Carol Mae Guild Sutton
known as Carol, Auntie Carol Mae, Christmas Baby Carol
also written Carol Mae, Carol, Auntie Carol Mae, Baby Carol, Christmas Baby Carol, Carol Sutton in the book
Biography
Birth date also recorded as “December 24, 1938, at 9:00 a.m.” (Carol's Chapter). Second daughter and fourth child; describes herself as the true middle child after three younger daughters were born. Her father named her Carol Mae in honor of the Christmas season. Birth weight was not recorded on her birth certificate; she was told she was very small, carried on a little pillow, and kept in an oval wicker basket on a bedroom shelf so her little brothers could not get at her. Narrator. Says she was four when the family moved in 1942 and twelve when she helped sell tomatoes about 1950. Her father let her keep the tomato-sale money. Shared a living-room couch bed with Diana and Delores. Narrator of Carol's Chapter; recalls the weekly laundry routine for a household of ten and helping with a mangle. Narrator of Carol's Chapter. Learned to ration water during recurring well shortages and still avoids letting water run while washing dishes or brushing teeth. Identified in the chapter attribution as the narrator. Narrates the family's spring and fall housekeeping ritual. Learned to paint from her mother. Seeing her grandchildren use Play-Doh reminds her of the pink, gummy wallpaper-cleaning material used during these cleanings. Narrator. Was living with Mom and Chris when Chris accidentally locked her outside in winter. Narrates a childhood Saturday-night bathing routine shared by seven children. Refers to her mother as Mom; neither her mother nor her siblings are named in the passage. Narrator; was ten years old when Iris married. Narrator. Lived in four rooms on 39th Street from 1942 until about 1949 or 1950. Recalls being about twelve when Daddy added a bathroom and two bedrooms. Did not feel poor growing up but privately associated the family's outhouse with poverty and did not want school friends to know about it. Identified in the chapter heading as the storyteller. Recalls Grandpa Williams’s support and Lloyd’s wartime gifts and letters. Narrator. Describes a happy, carefree childhood and a lifelong closeness to Dee, almost as though Dee were her twin. Refers to her mother as Mom, without naming her. Narrator. Recalls playing with her sisters and neighborhood children. Her parents are referred to only as Mom and Daddy. Identified in the chapter heading as the teller. Remembers jump-rope chants and hours of entertainment with simple games. Identified as the chapter narrator. Remembers making string figures: Jacob’s Ladder, The Witch’s Broom, Cup & Saucer, Rock the Baby, Chicken’s Feet, and Cat’s Cradle. Identified as the teller of Carol's Chapter. This section gives instructions for making a button hum by winding and unwinding a loop of string. Identified as the narrator of Carol's Chapter. Lists remembered purchased toys: Jacks, Marbles, Jump rope, Cap Guns, Lincoln Logs, Paper-dolls, Erector set, and Tinker Toys. Narrator. At about eight or nine years old, cut her right knee on her scooter near the family's strawberry patch. Four clamps closed the wound, leaving a scar still visible when she told the story. Narrator of the childhood memories of home doctoring and family physicians. Narrator of Carol's Chapter. Recalls being ashamed of the family's old cars. Her parents are referred to only as Daddy, Dad, and Mom in this passage. Narrator. Never accompanied Daddy to Minnesota and never met or knew her paternal grandparents. Identified as the narrator in the chapter attribution. Daddy is not named in this passage. Narrator of Carol's Chapter. Made a two-egg cake almost every day while in junior high; refused Daddy's offer of ten cents to eat liver. Narrator of Carol's Chapter. Recalled favorite Sunday meals, doing dishes with Dee, and enjoying the funnies in the Sunday paper. Identified as the teller of Carol's Chapter. This section lists remembered funnies rather than biographical information. Narrator. Remembers receiving 365 Bedtime Stories, a View Master, and a bisque doll for childhood birthdays. Her mother made outfits for the doll. At the time of writing, the doll was over fifty years old and displayed on her dresser. Narrator of Carol's Chapter. Her Saturday cleaning task was dusting the curliques on Mom’s foot-treadle sewing machine. Narrates a childhood memory from about age twelve or thirteen. Saved baby-sitting money for an Easter coat, but her wallet was stolen while she tried it on. Her mother, referred to only as Mom, gave her the twenty-five dollars needed for the coat. Narrator. Recalls her mother's sewing, a favorite orange-and-white three-piece dress from first or second grade, and wearing hand-me-downs and clothing received from friends. Narrator; recalls childhood moviegoing in the Forties. Roy Rogers was her hero. Narrator of the chapter; describes the incentive Daddy offered for helping harvest the corn. Narrator of Carol's Chapter; recalls family picnics and nut-gathering outings. Narrator of Carol's Chapter; recalls family Friday nights with homemade fudge and board games. Narrator of Carol's Chapter. Loved her mother's Depression Fruitcake and says she