Delores Ann Guild Comstock
known as Dee, Pudge, Sputnik, Gramma Dee
also written Delores Ann, Pudge, Sputnik, Gramma Dee, Delores, Baby Delores, Delores Ann Guild Comstock backstop, Dee in the book
Biography
Third daughter and fifth child of seven; weighed a little over seven pounds at birth. Her mother chose Delores Ann despite her father's wish to name the children after his siblings. Grampa Williams called her Pudge; Bernie said this was because of her pudgy cheeks and deep dimples as a toddler. Her father called her Sputnik after the first satellite in space. Grandchildren Bryce Elizabeth and Annah Lucille call her Gramma Dee. Narrator of the chapter. Fifth child in the stated birth order. Secretly felt she was Daddy’s favorite girl. Spent hours watching him work in his shed and helping shell popcorn and pick walnut meats in the basement. Attributes her handiness, patience, and perfectionism to her upbringing. Chapter narrator. Recalled lunches with Mom at Lagomarcino’s, wearing a straight bob or banana curls, and refusing to go to school after a home perm made her hair too curly. Narrator of the chapter. Remembers plucking chickens, Sunday meals, household chores, and finding mouse droppings among hand-me-down clothes in the attic. Narrator of Dee's Chapter. Recalled having her hand and arm pulled through the laundry ringer while helping Mom; Mom quickly released its top, and she was more startled than hurt. Chapter narrator. Recalls playing Canasta with Mrs. Nicholson, family games, and watching her parents play poker. Narrator of Dee's Chapter; recalls childhood Saturday routines. Parents are referred to only as Dad and Mom. Narrator of Dee's Chapter; recalls Mom's annual spring cleaning. Narrator of the chapter; recalls Mom sewing clothing for the girls. Narrator of Dee's Chapter. Recalls eating an apple butter sandwich every day after school. Narrator of the chapter. Continued the Christmas stocking fruit tradition with her daughter and grandchildren. Her parents are referred to only as Mom, Dad, and Daddy in this passage. Occupation also recorded as “Hairdresser in her own salon” (Dee's Chapter). Narrator. Says she married and had a child and later refers to her daughter, without naming her. Collected natural materials with Carol and Mom for Mom's crafts. After Daddy died, took Mom on Tuesday outings for hair appointments, lunch, banking, and grocery shopping. Narrator. Grampa called her “Pudge” because of her dimpled, baby-fat cheeks. She remembers sitting on his lap and swinging on his leg. She was at home when he suffered a fatal heart attack. Education also recorded as “Attended junior high school; recalls receiving an oral polio vaccine there.” (Dee's Chapter). Narrator of the chapter. Recalls childhood quarantine, preventive medicines, vaccinations, tonsil removal, and painful dental care that made dental visits difficult in adulthood. Education also recorded as “Attended kindergarten at Roosevelt school; recalls clothing worn on the first day of her freshman year.” (Dee's Chapter). Narrator. Names Annah as her youngest granddaughter and Bryce as another granddaughter. Recalls a first ear operation, fear of large dogs, being bitten by Hannah’s dog, and a lifelong dislike of arguing. Pat McFarland was her best friend. Education also recorded as “Received speech lessons in first grade; attended a special school for the hearing-impaired for one school year beginning in fourth grade, then returned to regular school. Missed school during ear treatment and repeated fifth grade.” (Dee's Chapter). Born with a deformed left ear without an ear-canal opening or eardrum. Reports subsequent significant hearing loss in her right ear from the strain of hearing for both ears. Underwent reconstructive surgery at about eleven and received her first hearing aid at twelve. Daddy nicknamed her “Sputnik.” Diana helped her accept her hearing impairment. Occupation also recorded as “Sold flower seeds door to door, babysat, and worked summers at the Tasty Treat root beer stand; describes a rewarding career following beauty school.” (Dee's Chapter). Education also recorded as “Graduated from the newly built Moline High School in 1959; an average student with straight A’s in art. Won a three-hundred-dollar scholarship and enrolled at Hurley’s Beauty School.” (Dee's Chapter). Member of the Peppy Steppers 4-H club. Describes being shy in junior high, enjoying school dances, and having her first crush on Merle Ericson as a sophomore. Mentions an unnamed daughter. Credits Mom’s creativity and Dad’s ingenuity. Occupation also recorded as “Hairdresser; founder of Dee’s Beauty Salon” (Dee's Chapter). Education also recorded as “Graduated from Hurley’s six months later; the reference point is not given in this passage.” (Dee's Chapter). Describes thirty-five years of hairdressing. Married to Ernie for thirteen years and divorced February 4, 1977; had not remarried at the time of writing. Grandmother of Annah and Bryce. Enjoys gardening, 'junking,' making costumes for her granddaughters, and restoring antique furniture. Narrator. Was two years old when the family moved into the house. Recalls climbing orchard trees, owning a black-and-white rabbit, and spending time with her father in his workshed. Later worked to preserve the house and landscaped the yard with her daughter. Narrator of Dee's Chapter. Expresses a philosophy of seeing people as spirits, bringing others happiness, and loving and helping family members through life's difficulties. Identified as the chapter's narrator; signs this tribute to her unnamed mother and father as “Your daughter, Delores.” Identified as the chapter narrator. Signs the tribute 'Love you, Dee' and compares Barbara to 'our mom.' Identified as the chapter's teller; signs the poem to Diana 'With Love, Dee.' Recalls shared games and values their conversations. Author of the tribute to Carol. She and Carol cared for their mother in her later years. The sisters now live miles apart. Identified as the teller of Dee's Chapter; signs the tribute to Bob 'Love, Dee.' Author of the poem signed "With love, Dee," describing a visit to her brother Bernie in San Francisco. Chapter narrator and author of the tribute to Iris, signed “Love, Dee.” occupation also recorded as “Summer employee at Tasty Treat drive-in.” in the book. education also recorded as “Attended beauty school; Diana was her first customer.” in the book. Merlin visited her in Moline. She told Barbara to watch for Merlin's habit of placing his finger by his nose, like Daddy. Slept on a roll away bed in the living room. Fixed and sometimes cut Barbara’s hair before school. Described as next to Barbara on her staircase. Suggested writing names on the garage with charcoal. Enjoyed Canasta and 500 Rummy; described as a sweet playmate and peacekeeper. Hid under an army blanket to enter the Milan drive-in free. Saved the most tomato-sale money and held it longest. Some evergreen trees planted by Diana remain in Dee’s yard. Inseparable from Carol as a child. Did Carol's hair for thirty-five years. Carol describes feeling almost as though Dee were her twin; their actual relationship is not explicitly stated. Sat with Carol and Diana on the bench at the meal table. Was left doing the Sunday dishes with the narrator while Bob snapped towels at them. Secretly arranged for a friend to refurbish Carol's childhood doll and surprised Carol with it on her birthday about 1986. Her relationship to Carol is not stated. Attended White Eagle 4-H Camp with Carol and Eilene Peterson. Carol's mother made halter tops for all three. Devoted her Tuesday day off to Mom, shampooing and setting her hair, taking her to lunch, shopping, and running errands. The family home is described as “now Dee’s house.” Played Jacks with Carol and Diana. The passage does not explicitly identify Dee as Delores. Ethel took in Dee and Susy after Dee's divorce. Not explicitly equated with another named person. Ethel took in Dee and Susy after Dee’s divorce. Not explicitly equated with another named person. One of the sisters Barbara asked to see for comfort in Kindergarten. Born after Carol. Shared the living-room couch bed with Carol and Diana. Listed among the family members; age 21 on the day of the photographs. Mommy goes away and returns with Baby Delores; Daddy comes home with ice cream. Had the narrator draw Hopscotch court patterns in chalk on the sidewalk or with a stick in the dirt. Initially thought to be stubborn and disobedient. Discovery of her hearing problem brought relief and regret over the scolding she had received. Listed between Carol and Diana in birth order, with births described as about eighteen months apart. One of Ed's favorite grandchildren. Passage does not explicitly identify her as Dee. One of Ed’s favorite grandchildren. The passage does not explicitly identify Dee as Delores.
