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Carol Mae Guild Sutton

known as Carol, Auntie Carol Mae, Christmas Baby Carol

also written Carol Mae, Carol, Auntie Carol Mae, Baby Carol, Christmas Baby Carol, Carol Sutton in the book

Biography

Birth date also recorded as “December 24, 1938, at 9:00 a.m.” (Carol's Chapter). Second daughter and fourth child; describes herself as the true middle child after three younger daughters were born. Her father named her Carol Mae in honor of the Christmas season. Birth weight was not recorded on her birth certificate; she was told she was very small, carried on a little pillow, and kept in an oval wicker basket on a bedroom shelf so her little brothers could not get at her. Narrator. Says she was four when the family moved in 1942 and twelve when she helped sell tomatoes about 1950. Her father let her keep the tomato-sale money. Shared a living-room couch bed with Diana and Delores. Narrator of Carol's Chapter; recalls the weekly laundry routine for a household of ten and helping with a mangle. Narrator of Carol's Chapter. Learned to ration water during recurring well shortages and still avoids letting water run while washing dishes or brushing teeth. Identified in the chapter attribution as the narrator. Narrates the family's spring and fall housekeeping ritual. Learned to paint from her mother. Seeing her grandchildren use Play-Doh reminds her of the pink, gummy wallpaper-cleaning material used during these cleanings. Narrator. Was living with Mom and Chris when Chris accidentally locked her outside in winter. Narrates a childhood Saturday-night bathing routine shared by seven children. Refers to her mother as Mom; neither her mother nor her siblings are named in the passage. Narrator; was ten years old when Iris married. Narrator. Lived in four rooms on 39th Street from 1942 until about 1949 or 1950. Recalls being about twelve when Daddy added a bathroom and two bedrooms. Did not feel poor growing up but privately associated the family's outhouse with poverty and did not want school friends to know about it. Identified in the chapter heading as the storyteller. Recalls Grandpa Williams’s support and Lloyd’s wartime gifts and letters. Narrator. Describes a happy, carefree childhood and a lifelong closeness to Dee, almost as though Dee were her twin. Refers to her mother as Mom, without naming her. Narrator. Recalls playing with her sisters and neighborhood children. Her parents are referred to only as Mom and Daddy. Identified in the chapter heading as the teller. Remembers jump-rope chants and hours of entertainment with simple games. Identified as the chapter narrator. Remembers making string figures: Jacob’s Ladder, The Witch’s Broom, Cup & Saucer, Rock the Baby, Chicken’s Feet, and Cat’s Cradle. Identified as the teller of Carol's Chapter. This section gives instructions for making a button hum by winding and unwinding a loop of string. Identified as the narrator of Carol's Chapter. Lists remembered purchased toys: Jacks, Marbles, Jump rope, Cap Guns, Lincoln Logs, Paper-dolls, Erector set, and Tinker Toys. Narrator. At about eight or nine years old, cut her right knee on her scooter near the family's strawberry patch. Four clamps closed the wound, leaving a scar still visible when she told the story. Narrator of the childhood memories of home doctoring and family physicians. Narrator of Carol's Chapter. Recalls being ashamed of the family's old cars. Her parents are referred to only as Daddy, Dad, and Mom in this passage. Narrator. Never accompanied Daddy to Minnesota and never met or knew her paternal grandparents. Identified as the narrator in the chapter attribution. Daddy is not named in this passage. Narrator of Carol's Chapter. Made a two-egg cake almost every day while in junior high; refused Daddy's offer of ten cents to eat liver. Narrator of Carol's Chapter. Recalled favorite Sunday meals, doing dishes with Dee, and enjoying the funnies in the Sunday paper. Identified as the teller of Carol's Chapter. This section lists remembered funnies rather than biographical information. Narrator. Remembers receiving 365 Bedtime Stories, a View Master, and a bisque doll for childhood birthdays. Her mother made outfits for the doll. At the time of writing, the doll was over fifty years old and displayed on her dresser. Narrator of Carol's Chapter. Her Saturday cleaning task was dusting the curliques on Mom’s foot-treadle sewing machine. Narrates a childhood memory from about age twelve or thirteen. Saved baby-sitting money for an Easter coat, but her wallet was stolen while she tried it on. Her mother, referred to only as Mom, gave her the twenty-five dollars needed for the coat. Narrator. Recalls her mother's sewing, a favorite orange-and-white three-piece dress from first or second grade, and wearing hand-me-downs and clothing received from friends. Narrator; recalls childhood moviegoing in the Forties. Roy Rogers was her hero. Narrator of the chapter; describes the incentive Daddy offered for helping harvest the corn. Narrator of Carol's Chapter; recalls family picnics and nut-gathering outings. Narrator of Carol's Chapter; recalls family Friday nights with homemade fudge and board games. Narrator of Carol's Chapter. Loved her mother's Depression Fruitcake and says she still does. Named as the teller of Carol's Chapter; the section heading is YEAST BREADS. Identified in the chapter heading as the narrator. Narrator of Carol's Chapter; recalls one of the first radios they had, a Philco table radio. Identified as the teller of this chapter. Lists radio programs she remembers listening to; Yukon King was her favorite. Recalls Dad laughing at The Amos N’ Andy Show and Mom enjoying Kate Smith and One Man’s Family. Narrator of Carol's Chapter. Says she would have been about twelve around 1950. Watched Howdy Doody daily at the McFarlands' house and enjoyed televised wrestling with her father. Identified as the teller of Carol's Chapter. This excerpt lists television programs and cartoons; names within program titles are not treated as separate individuals. Identified in the chapter