still does. Named as the teller of Carol's Chapter; the section heading is YEAST BREADS. Identified in the chapter heading as the narrator. Narrator of Carol's Chapter; recalls one of the first radios they had, a Philco table radio. Identified as the teller of this chapter. Lists radio programs she remembers listening to; Yukon King was her favorite. Recalls Dad laughing at The Amos N’ Andy Show and Mom enjoying Kate Smith and One Man’s Family. Narrator of Carol's Chapter. Says she would have been about twelve around 1950. Watched Howdy Doody daily at the McFarlands' house and enjoyed televised wrestling with her father. Identified as the teller of Carol's Chapter. This excerpt lists television programs and cartoons; names within program titles are not treated as separate individuals. Identified in the chapter attribution as the teller of Carol's Chapter. Narrator of Carol's Chapter; describes I Love Lucy as her all-time favorite. Identified as the teller of Carol's Chapter. Was very active in the Peppy Steppers 4-H Club for many years, beginning at age nine, although her family did not live on a farm. Older sister of Diana. Learned cooking and sewing through 4-H with guidance from her mother, referred to as Mom. Photographs of her appeared in newspapers for 4-H events and sewing projects. Demonstrated baking powder biscuit making on WOC-TV. Narrator of Carol's Chapter. Attended White Eagle 4-H Camp with Dee and Eilene Peterson. Was a Brownie and then a Girl Scout, and attended Camp Shabone many summers. Described herself as the “camper” in the family. Narrator of Carol's Chapter. Began Sunday school at Calvary Lutheran Church at perhaps five or six, riding its neighborhood bus. Her unnamed father never attended church; her unnamed mother joined Calvary after his death and attended every Sunday with Carol until her own death. Carol belonged to Luther League and the Women's Group, taught Sunday school, sang in the choir, prepared bulletins and newsletters in the office, and served on the council. Baptized and confirmed May 16, 1954, at age fifteen. Reports belonging to Calvary for over fifty years before transferring to a church in North Port, Florida, in 1995. Education also recorded as “Attended school with Marilyn and Patty through high school.” (Carol's Chapter). Narrator. About fourteen when the McFarlands moved into town in 1952. Remained close friends with Marilyn and loved Virginia as if she were a favorite aunt. Education also recorded as “Started kindergarten at Roosevelt Grade School in Moline in 1944; recalls first through fifth grades.” (Carol's Chapter). Narrator. The heading labels 1944–1951 as First to Sixth Grade, while the narrative says kindergarten began in 1944. Was about six on August 15, 1945. Had her tonsils removed in third grade, began wearing glasses in fourth grade, and won a fifth-grade reading contest with over sixty books and written reports. Narrator. Reading a good novel remains her favorite activity. Her favorite books then were Little Women and The Five Little Peppers and How They Grew. She also read Nancy Drew mystery stories and Bernie and Bob's copies of Hardy Boys books. Played Jacks endlessly in fifth grade and received a blue ribbon in a school contest. She still had the ribbon in the family scrapbook when recounting this memory. Education also recorded as “Recalls fifth- and sixth-grade autograph books and being a sixth-grade cheerleader.” (Carol's Chapter). Narrator of Carol's Chapter. Still keeps her class autograph book with other grade-school memorabilia. Her mother made her cheerleading outfit and prepared individually labeled school lunches. Education also recorded as “Attended Coolidge Junior High School in seventh through ninth grade, 1951–1954; earned A’s and a few B’s.” (Carol's Chapter). Recalled walking to school, buying taffy apples, slumber parties, records, sock hops, and intramural sports. Her father sold apples to her Home Economics teacher for cooking classes. Education also recorded as “Tenth through twelfth grade, 1954–1957. Took English, History, Biology, Literature, Spanish, Geometry, Government, shorthand, typing and other business courses. Member of the Future Nurses Club, Civic Club, Home Economics Club and Spanish Club.” (Carol's Chapter). Narrator. Earned A’s and B’s and enjoyed library research. Made all her full-circle skirts. Considered nursing, but her parents did not have the money; in retrospect she was glad she did not become a nurse. Education also recorded as “Graduated from high school.” (Carol's Chapter). Narrator of Carol's Chapter. Neil Sedaka's Oh! Carol was a favorite because her name was in the title; it was the only 45 rpm record she still owned. Narrator. Does not recall going to the movies very often in high school; lists favorite stars and particularly admires Esther Williams's swimming movies. Education also recorded as “Took Driver’s Education in tenth grade and obtained a permit; obtained her driver’s license after graduating and getting a job.” (Carol's Chapter). Lived with Iris and Bill while saving all her earnings for three months. Her father helped her find her first car, a green 1948 Chevy costing three hundred dollars. Her unnamed sisters also drove it for years. Narrator. Close