Timeline
November 1, 1940
Birth of DELORES ANN GUILD COMSTOCK
The GuildsNOVEMBER FIRST, NINETEEN FORTY
Birth of Delores Ann
Born the third daughter and fifth child of seven, weighing a little over seven pounds. Her mother named her Delores Ann.
Dee's Chapter1949
Diana’s leg operation and the first television
Mom and Dad went to Chicago for Diana’s leg operation and returned with the family’s first black-and-white TV.
Dee's Chapter1959
Graduation from the new Moline High School
Attended the newly built school during her senior year and graduated as an average student with straight A’s in art.
Dee's ChapterContest entered during the later part of senior year; award discovered after graduation
Winning essay and beauty school enrollment
Won a three-hundred-dollar scholarship for an essay about expressing artistic ability through hair design. Initially describes composing it with Diana’s help, then credits Diana with writing it. Discovered the award notice among stored papers and enrolled.
Dee's ChapterFebruary 4, 1977
Divorce from Ernie
The narrator describes her bubble bursting and says she had not remarried at the time of writing.
Dee's ChapterAbout 1986, on Carol's birthday
Dee surprises Carol with her restored doll
Dee secretly had a friend refurbish the doll, then put it on a stand and gave it to Carol as a birthday surprise.
Carol's ChapterJust before the 1996 Normal visit
Merlin visits Dee
Barbara's Chapterdate not given
Barbara starts Kindergarten
Barbara cried daily and asked for her sisters to comfort her before eventually adjusting.
Barbara's Chapterdate not given
Daddy names Delores Sputnik
Floyd gave the narrator the nickname Sputnik in the shed where she spent hours watching him work.
Dee's Chapterdate not given
A cherished western hunting trip
Floyd went deer hunting, shot an elk, brought it home, and had it dressed out. Ethel would have nothing to do with it; Delores never knew what happened to the meat.
Dee's ChapterDays later, after Dad insisted on seeing Bill
A deathbed request to care for Ethel
Bill visited Floyd, who wanted to make sure he would “take care of Ethel.” Delores admired her father’s devotion to her mother.
Dee's ChapterAs the girls were growing up
An entire day of Toni home perms
Mom and Virginia gave the girls Toni home perms. The narrator refused to attend school the following day because her hair was too curly.
Dee's Chapterdate not given
A frightening laundry ringer accident
While helping Mom guide clothes through the ringer, the narrator's hand and arm were pulled through. Mom released the top very quickly; the narrator recalled being more startled than hurt.
Dee's ChapterDuring the narrator's junior high years
Bob's first car becomes a ride to school
The narrator and other children walked to junior high until Bob got his first car and drove them.
Dee's ChapterFridays
Friday shopping and poker routine
Housecleaning and family grocery shopping preceded a pancake, bacon, and egg supper and poker with company, usually the Cordinglys.
Dee's ChapterSometimes, on Saturday afternoons
Saturday afternoon double features
The family went to movies, usually double features; Dad provided thirty-five cents for a movie and snack.
Dee's ChapterSaturday nights
Saturday bath night
Mom bathed the children in a gray metal tub, tended their nails, and shampooed and curled their hair in preparation for Sunday School.
Dee's ChapterSaturday nights; hot summer nights
Saturday snacks and summer sleeping arrangements
Mom made buttered, salted popcorn or fudge after baths. In summer heat, the children slept on a white sheet on the living room rug with a fan blowing.
Dee's Chapterdate not given
Christmas stocking fruit tradition passed down
The narrator continued Daddy's stocking orange tradition with her daughter and grandchildren, adding an apple, an orange, and a walnut, and perhaps black coal in memory of her Dad.
Dee's ChapterEarly childhood
Charcoal names on the garage lead to punishment
Dee, Barb, and Diana wrote names on the garage, then threw rocks and a brick at Carol after she threatened punishment. Their father spanked them and made them clean the garage.
Diana's ChapterWhen Dee went to beauty school
Dee practices beauty-school skills on Diana
Diana was Dee’s first customer and recalls that Dee wrecked her hair.
Diana's ChapterHigh school
Diana plants a flower garden
Wanting to beautify the house, Diana planted a garden her father tilled behind the garage. Mrs. Rohrer supplied perennial starts. Tiny mail-order evergreen starts mostly survived; some remained in Dee’s yard.
Diana's ChapterAfter Iris was married
Christmas Eve gatherings at Iris's larger home
The growing family celebrated Christmas Eve at Iris's house because it was bigger. The narrator remembers presents piled up to the ceiling.
Dee's ChapterEvery year at Easter
Family Easter traditions
Egg coloring and hunts, new Sunday clothes, Sunday school, and a large homemade dinner.
Dee's ChapterAfter Dad died
Gathering materials for Mom's crafts
The narrator and Carol took the children nature hunting with Mom to collect pine cones, acorns, nuts, and other materials for her Nature Trees.
Dee's Chapterdate not given
The narrator's marriage
The narrator says she married and had a child; her spouse is not named.
Dee's Chapterdate not given
The narrator worked in her salon
Worked as a hairdresser in her own salon.
Dee's ChapterTuesdays and Saturdays, after Daddy died
Weekly care and lunches with Mom
The narrator took Mom for hair appointments and errands on Tuesdays; Carol handled errands on Saturdays. Mom treated each to lunch.
Dee's ChapterSunday
Grampa's sudden heart attack
Grampa collapsed in the hallway from a massive heart attack and died immediately. Delores was at home and watched in panic as the ambulance took him away.
Dee's Chapterwhen Barbara was just a baby
Barbara's scarlet fever and household quarantine
Health inspectors posted a red QUARANTINE sign on the house. The narrator recalls preventive medicine and thinks Daddy stayed elsewhere because he needed to work.
Dee's ChapterIn junior high school
Oral polio vaccination at junior high school
Students lined up at tables in the gymnasium to receive an oral polio vaccine.
Dee's Chapterbefore we started school
Smallpox vaccination before starting school
The narrator recalls required smallpox vaccinations that left scars, which she compared with friends.
Dee's ChapterOne day
Children's same-day tonsil removals
The children went to the hospital together and had their tonsils removed by Dr. Menton, one by one, without needing to be sick.
Dee's Chapterdate not given
Painful childhood dental treatment
Following school dental checks, Mom selected a dentist whose rough and painful treatment contributed to the narrator's difficulty seeking dental care as an adult.
Dee's ChapterWhen the narrator was two or three years old
Punishment for peeling airplane wallpaper
After she peeled wallpaper during a nap, Mom turned her highchair away from the dinner table and did not let her eat dinner.
Dee's ChapterWhen the narrator was about six or seven
A frightening first memory of The Wizard of Oz
Virginia drove the children to the movie. Frightened by the Wicked Witch, the narrator later slept between Virginia and Dale.
Dee's ChapterChildhood
Virginia’s ketchup prank
Virginia put ketchup on the narrator’s arm so she could pretend to be bleeding; the children laughed when they discovered the joke.
Dee's ChapterThe narrator’s first ear operation
Paper dolls during the first ear operation
Iris bought the narrator especially beautiful paper dolls.
Dee's Chapterdate not given
Learning to bicycle with a new leg
The children taught “Diana Banana” to ride a bicycle with her new leg.
Dee's ChapterChildhood
A dog bite on the way to Colleen’s
Hannah’s dog bit the narrator while she was riding the family bicycle to Colleen’s house.
Dee's ChapterAfter years of attic storage
Diana’s discarded violin finds another player
Mom discarded the warped violin. Mr. Sajben retrieved and repaired it; his unnamed son learned on it and played it for years. The Sajbens had moved before Margie told the narrator.