attribution as the teller of Carol's Chapter. Narrator of Carol's Chapter; describes I Love Lucy as her all-time favorite. Identified as the teller of Carol's Chapter. Was very active in the Peppy Steppers 4-H Club for many years, beginning at age nine, although her family did not live on a farm. Older sister of Diana. Learned cooking and sewing through 4-H with guidance from her mother, referred to as Mom. Photographs of her appeared in newspapers for 4-H events and sewing projects. Demonstrated baking powder biscuit making on WOC-TV. Narrator of Carol's Chapter. Attended White Eagle 4-H Camp with Dee and Eilene Peterson. Was a Brownie and then a Girl Scout, and attended Camp Shabone many summers. Described herself as the “camper” in the family. Narrator of Carol's Chapter. Began Sunday school at Calvary Lutheran Church at perhaps five or six, riding its neighborhood bus. Her unnamed father never attended church; her unnamed mother joined Calvary after his death and attended every Sunday with Carol until her own death. Carol belonged to Luther League and the Women's Group, taught Sunday school, sang in the choir, prepared bulletins and newsletters in the office, and served on the council. Baptized and confirmed May 16, 1954, at age fifteen. Reports belonging to Calvary for over fifty years before transferring to a church in North Port, Florida, in 1995. Education also recorded as “Attended school with Marilyn and Patty through high school.” (Carol's Chapter). Narrator. About fourteen when the McFarlands moved into town in 1952. Remained close friends with Marilyn and loved Virginia as if she were a favorite aunt. Education also recorded as “Started kindergarten at Roosevelt Grade School in Moline in 1944; recalls first through fifth grades.” (Carol's Chapter). Narrator. The heading labels 1944–1951 as First to Sixth Grade, while the narrative says kindergarten began in 1944. Was about six on August 15, 1945. Had her tonsils removed in third grade, began wearing glasses in fourth grade, and won a fifth-grade reading contest with over sixty books and written reports. Narrator. Reading a good novel remains her favorite activity. Her favorite books then were Little Women and The Five Little Peppers and How They Grew. She also read Nancy Drew mystery stories and Bernie and Bob's copies of Hardy Boys books. Played Jacks endlessly in fifth grade and received a blue ribbon in a school contest. She still had the ribbon in the family scrapbook when recounting this memory. Education also recorded as “Recalls fifth- and sixth-grade autograph books and being a sixth-grade cheerleader.” (Carol's Chapter). Narrator of Carol's Chapter. Still keeps her class autograph book with other grade-school memorabilia. Her mother made her cheerleading outfit and prepared individually labeled school lunches. Education also recorded as “Attended Coolidge Junior High School in seventh through ninth grade, 1951–1954; earned A’s and a few B’s.” (Carol's Chapter). Recalled walking to school, buying taffy apples, slumber parties, records, sock hops, and intramural sports. Her father sold apples to her Home Economics teacher for cooking classes. Education also recorded as “Tenth through twelfth grade, 1954–1957. Took English, History, Biology, Literature, Spanish, Geometry, Government, shorthand, typing and other business courses. Member of the Future Nurses Club, Civic Club, Home Economics Club and Spanish Club.” (Carol's Chapter). Narrator. Earned A’s and B’s and enjoyed library research. Made all her full-circle skirts. Considered nursing, but her parents did not have the money; in retrospect she was glad she did not become a nurse. Education also recorded as “Graduated from high school.” (Carol's Chapter). Narrator of Carol's Chapter. Neil Sedaka's Oh! Carol was a favorite because her name was in the title; it was the only 45 rpm record she still owned. Narrator. Does not recall going to the movies very often in high school; lists favorite stars and particularly admires Esther Williams's swimming movies. Education also recorded as “Took Driver’s Education in tenth grade and obtained a permit; obtained her driver’s license after graduating and getting a job.” (Carol's Chapter). Lived with Iris and Bill while saving all her earnings for three months. Her father helped her find her first car, a green 1948 Chevy costing three hundred dollars. Her unnamed sisters also drove it for years. Narrator. Close friend of Lila Lambert (now Becker) from grade school through high school and still at the time of writing. They attended the same church, belonged to Luther League, and attended Friday-night high school football and basketball games together. Identified as the narrator in the chapter heading. Narrator. Recalled drive-in outings with friends and family, including trying a cigarette for the first time. Said none of the group liked it and none ever smoked. Had her first boyfriend, John Clyde, at seventeen. He was the first boy she kissed, and she wore his class ring around her neck. She had known him her entire life; he was a neighbor and a member of her church. Education also recorded as “Attended junior high and high school.” (Carol's Chapter). Narrator. Earned spending money baby-sitting and kept check stubs from her summer carhop job. Education also recorded as “Attended high school in Moline from fall 1954 to graduation in 1957; graduated in the top fourth of her class and wore a gold tassel.” (Carol's Chapter). Still keeps her gold graduation tassel. Drives by her former high school whenever she returns to Moline and feels sad that it is now an architectural firm. The new Moline High School, completed in 1958, was within walking distance of where she grew up. Identified in the chapter heading as the teller. Lists memories she wanted included after the book was finished. Identified as the chapter's narrator; recalls her parents' marriage, work, friendships, card games, and politics. Narrator of the chapter. Her birth certificate spells her mother's middle name Kathryn. Narrator of the chapter. Lived in Germany with Charlie and Chris when Mom visited for three months. Their