friend of Lila Lambert (now Becker) from grade school through high school and still at the time of writing. They attended the same church, belonged to Luther League, and attended Friday-night high school football and basketball games together. Identified as the narrator in the chapter heading. Narrator. Recalled drive-in outings with friends and family, including trying a cigarette for the first time. Said none of the group liked it and none ever smoked. Had her first boyfriend, John Clyde, at seventeen. He was the first boy she kissed, and she wore his class ring around her neck. She had known him her entire life; he was a neighbor and a member of her church. Education also recorded as “Attended junior high and high school.” (Carol's Chapter). Narrator. Earned spending money baby-sitting and kept check stubs from her summer carhop job. Education also recorded as “Attended high school in Moline from fall 1954 to graduation in 1957; graduated in the top fourth of her class and wore a gold tassel.” (Carol's Chapter). Still keeps her gold graduation tassel. Drives by her former high school whenever she returns to Moline and feels sad that it is now an architectural firm. The new Moline High School, completed in 1958, was within walking distance of where she grew up. Identified in the chapter heading as the teller. Lists memories she wanted included after the book was finished. Identified as the chapter's narrator; recalls her parents' marriage, work, friendships, card games, and politics. Narrator of the chapter. Her birth certificate spells her mother's middle name Kathryn. Narrator of the chapter. Lived in Germany with Charlie and Chris when Mom visited for three months. Their relationships are not specified in this passage. Narrator of Carol's Chapter. Recalls playing 500 with her sisters and mother during holiday gatherings. Narrator of the chapter. Treasures her mother's handmade ornaments and the memory of exchanging hand caresses at her mother's bedside. Narrator identified in the chapter attribution. Writing these memories brought a new appreciation of her father's work and devotion. Identified in the chapter heading as the narrator. Remembers Daddy's habits and describes his final illness and death. Occupation also recorded as “Subscription work at Augustana Book Concern; worked at Moline Daily Dispatch and Franciscan Hospital; Department of Defense secretary and later budget analyst at Rock Island Arsenal.” (Carol's Chapter). Education also recorded as “Graduated from Moline High.” (Carol's Chapter). Says she was twenty-six when she married in 1965 and thirty-three when she divorced in 1972. Identified in the chapter attribution as the storyteller. Occupation also recorded as “Secretary for the commander of a Nike Hercules Missile Battalion in Germany; worked at the 31st ADA Brigade at Homestead Air Force Base; resumed her career at the Rock Island Arsenal.” (Carol's Chapter). Narrator. Described living in Germany as the happiest time of her life. Mom visited, but her name is not given. Occupation also recorded as “Retired from the Rock Island Arsenal in October, 1993” (Carol's Chapter). Education also recorded as “Attended schools in Moline, including Coolidge Junior High School.” (Carol's Chapter). Narrator. Enjoys reading, playing the keyboard, making Christmas ornaments, and collecting swans. Charlie gave her the first three swans on their first three anniversaries; her collection now exceeds one hundred. Narrator. Describes her love for her grandchildren and her wish to encourage them as they grow. Identified as the teller of Carol's Chapter. Celebrated her 23rd birthday on the day of the family photographs. birth date recorded both as “December 24, 1938” and as “Christmas Eve” in the book; kept as written. occupation also recorded as “Had jobs; work not specified.” in the book. Listed as “Carol Mae and Carol Barrel.” The exact identity and relationship between these names are not explicitly explained. Author of “Good as Ever,” an introduction to favorite Guild childhood games and instructions for playing them. One of the sisters Barbara asked to see for comfort in Kindergarten. A card game shortly before Mom's death took place at Carol's house. Slept on a roll away bed in the living room. Barbara took her dyed-to-match outfits when she left for work. Barbara thinks the car she took for a nighttime swimming trip was Carol's; ownership is explicitly uncertain. Listed among Barbara's siblings on her staircase. Deeply cut her knee in Virginia’s strawberry patch. Babysat Diana, Dee, and Barb. Described as the oldest sister remaining at home and like a second mother. Led Peppy Steppers 4-H Club meetings at Mrs. Holder’s house. Owned a car used by her younger sisters. The narrator's big sister; described as friendly and understanding. Fourth child in the stated birth order, after Bob and before the narrator. One of the girls given a Toni home perm by Mom and Virginia. Was put in charge of making desserts when old enough. Mom made a scratch angel food cake for Carol's Christmas Eve birthday, as she did for each child's birthday. Occupation also recorded as “Worked at the Moline Dispatch” (Dee's Chapter). Married and had a child. Joined the narrator and Mom