Dee's ChapterSummers during childhood; Fourth of July
Summer drive-ins and Fourth of July fireworks
The family brought a blue roaster full of popcorn. Some children sometimes hid to avoid admission charges. Fourth of July visits included fireworks, sparklers, and caps.
Dee's ChapterThe summer the narrator was thirteen
A Chicago museum visit and a new school outfit
Dad took the family to the Museum of Art and Science and shopping in The Loop. The narrator bought a fruit-patterned circle skirt and turquoise blouse that she wore on the first day of her freshman year.
Dee's ChapterThe next trip after Chicago
A visit to Clarence’s farm
Dad took the family to his brother Clarence’s farm. The narrator remembers tractor rides, fresh milk, feather beds, and relatives.
Dee's ChapterFirst day of kindergarten and subsequent school days
Kindergarten tears and warm milk
The narrator cried before boarding the bus and again over warm milk at school, which she refused to drink. She carried a rug for naps and remembers her teacher playing piano.
Dee's ChapterIn first grade
First-grade speech lessons
Received lessons to pronounce her “Rs” and “Ss” more clearly.
Dee's ChapterBeginning in fourth grade; one school year
A year at a school for the hearing-impaired
Attended a special school that mainly tried to teach her lip reading. Felt accepted there, but did not feel the instruction worked well for her, and returned to regular school.
Dee's ChapterAbout eleven years old
Reconstructive ear surgery
Her parents took her to Dr. Williamson, who used skin from both legs to reconstruct her deformed ear and implanted an eardrum. Surgery partially restored hearing.
Dee's ChapterFollowing ear treatment
Repeating fifth grade
Missed substantial school because of her ear treatment and was held back a year.
Dee's ChapterIn fifth grade
Note-passing punishment reduced
A class vote imposed five thousand written repetitions of “I will not pass notes.” Her mother spoke with Mrs. Plumly and had the punishment reduced to five hundred.
Dee's ChapterTwelve years old
Hearing the world with her first hearing aid
After being fitted with her first hearing aid, Delores cried on hearing family conversations, birds, crickets, and locust. The concealable aid prompted Daddy to nickname her “Sputnik.”
Dee's ChapterDuring my teenage years
Peppy Steppers 4-H activities
Learned fringed tablecloth and napkin making, flower arranging, and full circle skirt making.
Dee's Chaptermy very first endeavor
Selling flower seeds for bedroom lamps
Sold flower seeds door to door from a catalog and earned enough to buy two lamps.
Dee's Chapterwhen I was about nine
Iris’s wedding
Dee recalls Iris’s beauty and emerald wedding ring; Iris went to Ruth and Tom Johnson’s to bathe.
Dee's ChapterI must have been in junior high school
A frightening evening babysitting for Iris
Frightened by noises and the large windows overlooking a yard and ravine, Dee closed the drapes and sat with a knife hidden under a sofa cushion. She thinks she babysat for Iris only once.
Dee's ChapterMy junior and senior year
Summer work at Tasty Treat
Dee worked summers and enjoyed unlimited root beer in frosty mugs. Carol worked there briefly.
Dee's ChapterWith our very first paychecks
Pooling first paychecks to redecorate
Bought twin beds with Hollywood frames, turquoise corduroy bedspreads with rolled pillows, a swag lamp, and a round rug. Mom made matching checked gingham curtains.
Dee's ChapterMy very first patron in beauty school
First beauty school patron requests pin curls
Despite learning modern roller setting, Dee accommodated a patron’s insistence on pin curls. The pleased patron made another appointment.
Dee's Chaptersix months later
Graduation from Hurley’s
The starting point for the six-month interval is not stated in this passage.
Dee's ChapterAfter graduating from Hurley’s
First hairdressing job at the Powder Puff
Mostly shampooed hair until she established her own clientele.
Dee's ChapterWith her first hairdresser paycheck
A red sweater bought with the first paycheck
Purchased a red turtleneck made from a new synthetic material; still owned and wore it at the time of writing.
Dee's ChapterMarried for thirteen years
Marriage to Ernie Comstock
Their married life included motorcycles, traveling, Susy’s dancing, and the beauty salon.
Dee's ChapterAfter marrying Ernie
Opening Dee’s Beauty Salon
Established Dee’s Beauty Salon and describes immediate success; connects the salon name to her nickname, Dee.
Dee's ChapterWhen the narrator was two years old
Moving into the four-room family house
Eight family members moved into a four-room house with an acre of land. Diana and Barb were born afterward.
Dee's ChapterBy the time of writing
Preserving the house with new siding
With help from her brothers and sisters, the narrator had new siding put on the house. Contractors removed speckled green asphalt siding; the house now has white vinyl siding and hunter-green shutters.
Dee's ChapterBy the time of writing
Landscaping a bird and butterfly sanctuary
Mother and daughter landscaped the entire yard by hand and were adding butterfly-attracting flowers and shrubs. Tagging Monarchs and following their migration to Mexico was a hope for the next season, not a completed activity.
Dee's Chapterin her later years
Sisters care for their mother
Dee and Carol cared for their mother, providing steady support and bringing her cheer through visits and talks.
Dee's Chapterdate not given
Dee visits Bernie in San Francisco
Dee visits her brother's Victorian home, enjoys his conversation and an outing to an old-time ice cream parlor, and leaves by trolley car.
Dee's Chapterdate not given
Camping at White Eagle 4-H Camp
A week of rustic camping with tents, river swimming, crafts, campfire songs, and S’mores. It rained all week.
Carol's ChapterSummer between her junior and senior years in high school
Carol’s first part-time job at Tasty Treat
Mrs. Poston cooked and Carol delivered food on trays hooked to car windows. Carol says they made about seventy dollars plus tips that summer.
Carol's ChapterEvery Tuesday
Dee makes Mom “Queen for a Day”
On her day off, Dee shampooed and set Mom's hair, took her to lunch, and accompanied her shopping and on errands.
Carol's ChapterAt Christmas; on Carol’s 23rd birthday
Family portraits during Bernie's Christmas visit
Bernie photographed the family with a borrowed Leica camera against orange and green fabric in the girls’ bedroom.
Carol's ChapterLater that day
Carol’s 23rd birthday celebration
The family celebrated Carol’s 23rd birthday after the portrait session.
Carol's ChapterAlmost immediately after the purchase and over the years
Making the small house into a lasting home
Dad raised the house and built a basement, chimney, and water system, then enlarged the kitchen and added bedrooms and indoor plumbing. Bob and the narrator helped a little with the bedrooms; Grampa is remembered helping with the early garden and basement work. Later came green asphalt siding, a new garage, and a work shed. The chicken coop became a playhouse. By the telling, the home was Dee’s and had white siding again with forest-green shutters.
Bernie's ChapterDuring Delores's childhood
Delores's hearing problem is discovered
The discovery explained behavior previously regarded as stubbornness. The family was happy to understand but regretted the scolding Delores had received.
Iris's ChapterAfter Dee's divorce
Ethel welcomes Dee and Susy
Took them in after previously taking in Carol and Chris.
History of the Guild FamilyHigh school years
The sisters sell garden tomatoes
The four girls picked and shined tomatoes, which their father took them to sell at a store’s produce department. They kept earnings in separate kitchen containers; Dee saved the most.
Diana's Chapterdate not given
Mommy comes home with Baby Delores
Mommy goes away and returns with Baby Delores; Daddy returns with ice cream.
Bernie's ChapterAfter all the children had left and Floyd had died
Ethel welcomes family after divorces
Took in Carol and Chris after Carol’s divorce, then Dee and Susy after Dee’s divorce.
History of the Guild Family
Stories mentioning Delores
- Sisters’ Comfort in KindergartenWhen Barbara started Kindergarten at Roosevelt grade school, she cried every day and asked for Diana, Delores or Carol to come comfort her. She eventually adjusted but still missed being with her sisters.