relationships are not specified in this passage. Narrator of Carol's Chapter. Recalls playing 500 with her sisters and mother during holiday gatherings. Narrator of the chapter. Treasures her mother's handmade ornaments and the memory of exchanging hand caresses at her mother's bedside. Narrator identified in the chapter attribution. Writing these memories brought a new appreciation of her father's work and devotion. Identified in the chapter heading as the narrator. Remembers Daddy's habits and describes his final illness and death. Occupation also recorded as “Subscription work at Augustana Book Concern; worked at Moline Daily Dispatch and Franciscan Hospital; Department of Defense secretary and later budget analyst at Rock Island Arsenal.” (Carol's Chapter). Education also recorded as “Graduated from Moline High.” (Carol's Chapter). Says she was twenty-six when she married in 1965 and thirty-three when she divorced in 1972. Identified in the chapter attribution as the storyteller. Occupation also recorded as “Secretary for the commander of a Nike Hercules Missile Battalion in Germany; worked at the 31st ADA Brigade at Homestead Air Force Base; resumed her career at the Rock Island Arsenal.” (Carol's Chapter). Narrator. Described living in Germany as the happiest time of her life. Mom visited, but her name is not given. Occupation also recorded as “Retired from the Rock Island Arsenal in October, 1993” (Carol's Chapter). Education also recorded as “Attended schools in Moline, including Coolidge Junior High School.” (Carol's Chapter). Narrator. Enjoys reading, playing the keyboard, making Christmas ornaments, and collecting swans. Charlie gave her the first three swans on their first three anniversaries; her collection now exceeds one hundred. Narrator. Describes her love for her grandchildren and her wish to encourage them as they grow. Identified as the teller of Carol's Chapter. Celebrated her 23rd birthday on the day of the family photographs. birth date recorded both as “December 24, 1938” and as “Christmas Eve” in the book; kept as written. occupation also recorded as “Had jobs; work not specified.” in the book. Listed as “Carol Mae and Carol Barrel.” The exact identity and relationship between these names are not explicitly explained. Author of “Good as Ever,” an introduction to favorite Guild childhood games and instructions for playing them. One of the sisters Barbara asked to see for comfort in Kindergarten. A card game shortly before Mom's death took place at Carol's house. Slept on a roll away bed in the living room. Barbara took her dyed-to-match outfits when she left for work. Barbara thinks the car she took for a nighttime swimming trip was Carol's; ownership is explicitly uncertain. Listed among Barbara's siblings on her staircase. Deeply cut her knee in Virginia’s strawberry patch. Babysat Diana, Dee, and Barb. Described as the oldest sister remaining at home and like a second mother. Led Peppy Steppers 4-H Club meetings at Mrs. Holder’s house. Owned a car used by her younger sisters. The narrator's big sister; described as friendly and understanding. Fourth child in the stated birth order, after Bob and before the narrator. One of the girls given a Toni home perm by Mom and Virginia. Was put in charge of making desserts when old enough. Mom made a scratch angel food cake for Carol's Christmas Eve birthday, as she did for each child's birthday. Occupation also recorded as “Worked at the Moline Dispatch” (Dee's Chapter). Married and had a child. Joined the narrator and Mom in collecting natural craft materials. Took Mom on Saturday banking, shopping, and lunch outings after Daddy died. Mom visited Germany when Carol's husband was transferred there. Occupation also recorded as “Worked briefly at the Tasty Treat root beer stand.” (Dee's Chapter). Narrator’s sister and a wonderful cook whose cooking won a baking award and a trip to the Illinois State Fair. Shared a room with the narrator and pooled first paychecks to redecorate it. Dee's childhood playmate and close sister, with similar appearance and mannerisms. Injured her knee riding a scooter and received four clamps, leaving a scar. Loves cooking; her mother loved her shrimp dipped in beer. Helped Dee care for their mother in her later years. One of the six younger siblings Iris helped care for. Named in the verse beginning “Down in the valley.” The passage does not explicitly identify this verse character with the narrator. A picture in Carol's memories on page 174 shows the mailbox millstone. Robert thinks Carol drove the stick-shift car made from a 1936 Chevy and a 1937 Chevy. Introduced as the narrator's new sister and a Christmas baby. Sleeps in an oval laundry basket. Grandpa feeds her apple scraped with a teaspoon. Taught the narrator Jacks and played it at length with Dee and Diana. The narrator thinks Carol was probably the girl taking a bath who yelled that Sonny was peeping; he is not certain. Told the narrator that he screamed at the sight of blood; he thinks she is wrong. He thinks Carol may have been the girl who had scarlet fever and recovered, but explicitly cannot remember which girl it was. After Carol's birth, Mom returned from the hospital very sick, anemic, pale, and weak for a long time. Brought home from the hospital as a small baby with neck muscles too weak to turn the head independently. Mom taught the others to alternate the position of Carol's head whenever they passed the baby basket. Eventually could hold the head up independently. Listed after Bob in birth order, followed by Delores and Diana, with births described as about eighteen months apart. Ethel took in Carol and Chris after Carol's divorce. In 1979 lived in Germany with husband Charlie and son Chris. Ethel took in Carol and Chris after Carol’s divorce. Carol, Charlie and Chris were stationed in Mainz with the Army in 1979; individual service status and their relationships are not specified. Named as a player in an illustrative example explaining the rules of Mother, May I? No actual occasion of play is specified. Carol’s memories explain string games like Cat’s Cradle.