in collecting natural craft materials. Took Mom on Saturday banking, shopping, and lunch outings after Daddy died. Mom visited Germany when Carol's husband was transferred there. Occupation also recorded as “Worked briefly at the Tasty Treat root beer stand.” (Dee's Chapter). Narrator’s sister and a wonderful cook whose cooking won a baking award and a trip to the Illinois State Fair. Shared a room with the narrator and pooled first paychecks to redecorate it. Dee's childhood playmate and close sister, with similar appearance and mannerisms. Injured her knee riding a scooter and received four clamps, leaving a scar. Loves cooking; her mother loved her shrimp dipped in beer. Helped Dee care for their mother in her later years. One of the six younger siblings Iris helped care for. Named in the verse beginning “Down in the valley.” The passage does not explicitly identify this verse character with the narrator. A picture in Carol's memories on page 174 shows the mailbox millstone. Robert thinks Carol drove the stick-shift car made from a 1936 Chevy and a 1937 Chevy. Introduced as the narrator's new sister and a Christmas baby. Sleeps in an oval laundry basket. Grandpa feeds her apple scraped with a teaspoon. Taught the narrator Jacks and played it at length with Dee and Diana. The narrator thinks Carol was probably the girl taking a bath who yelled that Sonny was peeping; he is not certain. Told the narrator that he screamed at the sight of blood; he thinks she is wrong. He thinks Carol may have been the girl who had scarlet fever and recovered, but explicitly cannot remember which girl it was. After Carol's birth, Mom returned from the hospital very sick, anemic, pale, and weak for a long time. Brought home from the hospital as a small baby with neck muscles too weak to turn the head independently. Mom taught the others to alternate the position of Carol's head whenever they passed the baby basket. Eventually could hold the head up independently. Listed after Bob in birth order, followed by Delores and Diana, with births described as about eighteen months apart. Ethel took in Carol and Chris after Carol's divorce. In 1979 lived in Germany with husband Charlie and son Chris. Ethel took in Carol and Chris after Carol’s divorce. Carol, Charlie and Chris were stationed in Mainz with the Army in 1979; individual service status and their relationships are not specified. Named as a player in an illustrative example explaining the rules of Mother, May I? No actual occasion of play is specified. Carol’s memories explain string games like Cat’s Cradle.
Timeline
December 24, 1938
Birth of CAROL MAE GUILD SUTTON
The Guilds9:00 a.m. on Saturday, December 24, 1938
Christmas Eve birth of Carol Mae
Carol was born to Ethel, age twenty-nine, and Floyd Guild, age thirty-two. Her father named her Carol Mae in honor of the Christmas season.
Carol's ChapterIn the Forties
Doctors make house calls
Mom changed the children's bed sheets before the doctor arrived. Dr. Cook supplied pills or cough syrup, anticipating that more children would develop the same ailment.
Carol's Chapterthe Forties
Almost weekly Saturday matinees
Carol attended Saturday matinees almost every week as a child; admission was twenty-five cents and popcorn a nickel.
Carol's Chapterone summer in the Forties
A summer visit from Floyd's three sisters
The sisters came from Brainerd; Carol had not met them before.
Carol's Chapter1942
Carol moves to 3209 39th Street
Carol was four years old and remembers running through the empty rooms and jumping in and out of windows.
Carol's Chapterfrom 1942 until about 1949 or 1950
Living in four rooms on 39th Street
Carol recalls the family living in four rooms. The ending year is given as approximately 1949 or 1950.
Carol's Chapter1944
Carol starts kindergarten
Mrs. Hogland drove the children to school; Carol sat on a board supported by two cement blocks.
Carol's ChapterAugust 15, 1945
Celebrating the radio announcement that the war was over
Ruth and John explained the news; the children jumped, clapped, and shouted. Carol says she was about six and that the war was officially over that day.
Carol's Chapterabout 1950
Carol earns money from the tomato harvest
At twelve, Carol helped her father pick, polish, and pack tomatoes, placing the prettiest on top. Tomatoes sold for three dollars a bushel, and her father let her keep the money. Some were sold to Sam Gnatovich.
Carol's Chapteraround 1950
Watching the neighborhood's first television
The McFarlands had the first television in the neighborhood. Carol, who says she would have been about twelve, went to their house daily to watch Howdy Doody.
Carol's Chapter1951 - 1954 (Seventh to Ninth Grade)
Carol’s seventh through ninth grades at Coolidge Junior High School
Carol earned A’s and a few B’s, took the usual subjects, and recalled being Mrs. McManus’s favorite in seventh-grade Home Economics.
Carol's ChapterMay 16, 1954
Carol's baptism and confirmation
Carol says she was baptized and confirmed at fifteen.
Carol's Chapter1954 - 1957
Carol's tenth through twelfth grades
Carol recalls high school courses, clubs, term papers and teenage life.
Carol's Chapterfall of 1954
Carol enters high school
Carol remembers timidly entering the school's doors.
