Lehman. The passage describes the Church of the Brethren's origins, persecution, migration, baptismal practices, and simple pacifist beliefs. A living Lehman relative said Manny's parents migrated from Hershey, Pennsylvania to Astoria, where they owned a large farm. Manny had a sister Mary and brothers Henry and Harvey.
- A Dance and a Father's Hard LessonAs a teenager, Manny attended a dance with a girl despite his father's objections and the religious prohibition on dancing. The next day his father sent him to a distant farm for intensely hard labor to end his 'dancin’ phase.' The girl reportedly never married.
- From the Sunshine Store to a New NameManny and Harvey owned the successful Sunshine Store in Astoria. According to a later report by his daughter Ethel, Manny discovered his first bride with another man about six months after they were betrothed, beat the man, and allegedly burned the house after ordering his wife outside. He took half the store cash and bank savings and fled by train to Newburg. There he worked as a wheat farmhand, then managed a lumberyard with an attached restaurant and dance hall, and subsequently became its accountant. He changed his name to Edward Williams between 1905 and 1910. The family speculates about avoiding prosecution or a bigamy charge when marrying Agnes Tomitum, while stating that secret correspondence with Harvey revealed the other man had survived and the first wife had disappeared.
Referenced in
- Barbara's Chapter — LIVING ARRANGEMENTS
- Diana's Chapter — FAMILY MEMORIES
- Dee's Chapter
- Dee's Chapter — GRAMPA WILLIAMS
- Carol's Chapter — HOME
- Carol's Chapter — HOME
- Carol's Chapter — GRAMPS
- Carol's Chapter — A PET
- Carol's Chapter — PICNICS
- Carol's Chapter — DANCE WITH ME
- Bob's Chapter
- Bernie's Chapter
- Bernie's Chapter — THIRTY-TWO-O-NINE
- Bernie's Chapter — FLORA AND FAUNA
- Bernie's Chapter — CARICATURES
- Bernie's Chapter — GRAMPA
- Bernie's Chapter — W. W. II
- Bernie's Chapter — MALADIES
- Iris's Chapter — GRANDPA WILLIAMS
- Iris's Chapter — LITTLE REMEMBRANCES
- Iris's Chapter — DEAR JEFF,
- History of the Guild Family — EDWARD WILLIAMS
- History of the Guild Family — ETHEL KATHERINE WILLIAMS
- History of the Guild Family — ETHEL KATHERINE WILLIAMS
- History of the Guild Family — EDWARD WILLIAMS
- History of the Guild Family — ETHEL KATHERINE WILLIAMS
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