Timeline

  1. December 24, 1938

    Birth of CAROL MAE GUILD SUTTON

    The Guilds
  2. 9:00 a.m. on Saturday, December 24, 1938

    Christmas Eve birth of Carol Mae

    Carol was born to Ethel, age twenty-nine, and Floyd Guild, age thirty-two. Her father named her Carol Mae in honor of the Christmas season.

    Carol's Chapter
  3. In the Forties

    Doctors make house calls

    Mom changed the children's bed sheets before the doctor arrived. Dr. Cook supplied pills or cough syrup, anticipating that more children would develop the same ailment.

    Carol's Chapter
  4. the Forties

    Almost weekly Saturday matinees

    Carol attended Saturday matinees almost every week as a child; admission was twenty-five cents and popcorn a nickel.

    Carol's Chapter
  5. one summer in the Forties

    A summer visit from Floyd's three sisters

    The sisters came from Brainerd; Carol had not met them before.

    Carol's Chapter
  6. 1942

    Carol moves to 3209 39th Street

    Carol was four years old and remembers running through the empty rooms and jumping in and out of windows.

    Carol's Chapter
  7. from 1942 until about 1949 or 1950

    Living in four rooms on 39th Street

    Carol recalls the family living in four rooms. The ending year is given as approximately 1949 or 1950.

    Carol's Chapter
  8. 1944

    Carol starts kindergarten

    Mrs. Hogland drove the children to school; Carol sat on a board supported by two cement blocks.

    Carol's Chapter
  9. August 15, 1945

    Celebrating the radio announcement that the war was over

    Ruth and John explained the news; the children jumped, clapped, and shouted. Carol says she was about six and that the war was officially over that day.

    Carol's Chapter
  10. about 1950

    Carol earns money from the tomato harvest

    At twelve, Carol helped her father pick, polish, and pack tomatoes, placing the prettiest on top. Tomatoes sold for three dollars a bushel, and her father let her keep the money. Some were sold to Sam Gnatovich.

    Carol's Chapter
  11. around 1950

    Watching the neighborhood's first television

    The McFarlands had the first television in the neighborhood. Carol, who says she would have been about twelve, went to their house daily to watch Howdy Doody.

    Carol's Chapter
  12. 1951 - 1954 (Seventh to Ninth Grade)

    Carol’s seventh through ninth grades at Coolidge Junior High School

    Carol earned A’s and a few B’s, took the usual subjects, and recalled being Mrs. McManus’s favorite in seventh-grade Home Economics.

    Carol's Chapter
  13. May 16, 1954

    Carol's baptism and confirmation

    Carol says she was baptized and confirmed at fifteen.

    Carol's Chapter
  14. 1954 - 1957

    Carol's tenth through twelfth grades

    Carol recalls high school courses, clubs, term papers and teenage life.

    Carol's Chapter
  15. fall of 1954

    Carol enters high school

    Carol remembers timidly entering the school's doors.

    Carol's Chapter
  16. 1956

    Carol's first taste of pizza

    Carol tasted pizza for the first time while on a date with John Clyde.

    Carol's Chapter
  17. 1957

    Carol graduates with a gold tassel

    Carol graduated in the top fourth of her class, earning a gold tassel for her graduation cap that she still keeps.

    Carol's Chapter
  18. 1958

    New Moline High School completed

    The new school was completed a year after Carol graduated and was close enough to where she grew up that she could have walked there.

    Carol's Chapter
  19. July 3, 1965

    Carol marries Donald M. Boney

    Carol was twenty-six.

    Carol's Chapter
  20. Christmas holiday, 1967

    Holiday gathering at Iris and Bill's

    The family gathered for the holiday while Mom stayed home with Daddy.

    Carol's Chapter
  21. After the stroke and before May 23, 1968

    Family care at home and the search for a suitable hospital

    The family rejected St. Anthony’s Hospital in Rock Island because of smoking patients and Daddy's breathing difficulty. Mom cared for him at home with help from the girls and daily help from Virginia. Exhaustion and a lack of suitable alternatives eventually led to his placement at East Moline State Hospital.

    Carol's Chapter
  22. January 27, 1967

    Chris is born

    Carol's Chapter
  23. May 23, 1968

    Daddy dies surrounded by family

    Daddy died at age sixty-three with Mom and all the children around him.

    Carol's Chapter
  24. 1972

    Carol and Don divorce

    After seven years of marriage; Carol was thirty-three and Chris five.

    Carol's Chapter
  25. 1973

    Carol begins work at Rock Island Arsenal

    Worked for the Department of Defense as a secretary, then budget analyst. Met Charlie while serving as his secretary.

    Carol's Chapter
  26. January 1975

    Carol and Charlie fall in love at a dinner-dance

    Sat together and danced; Carol describes instant love.

    Carol's Chapter
  27. April 30, 1976

    Carol and Charlie marry in Berne

    They spent two years overseas.

    Carol's Chapter
  28. July of 1978

    Leaving Germany for Florida

    After leaving Germany, they were assigned to the 31st ADA Brigade at Homestead Air Force Base, where both worked.

    Carol's Chapter
  29. September of 1979

    Returning to Moline

    Returned to Moline after a short stay in Florida.

    Carol's Chapter
  30. September of 1979

    Resuming careers at the Rock Island Arsenal

    Both resumed their careers at the Rock Island Arsenal upon returning to Moline.

    Carol's Chapter
  31. 1979

    Ethel's cherished European holiday

    Bernie sent Ethel to Germany to visit Carol's family, then joined them. They toured Germany and Denmark in a huge government-issued Mercedes.

    History of the Guild Family
  32. 1979

    Ethel’s dream trip to Europe

    Bernie sent her to visit family stationed in Mainz with the Army, joined her, and traveled with the group to Denmark in a government-issued Mercedes.

    History of the Guild Family
  33. About 1986, on Carol's birthday

    Dee surprises Carol with her restored doll

    Dee secretly had a friend refurbish the doll, then put it on a stand and gave it to Carol as a birthday surprise.

    Carol's Chapter
  34. October, 1993

    Carol retires from the Rock Island Arsenal

    Carol's Chapter
  35. 1995

    Carol transfers church membership

    Carol transferred from Calvary to her current church in North Port after what she describes as over fifty years of membership.

    Carol's Chapter
  36. July of 1995

    Beginning Phase Two in Florida

    Carol describes moving to Florida for retirement and now living in North Port on the western coast.