Carol's Chapter1956
Carol's first taste of pizza
Carol tasted pizza for the first time while on a date with John Clyde.
Carol's Chapter1957
Carol graduates with a gold tassel
Carol graduated in the top fourth of her class, earning a gold tassel for her graduation cap that she still keeps.
Carol's Chapter1958
New Moline High School completed
The new school was completed a year after Carol graduated and was close enough to where she grew up that she could have walked there.
Carol's ChapterJuly 3, 1965
Carol marries Donald M. Boney
Carol was twenty-six.
Carol's ChapterChristmas holiday, 1967
Holiday gathering at Iris and Bill's
The family gathered for the holiday while Mom stayed home with Daddy.
Carol's ChapterAfter the stroke and before May 23, 1968
Family care at home and the search for a suitable hospital
The family rejected St. Anthony’s Hospital in Rock Island because of smoking patients and Daddy's breathing difficulty. Mom cared for him at home with help from the girls and daily help from Virginia. Exhaustion and a lack of suitable alternatives eventually led to his placement at East Moline State Hospital.
Carol's ChapterJanuary 27, 1967
Chris is born
Carol's ChapterMay 23, 1968
Daddy dies surrounded by family
Daddy died at age sixty-three with Mom and all the children around him.
Carol's Chapter1972
Carol and Don divorce
After seven years of marriage; Carol was thirty-three and Chris five.
Carol's Chapter1973
Carol begins work at Rock Island Arsenal
Worked for the Department of Defense as a secretary, then budget analyst. Met Charlie while serving as his secretary.
Carol's ChapterJanuary 1975
Carol and Charlie fall in love at a dinner-dance
Sat together and danced; Carol describes instant love.
Carol's ChapterApril 30, 1976
Carol and Charlie marry in Berne
They spent two years overseas.
Carol's ChapterJuly of 1978
Leaving Germany for Florida
After leaving Germany, they were assigned to the 31st ADA Brigade at Homestead Air Force Base, where both worked.
Carol's ChapterSeptember of 1979
Returning to Moline
Returned to Moline after a short stay in Florida.
Carol's ChapterSeptember of 1979
Resuming careers at the Rock Island Arsenal
Both resumed their careers at the Rock Island Arsenal upon returning to Moline.
Carol's Chapter1979
Ethel's cherished European holiday
Bernie sent Ethel to Germany to visit Carol's family, then joined them. They toured Germany and Denmark in a huge government-issued Mercedes.
History of the Guild Family1979
Ethel’s dream trip to Europe
Bernie sent her to visit family stationed in Mainz with the Army, joined her, and traveled with the group to Denmark in a government-issued Mercedes.
History of the Guild FamilyAbout 1986, on Carol's birthday
Dee surprises Carol with her restored doll
Dee secretly had a friend refurbish the doll, then put it on a stand and gave it to Carol as a birthday surprise.
Carol's ChapterOctober, 1993
Carol retires from the Rock Island Arsenal
Carol's Chapter1995
Carol transfers church membership
Carol transferred from Calvary to her current church in North Port after what she describes as over fifty years of membership.
Carol's ChapterJuly of 1995
Beginning Phase Two in Florida
Carol describes moving to Florida for retirement and now living in North Port on the western coast.
Carol's Chapterdate not given
Barbara starts Kindergarten
Barbara cried daily and asked for her sisters to comfort her before eventually adjusting.
Barbara's ChapterNot long before her death in 1988
A secretly arranged perfect 500 hand
While Mom went to the bathroom, the players arranged a perfect hand for her. Diana was visiting from Florida. Mom was delighted and was never told about the trick.
Barbara's ChapterTeen years, in the middle of the night
Midnight swimming trip in a possibly borrowed car
Barbara took someone's car while everyone slept, picked up friends, and drove to the strip mines to swim. She thinks the car was Carol's; Carol is mentioned only as its possible owner.
Barbara's ChapterDiana’s very earliest memory
Carol injures her knee in the strawberry patch
Carol fell and cut her knee deeply. Virginia took her to the hospital; the girls, including the McFarland girls, screamed.
Diana's ChapterEarly childhood
Charcoal names on the garage lead to punishment
Dee, Barb, and Diana wrote names on the garage, then threw rocks and a brick at Carol after she threatened punishment. Their father spanked them and made them clean the garage.
Diana's ChapterOne year during childhood
Carol and Diana win a State Fair trip
Both won trips through demonstrations at the county fair; Diana made a coffee cake. Carol supervised Diana, took her on a Double Ferris Wheel, and bought cotton candy. Diana privately suspected the contest had been arranged so Carol could care for her.
Diana's Chapterdate not given
Carol’s car rolls downhill
Diana forgot the emergency brake. The car rolled into a neighbor’s yard and stopped against a tree without a dent; Diana never told.