- Merlin's Camper Visit and a Familiar GestureRetired steamship pilot Merlin visited Normal overnight with Dorothy after seeing Dee in Moline. His wife Marilyn had died two years earlier. During his visit he shared family stories, and Barbara noticed the finger-by-the-nose gesture that Dee had said resembled Daddy's.
- Tin-Tub Baths and Saturday Night MoviesBarbara recalls Saturday baths in a kitchen tin tub with stove-heated water before Daddy and the boys built an addition with a bathroom. She describes crowded sleeping arrangements, a two-seater outdoor toilet, brown-painted iron beds, wool army blankets, and chenille bedspreads. Other memories include late Saturday movies while her parents played cards, Sturdevant Milk advertisements, visiting salesmen, and listening in on party-line conversations.
- Treasured Presents, Music, and Bicycle RidesBarbara remembers Iris’s gift of a comic-book subscription and Bernie’s love of Mario Lanza records and thoughtful birthday presents after leaving home. Bob teased her and helped her do flip-overs; she took Carol’s outfits while Carol worked, and Dee styled or cut her hair before school. Barbara played most with Diana, riding bicycles on 39th Street, where a dog once tried to bite Diana but 'got the wrong leg.'
- From Pudge to Gramma DeeDelores recounts her birth as Ethel and Floyd Guild's third daughter and fifth child, her mother's choice of her name, and the nicknames given by her grandfather, father, and grandchildren. Gramma Dee is the name she feels suits her best.
- A Family Remembered with Love and PrideThough her childhood memories are vague, Delores remembers warm and happy feelings. She lovingly describes her grandfather, parents, and six siblings, expressing gratitude for her life and pride in the family her parents created.
- Floyd, Tootsie, and Seven ChildrenDelores remembers her handsome, sociable father and her parents’ dancing at the Coliseum. She recounts the birth order of their seven children, her father naming Iris, and her mother naming the rest. She thought the oldest and youngest were spoiled but secretly believed she was Daddy’s favorite girl.
- Lessons from Daddy’s Shed and GardenDelores spent hours with her inventive father in his shed, where he named her Sputnik and improved tools and Saturday auction finds. His demanding plowshare work at John Deere was followed by meticulous gardening. The children helped harvest and sold polished apples and tomatoes at Sam’s Market, keeping the proceeds. Delores remembers shelling homegrown popcorn and picking walnut meats with him, his humorous nose-straightening pose, his unusual favorite foods, and the elk he brought home from a western hunting trip that her mother refused to use.
- Daddy’s Turn to Enjoy Life and His Last ConcernAfter years of providing for his children, Floyd bought a beloved motor scooter, a turquoise blue Comet, and a travel trailer, despite Ethel wanting nothing to do with them. Three years after retirement he suffered a series of strokes. He wanted to be baptized before dying and to see everyone. Delores recalls his insistence on seeing Iris’ husband Bill so he could ask Bill to take care of Ethel, a devotion she deeply admired.
- Mom’s Lighthearted Memories of North DakotaMom grew up by the Mouse River in North Dakota and told even difficult memories lightheartedly. Blizzards buried the house and required an exit tunnel, but she enjoyed skiing to school, where she did well. She also remembered the deafening arrival of grasshoppers that stripped the countryside of green leaves.
- Switchboard Work and Sweet Memories at LagosBefore marriage, Mom worked in a button factory and then as a telephone operator. A fire at Schmidt Beauty Supply kept her working extra hours transferring calls. Dad courted her at Lagomarcino’s, and after their wedding, with Elva Melton as maid-of-honor and witness, they went to the movies and then to Lagos. Years later, the narrator and Mom lunched there together.
- Flour-Dusted Hands, Pretty Nails, and a Day of CurlsThe narrator remembers Mom’s full-time work at home, her habit of dusting off her hands after tasks, and her lasting pride in her appearance. Susy recalled how Mom displayed polished nails but concealed damaged ones. Mom taught the girls beauty tricks, and she and Virginia spent a whole day giving five girls home perms. The narrator refused school the next day because her hair was too curly, though she later loved curls.
- Sunday Chicken and Cakes from ScratchThe narrator recalls Mom's weekly fried chicken dinners, believing the fresh chickens came from their own chicken house. Daddy dipped the slaughtered chickens in hot water to ease plucking. Ruth Reichenberg's pursuit of a headless chicken frightened the children and became a humorous memory. Mom browned flour-seasoned chicken in a cast-iron skillet before baking it in a blue roaster, serving it with potatoes, gravy, rolls, garden vegetables, and homemade dessert. Carol took charge of desserts when old enough. Everyone ate the same meal at assigned places and on time. Alice Atchison shared memories of coffee-cup measurements and testing oven heat with her hand; the narrator wonders whether Mom used such methods but remembers her insistence on exact measurements except for pie dough.
- Diana, the Dishes, and the Party LineDishwashing was assigned to the girls, never Dad or the boys. The narrator says Mom never had to wash dishes because she had five daughters, then jokes that only four did the work: Diana never washed or dried a dish, being occupied with friends on the telephone, reading in the bathroom, or homework. Their first telephone shared a three-way party line with two other residents; three rings signaled a call for the family. The narrator recalls the possibility of listening to others' conversations and wonders what the other subscribers could have said about Diana's frequent telephone use. The claim that Mom never had to wash dishes contrasts with the subsequent recollection of Mom doing dishes with her parakeet on her shoulder.
- Pretty Bird, Fluffy, and the Attic MiceMom's green parakeet, Pretty Bird, perched on her shoulder while she washed dishes, chirping with the clanking dishes and repeating his name. Mom loved him, but he flew away when the front door was left open. The narrator also remembers Fluffy, a big white cat who chased mice, joking that he kept them from eating Barb. Barb feared the attic mice would climb into her bed, and she and Diana heard them at night. The narrator was more disturbed by mouse droppings found while searching boxes of hand-me-down clothes in the attic.
- Mom's Quiet Hour Before the School-Day RushMom rose early, dressed, got Dad off to work, and packed lunches from supper leftovers. Before the children got up, she enjoyed black coffee, a cigarette, and crocheting doilies that became family treasures. She served hot breakfasts individually around the children's schedules. A timed bathroom routine followed Dad's installation of a new bathroom. The children rode the bus in grade school and walked in junior high until Bob got his first car and drove them. The narrator affectionately marvels at Mom's orderly management of the household.
- Monday Laundry and a Fright at the RingerMonday laundry required Mom to haul well water, heat it on the stove, and carry it to the basement. She washed whites first and Dad's dirtiest clothes last. While helping, the narrator had her hand and arm pulled through the ringer; Mom released the top immediately, leaving her more frightened than hurt. Mom cooked starch, hung loads outside, and folded dry clothes into ten piles. Embroidered initials helped identify underwear and socks, while at least three baskets were sprinkled with water for ironing.
- Thanks for the Memories, BernieBarbara thanks Bernie for encouraging their recollections and says remembering the early years has been fun. She also describes a few of her quilts, her siblings Diana, Bob, Carol, Iris, and Dee on her staircase, and Bernie in his kitchen.
- Strawberry Patches, Saturday Baths, and Childhood PlayDiana recalls Carol’s frightening knee injury, punishment for charcoal writing and throwing rocks, and fear during her mother’s pneumonia. She describes the small house before bedrooms and a bathroom were added, Saturday baths in kitchen tubs, outdoor games, dolls, jump rope, and Jacks. School memories include crying on her first day, health inspections, and a sixth-grade ribbon.
- Seven Children, Shared Adventures, and Sisterly MischiefDiana remembers Iris cutting hair, Bernie rescuing her from punishment and playing records, and Bob driving four younger sisters to school and building an igloo with Billy Johnson. Carol served as a second mother, led 4-H meetings, and accompanied Diana to the State Fair. Dee was a card-playing companion and peacekeeper. Diana and Barb shared sleeping space, television suppers, prank calls, forbidden games, and adventures with Carol’s car. Family outings included the drive-in, ice cream, carnival rides, and drag races.