    Carol's Chapter
  37. date not given

    Barbara starts Kindergarten

    Barbara cried daily and asked for her sisters to comfort her before eventually adjusting.

    Barbara's Chapter
  38. Not long before her death in 1988

    A secretly arranged perfect 500 hand

    While Mom went to the bathroom, the players arranged a perfect hand for her. Diana was visiting from Florida. Mom was delighted and was never told about the trick.

    Barbara's Chapter
  39. Teen years, in the middle of the night

    Midnight swimming trip in a possibly borrowed car

    Barbara took someone's car while everyone slept, picked up friends, and drove to the strip mines to swim. She thinks the car was Carol's; Carol is mentioned only as its possible owner.

    Barbara's Chapter
  40. Diana’s very earliest memory

    Carol injures her knee in the strawberry patch

    Carol fell and cut her knee deeply. Virginia took her to the hospital; the girls, including the McFarland girls, screamed.

    Diana's Chapter
  41. Early childhood

    Charcoal names on the garage lead to punishment

    Dee, Barb, and Diana wrote names on the garage, then threw rocks and a brick at Carol after she threatened punishment. Their father spanked them and made them clean the garage.

    Diana's Chapter
  42. One year during childhood

    Carol and Diana win a State Fair trip

    Both won trips through demonstrations at the county fair; Diana made a coffee cake. Carol supervised Diana, took her on a Double Ferris Wheel, and bought cotton candy. Diana privately suspected the contest had been arranged so Carol could care for her.

    Diana's Chapter
  43. date not given

    Carol’s car rolls downhill

    Diana forgot the emergency brake. The car rolled into a neighbor’s yard and stopped against a tree without a dent; Diana never told.

    Diana's Chapter
  44. High school years

    The sisters sell garden tomatoes

    The four girls picked and shined tomatoes, which their father took them to sell at a store’s produce department. They kept earnings in separate kitchen containers; Dee saved the most.

    Diana's Chapter
  45. Beginning of college

    Diana leaves for college

    Carol and their parents took Diana to college. Her father offered to bring her home to attend Moline Public Hospital’s Nursing School; her mother insisted she get out of the car. Carol cried and asked her not to go.

    Diana's Chapter
  46. A few weeks after Diana’s first week of college

    Iris and Bill give Diana Tillie the Toiler

    Unable to manage the long walk to nursing classes, Diana requested a car. Iris and Bill gave her a 1954 blue Ford, which ran for four years before stalling in her last school week. Carol later said their father had asked Bill to buy it. 1954 is the car’s model year, not a stated event year.

    Diana's Chapter
  47. As the girls were growing up

    An entire day of Toni home perms

    Mom and Virginia gave the girls Toni home perms. The narrator refused to attend school the following day because her hair was too curly.

    Dee's Chapter
  48. Christmas Eve

    Carol's Christmas Eve birthday celebration

    Mom made an angel food cake from scratch using twelve egg whites and used the yolks to make homemade noodles.

    Dee's Chapter
  49. After Dad died

    Gathering materials for Mom's crafts

    The narrator and Carol took the children nature hunting with Mom to collect pine cones, acorns, nuts, and other materials for her Nature Trees.

    Dee's Chapter
  50. date not given

    Carol's marriage

    Carol married; her husband is later named Charlie.

    Dee's Chapter
  51. Tuesdays and Saturdays, after Daddy died

    Weekly care and lunches with Mom

    The narrator took Mom for hair appointments and errands on Tuesdays; Carol handled errands on Saturdays. Mom treated each to lunch.

    Dee's Chapter
  52. date not given

    Carol’s baking award

    Her cooking won a baking award and a trip to the fair to demonstrate her talent.

    Dee's Chapter
  53. My junior and senior year

    Summer work at Tasty Treat

    Dee worked summers and enjoyed unlimited root beer in frosty mugs. Carol worked there briefly.

    Dee's Chapter
  54. With our very first paychecks

    Pooling first paychecks to redecorate

    Bought twin beds with Hollywood frames, turquoise corduroy bedspreads with rolled pillows, a swag lamp, and a round rug. Mom made matching checked gingham curtains.

    Dee's Chapter
  55. One sunny day

    Carol's scooter injury

    Carol gouged her knee while riding her scooter. She feared going to the hospital and received four clamps, leaving a scar.

    Dee's Chapter
  56. date not given

    Carol and Charlie relocate for his career

    The poem states that Carol and Charlie relocated because of his career, then describes their marriage and a few years in Germany.

    Dee's Chapter
  57. date not given

    Carol and Charlie marry in Germany

    They married in Germany and spent a few years attending wine festivals, eating brauts, and drinking German lager and stouts.

    Dee's Chapter
  58. in her later years

    Sisters care for their mother

    Dee and Carol cared for their mother, providing steady support and bringing her cheer through visits and talks.

    Dee's Chapter
  59. After her birth in 1938

    Carol comes home to her siblings

    Carol went home to the apartment to join her sister Iris and brothers Bobby and Bernie.

    Carol's Chapter
  60. One year

    Grandpa Williams buys a mangle

    Grandpa Williams bought Mom a cylindrical ironing machine to help with the large amount of ironing. The children thought it was a great invention and fought over whose turn it was to help.

    Carol's Chapter
  61. for years

    Hauling water during recurring well shortages

    When the family well went dry, Mom hauled water from Reichenberg’s well to wash clothes.

    Carol's Chapter
  62. At one time

    A wagon-mounted tank supplies water to family and neighbors

    Daddy had a wagon fitted with a five-hundred-gallon water tank he had made. He went to town two or three times a week to obtain water for the family's and neighbors' dry wells.