Diana's ChapterHigh school years
The sisters sell garden tomatoes
The four girls picked and shined tomatoes, which their father took them to sell at a store’s produce department. They kept earnings in separate kitchen containers; Dee saved the most.
Diana's ChapterBeginning of college
Diana leaves for college
Carol and their parents took Diana to college. Her father offered to bring her home to attend Moline Public Hospital’s Nursing School; her mother insisted she get out of the car. Carol cried and asked her not to go.
Diana's ChapterA few weeks after Diana’s first week of college
Iris and Bill give Diana Tillie the Toiler
Unable to manage the long walk to nursing classes, Diana requested a car. Iris and Bill gave her a 1954 blue Ford, which ran for four years before stalling in her last school week. Carol later said their father had asked Bill to buy it. 1954 is the car’s model year, not a stated event year.
Diana's ChapterAs the girls were growing up
An entire day of Toni home perms
Mom and Virginia gave the girls Toni home perms. The narrator refused to attend school the following day because her hair was too curly.
Dee's ChapterChristmas Eve
Carol's Christmas Eve birthday celebration
Mom made an angel food cake from scratch using twelve egg whites and used the yolks to make homemade noodles.
Dee's ChapterAfter Dad died
Gathering materials for Mom's crafts
The narrator and Carol took the children nature hunting with Mom to collect pine cones, acorns, nuts, and other materials for her Nature Trees.
Dee's Chapterdate not given
Carol's marriage
Carol married; her husband is later named Charlie.
Dee's ChapterTuesdays and Saturdays, after Daddy died
Weekly care and lunches with Mom
The narrator took Mom for hair appointments and errands on Tuesdays; Carol handled errands on Saturdays. Mom treated each to lunch.
Dee's Chapterdate not given
Carol’s baking award
Her cooking won a baking award and a trip to the fair to demonstrate her talent.
Dee's ChapterMy junior and senior year
Summer work at Tasty Treat
Dee worked summers and enjoyed unlimited root beer in frosty mugs. Carol worked there briefly.
Dee's ChapterWith our very first paychecks
Pooling first paychecks to redecorate
Bought twin beds with Hollywood frames, turquoise corduroy bedspreads with rolled pillows, a swag lamp, and a round rug. Mom made matching checked gingham curtains.
Dee's ChapterOne sunny day
Carol's scooter injury
Carol gouged her knee while riding her scooter. She feared going to the hospital and received four clamps, leaving a scar.
Dee's Chapterdate not given
Carol and Charlie relocate for his career
The poem states that Carol and Charlie relocated because of his career, then describes their marriage and a few years in Germany.
Dee's Chapterdate not given
Carol and Charlie marry in Germany
They married in Germany and spent a few years attending wine festivals, eating brauts, and drinking German lager and stouts.
Dee's Chapterin her later years
Sisters care for their mother
Dee and Carol cared for their mother, providing steady support and bringing her cheer through visits and talks.
Dee's ChapterAfter her birth in 1938
Carol comes home to her siblings
Carol went home to the apartment to join her sister Iris and brothers Bobby and Bernie.
Carol's ChapterOne year
Grandpa Williams buys a mangle
Grandpa Williams bought Mom a cylindrical ironing machine to help with the large amount of ironing. The children thought it was a great invention and fought over whose turn it was to help.
Carol's Chapterfor years
Hauling water during recurring well shortages
When the family well went dry, Mom hauled water from Reichenberg’s well to wash clothes.
Carol's ChapterAt one time
A wagon-mounted tank supplies water to family and neighbors
Daddy had a wagon fitted with a five-hundred-gallon water tank he had made. He went to town two or three times a week to obtain water for the family's and neighbors' dry wells.
Carol's Chapterdate not given
Making cinder plants
Carol recalls putting iodine on pointed cinders to make what she describes as brilliant, iridescent, multicolored stalagmites.
Carol's ChapterTwice a year, spring and fall
Spring and fall housekeeping
Recurring household cleaning included cleaning wallpaper, washing and stretching lace curtains, beating rugs, airing household textiles, painting as needed, washing windows and changing storm windows and screens, discarding unneeded items, and storing seasonal clothing with mothballs.
Carol's ChapterWinter, when Chris was about five years old
Chris accidentally locks Carol outside in winter
While living with Mom, Carol stepped outside barefoot in a thin housecoat to shake a rug. Chris accidentally locked the door. Mr. Sajben helped her back inside using the skeleton key to his own house.
Carol's Chapterevery Saturday night
The seven children's Saturday-night bath routine
The children bathed from oldest to youngest in a shared galvanized wash tub. Their mother heated water on the stove, provided towel screens for the girls, and warmed drying towels on the oven door.