- A Car for College and a Family That Always HelpedDiana recalls demanding study habits, family gardening and tomato sales, and her anxious departure for college. Iris and Bill’s gift of a car made nursing school feasible. During an earlier John Deere & Company strike, Iris brought groceries when the family lacked money. Diana describes her scholarship, difficult college years, friendship with Martha Kawada, and graduation. Memories of planting a flower garden and helping haul water from the water works lead to gratitude for the family’s enduring support and resourcefulness.
- Tuesday Ironing and the Intriguing MangleMom ironed on Tuesdays, working late at night when the children were young and during the day with their help when they were older. Listening to the radio, she pressed household linens and clothing, including Bob and Bernie's white shirts. Grampa bought her a mangle to ease the workload. The narrator describes its revolving padded barrel, foot pedal, and heating panel, wonders whether it really helped, and remembers that the fascinating machine was strictly off limits to the children.
- Club Days, Secret Pals, and Midnight FriendshipMom’s eight-player club met on the second Wednesday of each month, rotating homes to play 500. Alice Atchison recalled its names changing from the Pregnant Women’s Club to The Hot Flash Club. Mom prepared with meticulous cleaning and dessert making; prizes and annual Secret Pals added to the fun. After Daddy had his stroke, he mistook a Secret Pal card for evidence of a secret lover, a story Mom later told with amusement after his death. In her widowhood, Mom enjoyed supper, cards, and midnight snacks with Ruth, John Reichenberg, and Florence Britz. She also played Euchre through Friend’s Circle and the Community Center, preferring the Circle’s company.
- A Love of Cards Passed DownMom taught the children 500 and Hearts and enjoyed Scrabble with them. The narrator also played Canasta with Mrs. Nicholson, as did Barb, Diana, and neighborhood children, and remembers basement games of 500 Rummy. Adult visits to Mom always included 500 as a way to talk and remember. The tradition reached the grandchildren: Susy recalls Kings Corners, Cribbage, and Bunko with her grandma, Ruth, and Florence.
- Friday’s Shining Floors and Poker NightsFriday began with thorough housecleaning and waxing the kitchen floor. Mom then dressed for grocery shopping at the A&P Store in downtown Moline while Daddy napped in the car and the children chose shopping or the library. Supper was pancakes, bacon, and eggs, followed by hurried dishwashing before poker company arrived. The Cordinglys usually joined Mom and Dad for games played with chips, never money. Drinks, midnight snacks, and Mom’s seemingly tireless work rounded out the weekly routine.
- Saturday Auctions, Peanuts, and Picture ShowsDad, Bernie, and Bob attended Saturday auction sales, bringing home things Dad put to use. Afterwards Dad stopped for beer at a Highland-area tavern while the boys enjoyed peanuts and soda pop. Some Saturday afternoons the family went to the Highland Movie Theatre on 23rd Avenue, usually for a double feature. Dad gave each child thirty-five cents for admission and a snack; Roy Rodgers and Gene Autrey were remembered as popular stars.
- Saturday Baths and Mom's Banana CurlsWith no running water, the family pumped water from an outside well and heated it on the stove. Saturday baths took place in a gray metal tub beside the kitchen heat register, screened by towel-covered chairs. Mom scrubbed the children, cleaned and clipped their nails, shampooed their hair with Halo, and set it in rags for banana curls before Sunday School. Despite over 30 years as a hairdresser, the narrator still marveled at Mom's curls. She also remembered Iris rinsing her hair with lemon juice and brushing it in the sun.
- Buttered Popcorn and Cool Sheets on Summer NightsAfter Saturday baths, Mom served a big blue roaster of popcorn with plenty of butter and salt, or a large batch of fudge on a buttered platter. On hot summer nights she spread a clean white sheet over the living room rug, where the children fell asleep with a fan blowing on them.
- Mom's Top-to-Bottom Spring CleaningEvery late March or early April, after the coal furnace was shut off, Mom scoured the entire house to remove black soot. Curtains were washed and dried outside on an adjustable wooden stretcher fitted with pins. Cupboards were emptied and washed, dishes cleaned, and shelves lined with fresh paper, including decorative scalloped borders. Winter clothes were stored with mothballs and hand-me-downs set aside. Storm windows came down, windows were washed before screens went up, and mattresses, rugs, and the family's one carpet were taken outside and beaten. The narrator remembers that Mom maintained this annual routine throughout her life, whether it was needed or not.
- Mom’s Sewing and a Sewing Machine’s Second LifeMom sewed the girls’ school and Sunday school dresses, full circle skirts, shorts, and halter tops for Camp Shebonie, as well as sewing for the McFarlands. Virginia did Mom’s ironing while she sewed. Delores recalls Mom’s ease and speed at the pedal machine and humorously suggests it helped keep her legs and ankles trim. After Mom replaced her White sewing machine with an electric one and discarded it, Mrs. Poston rescued it and turned it into a marble-topped table for her restaurant, The Hasty Tasty, where the narrator says it remained at the time of telling.
- Summer Nights and Apple Butter SandwichesThe narrator recalls her parents working hard to feed their children: Dad grew vegetables and fruit, and Mom canned over two thousand jars each year around harvest time. Mom worked mostly at night when it was cooler and the children were asleep. The narrator thinks Grampa sometimes stayed up to help. Mom made many preserves, pickles, and canned tomatoes; her apple butter was the narrator's favorite. Thousands of Ball jars and huge crocks filled the basement.
- The Canning Jars Dad Hauled AwayWhile Mom was at card club, Dad decided she would no longer do any canning. He packed up all her jars and large crocks and took them to the junk yard. Mom was furious when he told her, and the narrator is unsure whether she ever forgave him. The narrator reflects that those jars and crocks would be valuable today.
- Christmas Cookies, Stocking Oranges, and a House Full of GiftsDee recalls a Christmas season filled with Mom's cookies, candies, fudge, and carefully chosen gifts. Dad bought the real tree at the last minute; Dee speculates that freshness and fire safety were his reasons. Bernie decorated outstanding cookies and called the children to the window to see Santa, who was always gone before they arrived. Daddy filled stockings with large oranges from Lagomarcino’s, especially treasured during wartime scarcity. Dee carried the fruit tradition forward with Susy and her grandchildren. Carol's Christmas Eve birthday brought a homemade angel food cake, with the leftover yolks used for noodles served with chicken over mashed potatoes. Christmas gifts included homemade clothing, dolls, sleds, BB guns, and school-made presents. Daddy continued Grampa's gift of twelve pairs of stockings to Mom after Grampa died. Dad's insistence on slowly fried mush and his breakfast invitations added to Mom's work while she also prepared turkey dinner. After Iris married, the growing family gathered at her larger house on Christmas Eve, where gifts piled toward the ceiling.
- Easter Eggs, New Bonnets, and Homemade RollsThe narrator remembers coloring three or four dozen eggs, admiring Bernie's beautiful eggs, and racing to find eggs hidden indoors and outside. Mom made new Sunday dresses and spring coats each year, and the girls wore new accessories to wait for the Sunday school bus. A large dinner of ham, deviled eggs, candied yams, and homemade rolls completed a holiday rich in tradition.
- Pine Cones and Christmas TreasuresAfter Dad's death, Mom developed her craftwork, turning the basement into a hobby shop for pinecone wreaths and Nature Trees. Carol and the narrator took their children along to gather natural materials with her. The narrator still collects pine cones for the memories, despite Susy's restraint. Mom later made Christmas ornaments for family and friends, carefully providing one for everyone to choose during holiday visits. A newspaper featured her crafts and tree. The ornaments remain precious reminders of her generosity and love of hard work.