    Carol's Chapter
  63. date not given

    Making cinder plants

    Carol recalls putting iodine on pointed cinders to make what she describes as brilliant, iridescent, multicolored stalagmites.

    Carol's Chapter
  64. Twice a year, spring and fall

    Spring and fall housekeeping

    Recurring household cleaning included cleaning wallpaper, washing and stretching lace curtains, beating rugs, airing household textiles, painting as needed, washing windows and changing storm windows and screens, discarding unneeded items, and storing seasonal clothing with mothballs.

    Carol's Chapter
  65. Winter, when Chris was about five years old

    Chris accidentally locks Carol outside in winter

    While living with Mom, Carol stepped outside barefoot in a thin housecoat to shake a rug. Chris accidentally locked the door. Mr. Sajben helped her back inside using the skeleton key to his own house.

    Carol's Chapter
  66. every Saturday night

    The seven children's Saturday-night bath routine

    The children bathed from oldest to youngest in a shared galvanized wash tub. Their mother heated water on the stove, provided towel screens for the girls, and warmed drying towels on the oven door.

    Carol's Chapter
  67. When Carol was ten years old

    Iris marries

    Carol recalls that Iris married when she was ten years old; no spouse is named.

    Carol's Chapter
  68. when Carol was about twelve

    An indoor bathroom and two bedrooms added

    Daddy built a bathroom and two bedrooms onto the home, to the family's delight.

    Carol's Chapter
  69. date not given

    Carol moves to Florida

    Carol mentions moving to Florida while reflecting on how well Dee had done her hair for thirty-five years.

    Carol's Chapter
  70. one year

    Carol receives a new red bicycle

    Daddy called Carol outside to discover a new red bicycle. She was proud of it and cherished having something brand new; she could not remember her age.

    Carol's Chapter
  71. When Carol was about eight or nine years old

    Carol's scooter accident and treatment

    Carol cut her right knee on the sharp edge of her scooter. Barbara's double pneumonia kept Mom at home, so Virginia accompanied Carol while Mrs. Hannah drove to the doctor. Four clamps closed the wound. Afterward, the girls' discovery of supposed flesh proved to be a piece of strawberry.

    Carol's Chapter
  72. After Dr. Menton went to jail

    George Cook becomes the family doctor

    George Cook became the family's doctor and, through frequent visits, a family friend who tracked the children's progress through the years.

    Carol's Chapter
  73. date not given

    Long family car rides

    Daddy sometimes took the family on long drives, often as far as the Wisconsin border.

    Carol's Chapter
  74. date not given

    Visits to the Means family

    The family visited Bessie and Harry Means and their children, as well as a family named Rogers nearby.

    Carol's Chapter
  75. date not given

    Trips to visit the Moos family

    Short family visits to Ray and Arjean Moos and their four boys often included a day at Lincoln Park Zoo.

    Carol's Chapter
  76. date not given

    Airport outings with Daddy

    Repeated trips to watch airplanes coming and going and to attend free air shows, sitting on blankets in the surrounding fields.

    Carol's Chapter
  77. date not given

    Occasional ice cream treats at Roselles

    Daddy sometimes agreed to stop for Sealtest Ice Cream cones; some cones held a note in the tip stating “Free Cone.”

    Carol's Chapter
  78. date not given

    Fluffy's disappearance and the later account of his death

    Mom said Fluffy went into the woods to die of sickness and old age. Years later Virginia said he had distemper and Dale shot him after Daddy could not.

    Carol's Chapter
  79. When we first moved to 39th Street

    The family moves to 39th Street

    Carol associates the early period at 39th Street with Mom raising chickens, Bob having a pig, and Grandpa Williams raising rabbits.

    Carol's Chapter
  80. Once, for Sunday dinner

    Sunday ham dinner with Ruth and Tom Johnson

    Ruth and Tom Johnson invited the family over. Ruth served ham with all the trimmings, including ham gravy, in their dining room; Carol remembered it as very special.

    Carol's Chapter
  81. When Carol was eight or nine years old

    Carol receives her last childhood doll

    Carol received a bisque doll as a birthday present and treasured it, dressing it in outfits her mother made.

    Carol's Chapter
  82. A few years before about 1986

    Carol moves to 11th Street in Moline

    While unpacking after the move, Carol rediscovered her childhood doll and discussed its survival with Dee.

    Carol's Chapter
  83. Every Saturday

    Saturday cleaning and shopping routine

    The girls helped Mom clean after breakfast, finished by noon, bathed and dressed, then went downtown for shopping, toys, candy, and weekly groceries.

    Carol's Chapter
  84. Saturday afternoon before Easter, when Carol was about twelve or thirteen

    Carol’s Easter coat savings stolen

    A woman stole Carol’s wallet while she tried on a pink, short, lamb’s wool coat. The clerks could not catch the woman, and Carol went home without the coat.

    Carol's Chapter
  85. Saturday afternoon before Easter, following the theft

    Mom gives Carol money for the coat

    After Carol returned home crying, her mother gave her twenty-five dollars for the coat. Carol did not know how her mother could spare the money and believed she had done without something that week.

    Carol's Chapter
  86. when I was in first or second grade

    Carol's favorite orange-and-white school-age dress

    Carol's mother made a three-piece dress with a white puff-sleeved blouse that buttoned onto an orange skirt and a short orange bolero-type jacket. Carol loved it.

    Carol's Chapter
  87. once

    A frightening showing of the Wizard of Oz

    Virginia took the girls to the movie, but the witches frightened them into running to the concession area, and she took them home.

    Carol's Chapter
  88. date not given

    Family picnics at Riverside Park

    Recurring family picnics, including gatherings with families from Mom's 500 Club, featured specialty foods, cards, playground play, swimming afterward, and watermelon before going home.