Carol's ChapterWhen Carol was ten years old
Iris marries
Carol recalls that Iris married when she was ten years old; no spouse is named.
Carol's Chapterwhen Carol was about twelve
An indoor bathroom and two bedrooms added
Daddy built a bathroom and two bedrooms onto the home, to the family's delight.
Carol's Chapterdate not given
Carol moves to Florida
Carol mentions moving to Florida while reflecting on how well Dee had done her hair for thirty-five years.
Carol's Chapterone year
Carol receives a new red bicycle
Daddy called Carol outside to discover a new red bicycle. She was proud of it and cherished having something brand new; she could not remember her age.
Carol's ChapterWhen Carol was about eight or nine years old
Carol's scooter accident and treatment
Carol cut her right knee on the sharp edge of her scooter. Barbara's double pneumonia kept Mom at home, so Virginia accompanied Carol while Mrs. Hannah drove to the doctor. Four clamps closed the wound. Afterward, the girls' discovery of supposed flesh proved to be a piece of strawberry.
Carol's ChapterAfter Dr. Menton went to jail
George Cook becomes the family doctor
George Cook became the family's doctor and, through frequent visits, a family friend who tracked the children's progress through the years.
Carol's Chapterdate not given
Long family car rides
Daddy sometimes took the family on long drives, often as far as the Wisconsin border.
Carol's Chapterdate not given
Visits to the Means family
The family visited Bessie and Harry Means and their children, as well as a family named Rogers nearby.
Carol's Chapterdate not given
Trips to visit the Moos family
Short family visits to Ray and Arjean Moos and their four boys often included a day at Lincoln Park Zoo.
Carol's Chapterdate not given
Airport outings with Daddy
Repeated trips to watch airplanes coming and going and to attend free air shows, sitting on blankets in the surrounding fields.
Carol's Chapterdate not given
Occasional ice cream treats at Roselles
Daddy sometimes agreed to stop for Sealtest Ice Cream cones; some cones held a note in the tip stating “Free Cone.”
Carol's Chapterdate not given
Fluffy's disappearance and the later account of his death
Mom said Fluffy went into the woods to die of sickness and old age. Years later Virginia said he had distemper and Dale shot him after Daddy could not.
Carol's ChapterWhen we first moved to 39th Street
The family moves to 39th Street
Carol associates the early period at 39th Street with Mom raising chickens, Bob having a pig, and Grandpa Williams raising rabbits.
Carol's ChapterOnce, for Sunday dinner
Sunday ham dinner with Ruth and Tom Johnson
Ruth and Tom Johnson invited the family over. Ruth served ham with all the trimmings, including ham gravy, in their dining room; Carol remembered it as very special.
Carol's ChapterWhen Carol was eight or nine years old
Carol receives her last childhood doll
Carol received a bisque doll as a birthday present and treasured it, dressing it in outfits her mother made.
Carol's ChapterA few years before about 1986
Carol moves to 11th Street in Moline
While unpacking after the move, Carol rediscovered her childhood doll and discussed its survival with Dee.
Carol's ChapterEvery Saturday
Saturday cleaning and shopping routine
The girls helped Mom clean after breakfast, finished by noon, bathed and dressed, then went downtown for shopping, toys, candy, and weekly groceries.
Carol's ChapterSaturday afternoon before Easter, when Carol was about twelve or thirteen
Carol’s Easter coat savings stolen
A woman stole Carol’s wallet while she tried on a pink, short, lamb’s wool coat. The clerks could not catch the woman, and Carol went home without the coat.
Carol's ChapterSaturday afternoon before Easter, following the theft
Mom gives Carol money for the coat
After Carol returned home crying, her mother gave her twenty-five dollars for the coat. Carol did not know how her mother could spare the money and believed she had done without something that week.
Carol's Chapterwhen I was in first or second grade
Carol's favorite orange-and-white school-age dress
Carol's mother made a three-piece dress with a white puff-sleeved blouse that buttoned onto an orange skirt and a short orange bolero-type jacket. Carol loved it.
Carol's Chapteronce
A frightening showing of the Wizard of Oz
Virginia took the girls to the movie, but the witches frightened them into running to the concession area, and she took them home.
Carol's Chapterdate not given
Family picnics at Riverside Park
Recurring family picnics, including gatherings with families from Mom's 500 Club, featured specialty foods, cards, playground play, swimming afterward, and watermelon before going home.
Carol's Chapterdate not given
Gathering and preparing black walnuts and hickory nuts
Regular family outings into the woods supplied nuts that were dried on the garage roof, shelled by Grandpa Williams, and baked by Mom with butter and salt.
Carol's ChapterFriday nights, after supper
Friday-night fudge and board games
A recurring family evening of cocoa fudge made by Mom, cooled on her mother's hand-painted platter, and board games around the kitchen table.