- Tuesday and Saturday with MomThe narrator recalls Mom's busy senior years, her pride in getting seven children through school, and her family, friends, card parties, and crafts. Carol and the narrator stayed in Moline, married, had a child each, and worked at the Moline Dispatch and a beauty salon respectively. After Daddy died, the narrator cared for Mom on Tuesdays and Carol on Saturdays; both followed similar routines of errands and lunches paid for by Mom. The narrator humorously insists Mom's light auburn hair was natural. Mom traveled to visit children from California to Florida and to Germany after Charlie's transfer. Family contributions included clothes from Bob's boutique and goods from Iris and Bill's Ben Franklin store. The narrative closes with gratitude for Mom's care, strength, and devotion, including keeping ten people fed and dressed.
- Pudge's Memories of a Lovable GrampaDelores remembers swinging on Grampa's leg and sitting on his lap. He called her “Pudge” for her dimpled cheeks; Bernie says she was his favorite, probably after Bob. She recalls his horseradish garden and his grinding radishes outdoors because of the smell. She also witnessed his sudden fatal heart attack in the hallway on a Sunday and remembers her panic as the ambulance took him away.
- Grampa's Hard Work and CourageGrampa suffered a serious leg burn after falling into a vat of lye while working nights at a foundry. A newspaper article described a new treatment that healed the burn but left a terrible scar. Delores is unsure whether his cane use was connected. Her mother recalled his taking on the duties of judge, postman and coroner during a Swine Flu epidemic in their North Dakota hometown, apparently immune while many others died. After his wife died of tuberculosis when their daughter was eleven, he raised the daughter alone.
- Family Rumors and Grampa's Hidden WhiskeyDelores cautiously recalls a childhood rumor about Grampa having an affair and burning down a house, explicitly saying she may have the facts wrong. She thinks it was around the time he moved himself and her mother to Moline and changed his name from Lehman to Williams, and suggests Diana may know more. Years after his death, grandchildren digging in cement blocks at the bottom of the basement stairs during a holiday gathering discovered hidden whiskey bottles. Delores says her mother had kept his drinking to herself.
- A Red Quarantine Sign and Homemade ApplesauceWith ten people living in the house, the narrator marvels that illness was not more frequent. Barbara contracted scarlet fever as a baby, and health inspectors posted a red QUARANTINE sign. The narrator thinks Daddy stayed elsewhere so he could work. Mom offered homemade applesauce after the unpleasant preventive medicine. The narrator also remembers disliking Cod Liver Oil.
- School Vaccines and Memories of Dr. MentonThe narrator recalls lining up in the junior high gymnasium for an oral polio vaccine and comparing smallpox vaccination scars with friends before school. The children all went to the hospital on the same day to have their tonsils removed by Dr. Menton, whether or not they were sick. He also made house calls. She recalls a scandal involving his wife's drug theft, arrest, and imprisonment, followed shortly by his departure from practice. Mom was upset to lose a doctor she valued.
- A Painful Dentist and Lasting ReluctanceAnnual school dental checks led Mom to choose a dentist for follow-up treatment. The narrator remembers him as rough and rude and the treatment as intensely painful, leaving her reluctant to visit dentists as an adult. Despite these memories, she praises Mom and Dad for keeping the children healthy.
- Jacks, Paper Dolls, and a Childhood Full of ImaginationDee remembers a happy childhood despite wartime film shortages and few toys. She recalls punishment for peeling airplane wallpaper, fear after The Wizard of Oz, Virginia’s ketchup prank, and endless games with Pat and neighborhood children. Paper dolls from Iris comforted her during an ear operation. Bicycle rides, a clubhouse, swings, and imaginative play filled the days, although large dogs frightened her and Hannah’s dog once bit her.
- The First Television and the Music That StayedThe parents returned from Diana’s 1949 leg operation in Chicago with the family’s first black-and-white television. Dee contrasts television with the radio programs that had fed her imagination. Bernie bought a record player after starting window-display work, and Dee repeatedly played Patty Page’s The Tennessee Waltz. Bob and Sue danced, Barb and Margie adored Pat Boone, and Barbie and Diana played instruments. Years later, Diana’s warped violin was discarded, rescued by Mr. Sajben, repaired, and played by his son; Dee regretted being unable to recover it.
- Midwest Seasons, Family Outings, and the First School BusDee recalls gardens, suntanning, summer treats, drive-in movies, and Fourth of July fireworks. Family trips took her to Chicago’s Museum of Art and Science and The Loop, then to Clarence’s farm in Worthington, Minnesota. Halloween brought homemade treats and Bernie’s prizewinning window paintings; winter brought sledding, snow figures, and Bernie and Bob’s newspaper-worthy igloo. Her earliest school memories are of crying before the kindergarten bus and refusing warm milk at Roosevelt school, where Mrs. Johnson played piano.
- Learning to Hear and Accept HerselfDelores describes her congenital left-ear deformity, hearing loss, early speech lessons, and a year at a special school where she felt accepted after being called stupid at regular school. Dr. Williamson reconstructed her ear at about eleven, partially restoring hearing, but missed schooling led to repeating a grade. At twelve, her first hearing aid revealed family voices, birds, and insects so vividly that she cried. Her father called her “Sputnik” because of the aid's modern technology. Later, Diana helped her understand that her impairment did not mean she was stupid and encouraged greater self-acceptance.
- A Mother's Appeal for a Note-Passing SentenceCaught passing a note asking a friend to play jacks, Delores faced a classroom debate and vote on her punishment during a unit on the judicial system. The class sentenced her to write “I will not pass notes” five thousand times. Before going to card club, her mother spoke with Mrs. Plumly and reduced the sentence to five hundred repetitions. Delores says she never passed another note.
- Circle Skirts, School Dances, and Teenage ConfidenceDee recalls crafts in the Peppy Steppers 4-H club, teenage fashions, and her lack of interest in food preparation, contrasted with Carol’s prizewinning baking. Though shy and unsuccessful at sports even after getting glasses, she loved school dances and a satin polka-dot dress bought at Kay Bee. She remembers her first crush on Merle Ericson, spending her socially difficult senior year with Carol and her friends, trying pizza at Frank’s, and graduating in 1959 with straight A’s in art.
- First Earnings and a Room to Be Proud OfSelling flower seeds door to door earned Dee two bedroom lamps, and she also babysat for the Hancocks and Iris. She recalls Iris meeting Bill at Cozy Corners, Iris’s wedding and emerald ring, and a frightening night babysitting in Iris’s large house, when she hid a knife beneath a sofa cushion. Summer work at Tasty Treat brought unlimited root beer and paychecks that Dee and Carol pooled for twin beds, turquoise bedspreads, a lamp, and a rug; Mom made matching curtains. Dee also praises Bernie’s lasting plasterwork in his room.
- A Scholarship Hidden in a Desk DrawerDuring her senior year, Dee entered an essay contest about becoming a beautician with Diana’s help. Only after graduation did she discover the notice awarding her a three-hundred-dollar scholarship to Hurley’s Beauty School. She enrolled and credits Diana with the essay and her rewarding career. Her first patron insisted on old-fashioned pin curls rather than rollers; despite Dee’s frustration, the patron liked the result enough to book another appointment.
- Dee Finds Her Calling Behind the Salon ChairAfter graduating from Hurley’s, Dee began at the Powder Puff Beauty Salon in Moline, wearing the legally required white uniform and shoes and shampooing hair while building a clientele. Her first paycheck bought a red synthetic turtleneck at The New York Store that she still wears. After marrying Ernie, she opened the immediately successful Dee’s Beauty Salon in Coal Valley. Her career brought joy and lifelong friendships, including loyal customer Faye Swears.
- Family Love Through Changing SeasonsDee recalls loving Ernie passionately during a marriage filled with motorcycles, travel, Susy’s dancing, and salon work. She tried to give Susy everything she had lacked as a child, later learning Susy wanted a sibling more than those comforts. Following her divorce on February 4, 1977, Dee did not remarry and found contentment with Susy and granddaughters Annah and Bryce. Gardening, treasure hunting, costume making, and furniture restoration enrich her life. She credits her family and the unconditional love passed down by her mother with sustaining her.