    Carol's Chapter
  89. date not given

    Gathering and preparing black walnuts and hickory nuts

    Regular family outings into the woods supplied nuts that were dried on the garage roof, shelled by Grandpa Williams, and baked by Mom with butter and salt.

    Carol's Chapter
  90. Friday nights, after supper

    Friday-night fudge and board games

    A recurring family evening of cocoa fudge made by Mom, cooled on her mother's hand-painted platter, and board games around the kitchen table.

    Carol's Chapter
  91. Christmas Eve, after the family became too large for our house

    Family Christmas Eves at Iris and Bill’s

    The family enjoyed many Christmas Eve gatherings at Iris and Bill’s.

    Carol's Chapter
  92. shortly after the McFarlands

    Carol's family gets a television

    The family acquired a television shortly after the McFarlands. Carol's father became an avid viewer, while her mother seldom watched.

    Carol's Chapter
  93. Starting when she was nine years old; belonged for many years

    Carol joins the Peppy Steppers 4-H Club

    Carol was very active in club activities even though her family did not live on a farm. Mrs. Earl Holder and Mrs. Earl Bustard were the club leaders.

    Carol's Chapter
  94. date not given

    Carol joins 4-H and begins cooking and sewing

    Carol learned cooking and sewing through 4-H, with her mother's guidance and help.

    Carol's Chapter
  95. many times over the years

    Food and clothing entries at the county fair

    Carol repeatedly entered food and clothing projects.

    Carol's Chapter
  96. date not given

    Biscuit demonstration on WOC-TV

    Carol demonstrated how to make baking powder biscuits on WOC-TV.

    Carol's Chapter
  97. date not given

    Sisters win a trip to the Illinois State Fair

    Carol won for a baking powder biscuit demonstration and Diana for a coffee-cake demonstration. At the fair they rode the double Ferris wheel, and Diana received a large teddy bear from a midway barker.

    Carol's Chapter
  98. date not given

    Camping at White Eagle 4-H Camp

    A week of rustic camping with tents, river swimming, crafts, campfire songs, and S’mores. It rained all week.

    Carol's Chapter
  99. many summers

    Summer visits to Camp Shabone

    Carol's father drove her to camp many summers. She was a Brownie and then a Girl Scout and remembered several camp songs.

    Carol's Chapter
  100. At maybe five or six years old

    Carol begins attending Sunday school

    Carol rode the Sunday school bus from her neighborhood.

    Carol's Chapter
  101. date not given

    Carol marries Don Boney

    Don Boney was Carol's first husband.

    Carol's Chapter
  102. during World War II

    Buying war savings stamps at school

    The teacher sold stamps weekly. Carol reports still having her Savings Bonds stamp book.

    Carol's Chapter
  103. third grade

    Three tonsil removals on the same day

    Dr. George Cook removed Carol’s, Marilyn’s, and Bob’s tonsils on the same day.

    Carol's Chapter
  104. fourth grade

    Fourth grade with Mrs. Grafton

    Carol learned to tell time, memorized multiplication tables, discovered boys, and began wearing glasses.

    Carol's Chapter
  105. fifth grade

    Carol wins the reading contest

    Read over sixty books during the school year and wrote a report on each. Also began reading comic books around this time.

    Carol's Chapter
  106. in fifth grade

    Carol receives a blue ribbon for Jacks

    Received a blue ribbon in one of the Jacks contests held at school and kept it in the family scrapbook.

    Carol's Chapter
  107. Fifth and sixth grade

    Carol keeps a class autograph book

    Class autograph books were popular during these grades. Carol's surviving book contains verses from family and friends.

    Carol's Chapter
  108. Sixth grade

    Carol becomes a sixth-grade cheerleader

    Carol wore a blue and gold satin outfit made by her mother and felt included in the 'in' crowd.

    Carol's Chapter
  109. Periodically during Carol's school years

    Periodic school health inspections

    Mrs. Shadle checked pupils for ringworm with an ultraviolet lamp, parting their hair with toothpicks. Checking for lice is Carol's speculation.

    Carol's Chapter
  110. Seventh grade

    First nylons for a first dance

    Carol bought her first pair of nylons for her first dance. They had back seams that were difficult to straighten and were held up with a garter belt.

    Carol's Chapter
  111. Before Oh! Carol became a hit

    Carol graduates from high school

    Carol states that Oh! Carol was a hit after she graduated from high school.

    Carol's Chapter
  112. tenth grade

    Carol completes Driver’s Education

    Carol was one of four students out of about fifteen who finished the class and received permits.

    Carol's Chapter
  113. After graduating and getting a job, following three months of saving earnings

    Carol buys her first car and obtains her driver’s license

    Her father helped her find a green 1948 Chevy costing three hundred dollars. She used it to get her driver’s license; her sisters also drove it for years.

    Carol's Chapter
  114. Friday nights during high school

    Friday-night football and basketball games together

    Carol and Lila attended all the Friday-night high school football and basketball games together. Their team was the Moline Maroons; home football games were at Browning Field and home basketball games at Wharton Field House.

    Carol's Chapter
  115. date not given

    Pep rallies, football games, and after-game malts

    The narrator recalls using Lila’s dad’s pick-up truck for pep rallies and football games, then loading friends into the back and heading to Iowanna Dairy for a chocolate marshmallow malt.

    Carol's Chapter
  116. date not given

    Friends ride in the trunk for a drive-in outing

    Carol recalled putting a couple of friends in the trunk because the front of the car was full.

    Carol's Chapter
  117. date not given

    Carol tries her first cigarette

    Sharon brought a pack of cigarettes to a drive-in, and the group tried smoking. Carol said none liked it and none ever smoked.

