Iris's Chapter
Mom’s Patient Listening and Labors of Love
told by Iris Lee Guild Retzlaff
Iris remembers calling Mom with complaints and receiving the patient reply, “I don’t know what to say about that.” Mom never took sides, talked behind anyone’s back, or told secrets. Iris also praises her baking, especially with yeast, and recalls learning crocheting, cooking, and clothes-making from her. She fondly remembers Mom working late at night at an old treadle sewing machine in the kitchen to finish something needed the next day.
In the family's own words
I’d call Mom and be complaining about something or someone and her reply, after listening patiently, would always be, “I don’t know what to say about that.” She never took sides, never talked behind anyone’s back, and never told secrets. Quite a lady, that one! She could bake anything and was just very good with anything made from yeast. That’s a talent in itself. Mom taught me how to crochet as well as cook and make my own clothes. I’ll always remember her late at night in the kitchen with that old treadle sewing machine finishing up something one of us just had to have the next day. A labor of love.
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