- An Enchanted House Full of Family MemoriesDelores remembers moving at age two into a four-room house on an acre, originally addressed 3209 39th Street. The house, garage, and land cost $2,750, with another $100 for the chicken house; payments were $25 monthly after $500 down. The orchard and yard were a childhood wonderland, while the small house eventually held ten people. She describes crowded sleeping arrangements, hand-pumped water, an outhouse, coal heat, rabbits, and time with her father in his workshed. Her father added two bedrooms and a bathroom without professional help in 1950. Later changes included removal of an interior wall, new carpeting, and white vinyl siding with hunter-green shutters. After three-quarters of the land was sold, the address became 3205 39th Street. Preserving the house helps her keep family memories alive.
- A Mother and Daughter's Butterfly GardenDelores and her daughter Susy landscaped the entire yard by hand, turning it into a bird and butterfly sanctuary. Susy helps add flowers and shrubs to attract butterflies. They hope to tag Monarchs the following season and follow their migration to Mexico, as gardening becomes an avid hobby for Delores.
- Loving Each Other Through LifeDelores reflects that seeing one another as spirits would make the need to love and help others clear. She finds her greatest joy in making others feel loved and believes family members chose to be together to support each other through life's difficulties. She closes with love and gratitude for sharing life with her family.
- Delores Remembers Her Parents' Love and LessonsDelores thanks her mother and father for teaching her to work hard, play fair, and never give up. She credits their teachings as the foundation of her success and remembers their kindness, tender mercies, and love.
- To Barb, with Love: Braids, Laughter, and KindnessDee's affectionate poem celebrates Barbara from her braided-hair childhood and shared fright with Diana over attic mice through marriage to Norman, homemaking, parenting, studying, and world travel. It recalls whaling in Alaska and admiration of Monet in France, and praises Barbara's hospitality, giggle, flowers, quilts, and caring resemblance to their mother.
- To Diana, with Love: Games, Dreams, and CaringDee's affectionate poem celebrates Diana's talkativeness and recalls shared mischief, puddles, mud pies, May baskets, hollyhock dolls, and dandelion games. It praises Diana's academic dedication, recalls her bringing home a cat to debone after driving from Wesleyan, and describes her meeting Lee in Chicago. The poem closes by honoring Diana's sensitivity and the caring conversations Dee treasures.
- Carol, a Sister Always NearDee's affectionate poem celebrates Carol as her childhood playmate and a sister who shares her appearance, mannerisms, and unspoken understanding. She recalls Carol's scooter injury, her skill in cooking, and her marriage and years in Germany with Charlie. The sisters cared together for their mother in her later years, and Dee affirms their enduring closeness despite living miles apart.
- A Loving Toast to BobDee celebrates Robert Ray Guild in a playful, affectionate poem recalling his homemade wine, snow igloo, marriage to his high school sweetheart, dancing with Sue, successful business, coast-to-coast travels, and welcoming home. She praises his helpfulness and loyalty while teasing him about golf, gardening, and pistachios, closing with a wish that he remarry and a toast in his honor.
- A Loving Day with Bernie in San FranciscoIn a poem signed Dee, Delores describes visiting her brother Bernie at his Victorian home in San Francisco. She admires his flowers and orchids, creative success, and zest for life. They visit an old-time ice cream parlor and order chocolate Yoplait with pears. His encouragement and conversation leave her inspired, and she bids him an affectionate farewell as she boards a trolley car with a fifteen-cent fare.
- Iris, Our Gentle Second MotherIn a loving poem signed Dee, Delores thanks her sister Iris for the care she gave her six younger siblings. An only child for over five years, Iris became like a second mother, feeding, bathing, hugging and comforting the children while helping their busy mother. Dee remembers Iris’s gentle ways and expresses lasting gratitude and unconditional love.
- A Christmas Eve Baby in a Wicker BasketAfter her mother began having contractions while trimming the Christmas tree, Carol was born on Christmas Eve 1938 in Moline. Her father named her Carol Mae for the season. She joined Iris, Bobby and Bernie at the family's apartment; the later births of Delores, Diana and Barbara made her the middle child. Remembered as a very small baby, she was carried on a pillow and kept in a wicker basket on a bedroom shelf beyond her brothers' reach.
- An Acre and Four Rooms to Call HomeCarol remembers moving to 3209 39th Street in 1942 at age four, running through empty rooms and jumping through windows. The $2,187 house stood on an acre in South Moline Township and initially had four rooms, an outhouse, and a well, but no bathroom, basement, or garage. Her father built a basement. A family of ten shared the small house, with the girls' living-room beds put away each morning and Grandpa Williams living there until his death in 1953.
- Carefree Days and Dandelion CrownsCarol recalls happy childhood days spent outside between meals. At about four or five, she watched insects and searched for four-leaf clovers. She and Dee spent hours making dandelion jewelry and crowns, fashioning hollyhock dolls with toothpicks, and plucking daisy petals for an imagined boyfriend.
- Close to Dee Across the MilesCarol describes her lifelong connection to Dee, with whom she was inseparable as a child. Despite living half a country apart, they often independently buy the same clothing, purses, or craft items. Dee did Carol's hair perfectly for thirty-five years, and since moving to Florida Carol has not found a hairdresser who understands her preferences as well.
- A Place on the Bench and Cake for SupperThe family gathered around a rectangular table with three leaves and a wooden bench Daddy made. Carol remembers sharing the bench with Dee and Diana, while Mom sat beside the youngest child to help. Large homemade meals included bread at both ends of the table and dessert after every supper. Carol later thought the bread compensated for limited seconds. In junior high she made a two-egg cake almost every day, with leftovers packed into school lunches.
- Sunday Pies, Shared Chicken, and the FunniesSundays were reserved for family, with Mom rising at dawn to bake pies with lard crusts, crescent rolls, and cinnamon rolls. Favorite noon dinners included Swiss steak or fried chicken with mashed potatoes. Carol jokes that ten people shared one chicken, then adds that surely there were at least two. Mom ate the wings and Dad the back, liver, and gizzards, saving the meatiest pieces for the children; Carol now enjoys wings herself. After dinner, Barb usually escaped to Margie’s house and Diana read behind a locked bathroom door, leaving Carol and Dee to do dishes while Bob snapped towels at them. Afterward, they read the Sunday paper Dad brought from town, especially Carol’s beloved funnies.
- A Treasured Doll Comes Home AgainCarol received her last childhood doll at about eight or nine years old. The bisque doll had yellow braids, opening and closing eyes, and a pouty mouth; Carol dressed it in outfits her mother made. After years in storage, she rediscovered it while unpacking after moving to 11th Street in Moline and told Dee how remarkable its survival was. A few years later, about 1986, Dee secretly had a friend mend its body and provide a new dress, wig, shoes, and socks. Dee presented the restored doll on a stand for Carol's birthday, making it one of her best birthday gifts. At the time of writing, the doll was over fifty years old and proudly displayed on Carol's dresser.
- A Christmas Visit Captured in Family PortraitsBernie borrowed a Leica camera to photograph a new place in San Francisco, then brought it home to Moline at Christmas. Using orange and green fabric tacked up in the girls’ bedroom as a backdrop, Bernie photographed the family. A portrait of Bernie taken by high school chum Jerry Edlund during the same trip completed the folio. Later on the family portrait day, the family celebrated Carol’s 23rd birthday. Bernie treasured how clearly the portraits revealed everyone’s personality.
- Rainy Days and Sunset Campfires at White EagleCarol attended White Eagle 4-H Camp with Dee and Eilene Peterson, wearing halter tops her mother made for the three of them. They slept in tents, ate in a communal dining room, and used latrines down a long wooded path. Swimming in the river, making crafts, singing around sunset campfires, and making S’mores kept the week enjoyable despite constant rain.