    Carol's Chapter
  118. At seventeen

    Carol's first boyfriend

    John Clyde was Carol's first boyfriend and the first boy she kissed. She wore his class ring around her neck.

    Carol's Chapter
  119. During junior high and high school

    Carol baby-sits for spending money

    Baby-sat for neighbors and friends of Mom and Dad, mostly Iris and Bill.

    Carol's Chapter
  120. In the summer while Iris and Bill’s children were on summer vacation

    Summer stays as a mother’s helper

    Carol moved into their house to work as a mother’s helper.

    Carol's Chapter
  121. Summers

    Wisconsin cottage vacations

    Carol joined their vacations and enjoyed boating, swimming, and fishing.

    Carol's Chapter
  122. Summer between her junior and senior years in high school

    Carol’s first part-time job at Tasty Treat

    Mrs. Poston cooked and Carol delivered food on trays hooked to car windows. Carol says they made about seventy dollars plus tips that summer.

    Carol's Chapter
  123. Christmas

    Meeting Christmas Baby Carol

    The children tiptoe in to see their new sister sleeping in a laundry basket. Grandpa is upset because Mommy is sick.

    Bernie's Chapter
  124. When she needed a passport to visit Carol in Germany

    Ethel searches for her baptismal record

    With no birth certificate and official records destroyed by fire, Ethel located her baptismal record. It spelled her middle name Kathrine, listed her father's first name as Edwin rather than Edward, and established 1911 rather than her believed 1909 birth year.

    Carol's Chapter
  125. Three months, when Carol, Charlie, and Chris lived in Germany

    Mom's three-month visit to Germany

    Mom visited for three months. Bernie visited during her stay, and the group traveled throughout Germany, Denmark, and Holland.

    Carol's Chapter
  126. date not given

    Giving Mom a perfect 500 hand

    Carol and her unnamed sisters stacked the cards to give their mother a perfect 500 hand. Her excitement kept them from revealing their trick.

    Carol's Chapter
  127. the years just before Daddy got sick and passed away

    Visits from Uncle Clarence and Francis

    They visited a few times with their five unnamed children, whom Carol came to know well.

    Carol's Chapter
  128. a recent trip home

    Carol hears Herb's memories of Daddy

    Herb described Floyd's inventions, assistance to neighbors, and protectiveness toward his girls.

    Carol's Chapter
  129. date not given

    Carol graduates from Moline High

    Graduation preceded her first full-time job.

    Carol's Chapter
  130. After graduation until December 1966

    Carol's first full-time job

    Vendla helped Carol obtain subscription work starting at one dollar an hour. Carol and Eilene commuted together.

    Carol's Chapter
  131. After the 1972 divorce

    Carol and Chris move in with Mom

    Moved in with Carol's Mom.

    Carol's Chapter
  132. Before 1973

    Carol works at Moline Daily Dispatch

    Carol's Chapter
  133. Before 1973

    Carol works at Franciscan Hospital

    Carol's Chapter
  134. During the years in Germany

    Working at neighboring units in Germany

    Carol was secretary to the commander of a Nike Hercules Missile Battalion, next door to the 28th Ordnance Company where Charlie worked.

    Carol's Chapter
  135. During the years in Germany

    European outings and vacations

    Carol recalls skiing in Garmisch, visiting King Ludwig’s castles, and vacations to Denmark, Austria, Holland, Luxenbourg and Switzerland.

    Carol's Chapter
  136. During the years in Germany

    Festivals and weekend markets

    Attended the Fasching Parade in Mainz, described as a Pre-Easter celebration, many Wine Fests, and Farmer’s Markets every weekend.

    Carol's Chapter
  137. During the years in Germany

    Visits and touring with Mom and Bernie

    Carol remembers visits and touring with Mom and Bernie.

    Carol's Chapter
  138. date not given

    A home in the Coolidge school district

    Carol chose the district so Chris could attend the same schools she had attended. Nearby boys became his lifelong friends.

    Carol's Chapter
  139. 7th grade; thirteen years old

    Chris's memorable field goal

    While playing for the undefeated Coolidge Chiefs football team, Chris kicked what the passage calls the fourth longest field goal in Quad-City football history, twenty-three yards.

    Carol's Chapter
  140. At Christmas; on Carol’s 23rd birthday

    Family portraits during Bernie's Christmas visit

    Bernie photographed the family with a borrowed Leica camera against orange and green fabric in the girls’ bedroom.

    Carol's Chapter
  141. Later that day

    Carol’s 23rd birthday celebration

    The family celebrated Carol’s 23rd birthday after the portrait session.

    Carol's Chapter
  142. Early Fifties

    A school car built from two junk Chevys

    The narrator's father combined a junker 1936 Chevy and a junker 1937 Chevy into one working stick-shift car to take the children to school. Robert thinks Bernie, Carol, and he all drove it.

    Bob's Chapter
  143. date not given

    Carol's birth

    Mom came home from the hospital after Carol's birth and remained very sick, anemic, pale, and weak for a long time.

    Iris's Chapter
  144. When Carol was a baby

    Carol comes home from the hospital

    Carol could not turn the head independently because of weak neck muscles. Mom taught the others to turn the head to the opposite side when passing the baby basket. Carol eventually could hold the head up independently; Iris did not remember how long this took.

    Iris's Chapter
  145. date not given

    Carol worked at the Moline Dispatch

    Dee's Chapter
  146. After Carol's divorce

    Ethel welcomes Carol and Chris

    Ethel took them in after her children had left and Floyd had died.

    History of the Guild Family
  147. After all the children had left and Floyd had died

    Ethel welcomes family after divorces

    Took in Carol and Chris after Carol’s divorce, then Dee and Susy after Dee’s divorce.

    History of the Guild Family

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