Bernie's Chapter · 1988 meeting; 1982 departure; 1993 death (dates as written)
Remembering Life and Travels with Larry
told by Bernard James Guild
After recalling about sixteen years living with Rick, Bernard describes meeting Larry Savitz on a Caribbean cruise with Rick in 1988. Larry brought singing, friendships, sign language, dancing, parties, and cruises into Bernard’s life. Especially treasured were visits to Larry’s Uncle Irv’s beach-view condo in Aculpolco. Bernard also states that Larry returned to Philadelphia in 1982, contradicting the meeting date. Larry died there of AIDS in 1993, and Bernard remembers him with affection.
In the family's own words
Rick and I lived together for about sixteen years before we decided to go our own ways. Later, in 1988, I met Larry Savitz, a nice Jewish boy, while on a cruise with Rick in the Caribbean. Larry lived in Miami at the time. Larry was a graduate of Penn State in Hotel Management and ran a large restaurant in a luxury retirement home in San Francisco. He sang at a professional level and had zillions of friends, including a host of deaf friends, which is why he and I learned sign language. Larry lived with me only a short time, but it was a wild and crazy period of my mid-life. We did a lot of night clubbing and disco dancing and had big parties and went on many cruises. My best-remembered times with Larry were our trips to Aculpolco, where Larry’s Uncle Irv, who once owned much of the property the Atlantic City casinos are built on, had a Hindenberg-sized condo with a beach view and a year-round staff of servants. We got to use it whenever Uncle Irv wasn’t there. Very wonderful. Larry lived with me until 1982 when he returned to his family home in Philadelphia. I’m so sorry to say Larry died there of AIDS in 1993. Everyone should have at least one Larry in their life.
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