- Carhop Trays and Late-Night ReassurancesCarol’s first part-time job was serving root beer, hamburgers, and malts as a Tasty Treat carhop. Owner and neighbor Mrs. Mary Poston hired Carol, Dee, and Marilyn McFarland; Carol recalls that they made about seventy dollars plus tips that summer. Mrs. Poston also owned Hasty Tasty Restaurant, where Barb washed dishes on second shift. Despite being frightened when returning home around 1:30 a.m., Barb joked that she was protecting Carol from Peeping Toms.
- Mom, the Quiet Heart of the FamilyCarol remembers Mom as the glue holding the family together: patient, calm, private, warm, kind, and uncomplaining. Mom had no vacations or days off during the children's upbringing and was seldom ill. She enjoyed novels, especially The Thorn Birds, loved Pepsi, and dressed impeccably. Every Tuesday, Dee devoted her day off to making Mom “Queen for a Day,” doing her hair, taking her to lunch, shopping, and running errands.
- Railroad Treasures and Childhood Days by the RiverIn a sequence of childhood memories, the narrator recalls locomotives, Grampa's walks to kindergarten, gathering fallen coal for Mommy's stove, and finding treasures near the foundry. He remembers his fifth birthday, first-grade lessons, a printing prize, and a teacher locking out Arnold for lateness. Life in a big white house includes celebrations, baby Carol's arrival while Mommy is sick, Mommy returning with Baby Delores, games with Bobby and Iris, penny treats, a tavern visit, May baskets, and the fascination of a river the children are forbidden to approach.
- The Little House That Grew with the FamilyBernard remembers the small house on 39th Street that became the family's enduring home. He believes Mom secured the loan to move the children away from the river and railroad tracks. Dad gradually transformed the four-room house with a basement, furnace, well, enlarged kitchen, bedrooms, indoor plumbing, siding, garage, and work shed. Memories of moving day, Grampa's songs and knee rides, the McFarlands, and freedom to play convey the deep closeness of the family.
- From a Second Mother to a Cherished FriendIris reflects on her second-mother role in childhood and the friendships she now cherishes. She recalls Bernie's broken tea sets and playful dish-towel chases, taking little Barbara everywhere, soothing Diana's ulcerated leg with lard, helping reposition baby Carol's head until the neck grew stronger, regretting Delores's scoldings after her hearing problem was discovered, and understanding quiet Bob's pointing without his needing to speak.
- Floyd and Ethel: Dancing, Work, and Seven ChildrenFloyd and Ethel met on a roller-skating blind date, courted through dancing and picnics, and married in Moline in 1928 with Frank Melton and Elva as attendants. They raised seven children. The passage says Floyd worked his entire life for John Deere, while also recording a roughly year-long Depression layoff when Lloyd helped him obtain WPA truck-driving work. Remembered as hardworking, playful, outspoken, and devoted to family, Floyd died of acute kidney failure in 1968 after an earlier severe stroke and is buried beside Ethel.
- Hopscotch Lines and Double Dutch FlourishesDelores asked Bernard to draw Hopscotch courts on the sidewalk or in the dirt. He disliked Hopscotch but enjoyed Jump Rope, especially the accelerated finish of Double Dutch. Carol taught him Jacks, which she, Dee, and Diana could play for hours.
- Brownie’s Dancing Days and a Lifetime of MotheringDespite grief at home and being refused a college education, Ethel found happiness in friends, dancing, and work. Mary Hill introduced her to Floyd, whom she married in 1928. Together they raised seven children, while Ethel survived a serious goiter and worked several jobs. In widowhood she enjoyed crafts, cards, grandchildren, and travel, including a cherished 1979 European holiday funded by Bernie. She died during a visit to Diana in 1988, remembered for her unqualified love.
- Grampa’s Helping Hands at the House on 39th StreetEd Williams became a permanent member of Ethel and Floyd's household around 1934, helping raise seven children and handling housework, gardening, and canning. He contributed earnings and savings toward enlarging the house. A severe acid burn at work ended his later employment, though treatment healed his leg. The family remembered his affection and help, alongside episodes when Floyd had to retrieve him after drinking. He died of a heart attack in 1953 and was buried without a headstone.
- Dances, Seven Children, and Grampa’s Helping HandsAfter moving to Moline, Ethel met Floyd through Mary Hill and married him in 1928. They raised seven children, while Ethel worked several jobs and survived goiter surgery. Ed became a permanent member of their household, contributing childcare, housework and money, despite drinking and a serious workplace injury. Lloyd served in the Army Signal Corps, suffered lasting injuries and eventually lost contact with the family, leaving fond memories and a cocoa-dunking breakfast tradition. The passage gives conflicting dates for Ed’s death and funeral.
- Cards, Christmas Ornaments, and a Long-Awaited European JourneyWidowed Ethel maintained a full life of handcrafts, Christmas ornament making, evening cards and helping family members after divorces. She visited Diana in Florida annually. In 1979 Bernie fulfilled her dream of Europe with a visit to Carol, Charlie and Chris in Mainz and a family trip to Denmark. Ethel died during her 1988 Florida visit and was buried beside Floyd, with an incorrect birth year on her headstone that had never troubled her.
Referenced in
- The Guilds — DELORES ANN GUILD COMSTOCK
- Barbara's Chapter — BARBARA KAY GUILD MILLER
- Barbara's Chapter — CAPTAIN MERLIN RINGERING
- Barbara's Chapter — LIVING ARRANGEMENTS
- Barbara's Chapter — THANKS
- Diana's Chapter — FAMILY MEMORIES
- Dee's Chapter
- Dee's Chapter — DADDY
- Dee's Chapter — DADDY
- Dee's Chapter — WEEKLY WOES
- Dee's Chapter — WEEKLY WOES
- Dee's Chapter — WEEKLY WOES
- Dee's Chapter — WEEKLY WOES
- Dee's Chapter — SPRING CLEANING
- Dee's Chapter — THE SEWING
- Dee's Chapter — THE CANNING
- Dee's Chapter — THE HOLIDAYS
- Dee's Chapter — EASTER
- Dee's Chapter — GRAMPA WILLIAMS
- Dee's Chapter — SICK DAYS
- Dee's Chapter — SICK DAYS
- Dee's Chapter — MY EAR
- Dee's Chapter — MY TEENS
- Dee's Chapter — HAIR STYLIST
- Dee's Chapter — THE GUILD RESIDENCE
- Dee's Chapter — MY PHILOSOPHY
- Dee's Chapter — IN MEMORY OF MY DEAREST MOTHER AND FATHER
- Dee's Chapter — TO BARB
- Dee's Chapter — TO DIANA
- Dee's Chapter — TO CAROL
- Dee's Chapter — TO BOB
- Dee's Chapter — TO BERNIE
- Dee's Chapter — TO IRIS
- Carol's Chapter
- Carol's Chapter — HOME
- Carol's Chapter — CHILDHOOD
- Carol's Chapter — A PET
- Carol's Chapter — SUNDAYS
- Carol's Chapter — BIRTHDAYS
- Carol's Chapter — THE 4-H PLEDGE
- Carol's Chapter — SITTER
- Carol's Chapter — OTHER THINGS I REMEMBER ABOUT MOM
- Carol's Chapter — A DAY IN THE LIFE OF THE GUILD FAMILY
- Bernie's Chapter — MISSISSIPPI
- Bernie's Chapter — THIRTY-TWO-O-NINE
- Bernie's Chapter — DIRT
- Iris's Chapter — REMEMBERING EACH OF YOU
- History of the Guild Family — THE SAW MILL
- History of the Guild Family — ETHEL KATHERINE WILLIAMS
- History of the Guild Family — ETHEL KATHERINE WILLIAMS
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