Carol's ChapterChristmas Eve, after the family became too large for our house
Family Christmas Eves at Iris and Bill’s
The family enjoyed many Christmas Eve gatherings at Iris and Bill’s.
Carol's Chaptershortly after the McFarlands
Carol's family gets a television
The family acquired a television shortly after the McFarlands. Carol's father became an avid viewer, while her mother seldom watched.
Carol's ChapterStarting when she was nine years old; belonged for many years
Carol joins the Peppy Steppers 4-H Club
Carol was very active in club activities even though her family did not live on a farm. Mrs. Earl Holder and Mrs. Earl Bustard were the club leaders.
Carol's Chapterdate not given
Carol joins 4-H and begins cooking and sewing
Carol learned cooking and sewing through 4-H, with her mother's guidance and help.
Carol's Chaptermany times over the years
Food and clothing entries at the county fair
Carol repeatedly entered food and clothing projects.
Carol's Chapterdate not given
Biscuit demonstration on WOC-TV
Carol demonstrated how to make baking powder biscuits on WOC-TV.
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Sisters win a trip to the Illinois State Fair
Carol won for a baking powder biscuit demonstration and Diana for a coffee-cake demonstration. At the fair they rode the double Ferris wheel, and Diana received a large teddy bear from a midway barker.
Carol's Chapterdate not given
Camping at White Eagle 4-H Camp
A week of rustic camping with tents, river swimming, crafts, campfire songs, and S’mores. It rained all week.
Carol's Chaptermany summers
Summer visits to Camp Shabone
Carol's father drove her to camp many summers. She was a Brownie and then a Girl Scout and remembered several camp songs.
Carol's ChapterAt maybe five or six years old
Carol begins attending Sunday school
Carol rode the Sunday school bus from her neighborhood.
Carol's Chapterdate not given
Carol marries Don Boney
Don Boney was Carol's first husband.
Carol's Chapterduring World War II
Buying war savings stamps at school
The teacher sold stamps weekly. Carol reports still having her Savings Bonds stamp book.
Carol's Chapterthird grade
Three tonsil removals on the same day
Dr. George Cook removed Carol’s, Marilyn’s, and Bob’s tonsils on the same day.
Carol's Chapterfourth grade
Fourth grade with Mrs. Grafton
Carol learned to tell time, memorized multiplication tables, discovered boys, and began wearing glasses.
Carol's Chapterfifth grade
Carol wins the reading contest
Read over sixty books during the school year and wrote a report on each. Also began reading comic books around this time.
Carol's Chapterin fifth grade
Carol receives a blue ribbon for Jacks
Received a blue ribbon in one of the Jacks contests held at school and kept it in the family scrapbook.
Carol's ChapterFifth and sixth grade
Carol keeps a class autograph book
Class autograph books were popular during these grades. Carol's surviving book contains verses from family and friends.
Carol's ChapterSixth grade
Carol becomes a sixth-grade cheerleader
Carol wore a blue and gold satin outfit made by her mother and felt included in the 'in' crowd.
Carol's ChapterPeriodically during Carol's school years
Periodic school health inspections
Mrs. Shadle checked pupils for ringworm with an ultraviolet lamp, parting their hair with toothpicks. Checking for lice is Carol's speculation.
Carol's ChapterSeventh grade
First nylons for a first dance
Carol bought her first pair of nylons for her first dance. They had back seams that were difficult to straighten and were held up with a garter belt.
Carol's ChapterBefore Oh! Carol became a hit
Carol graduates from high school
Carol states that Oh! Carol was a hit after she graduated from high school.
Carol's Chaptertenth grade
Carol completes Driver’s Education
Carol was one of four students out of about fifteen who finished the class and received permits.
Carol's ChapterAfter graduating and getting a job, following three months of saving earnings
Carol buys her first car and obtains her driver’s license
Her father helped her find a green 1948 Chevy costing three hundred dollars. She used it to get her driver’s license; her sisters also drove it for years.
Carol's ChapterFriday nights during high school
Friday-night football and basketball games together
Carol and Lila attended all the Friday-night high school football and basketball games together. Their team was the Moline Maroons; home football games were at Browning Field and home basketball games at Wharton Field House.
Carol's Chapterdate not given
Pep rallies, football games, and after-game malts
The narrator recalls using Lila’s dad’s pick-up truck for pep rallies and football games, then loading friends into the back and heading to Iowanna Dairy for a chocolate marshmallow malt.
Carol's Chapterdate not given
Friends ride in the trunk for a drive-in outing
Carol recalled putting a couple of friends in the trunk because the front of the car was full.
Carol's Chapterdate not given
Carol tries her first cigarette
Sharon brought a pack of cigarettes to a drive-in, and the group tried smoking. Carol said none liked it and none ever smoked.
Carol's ChapterAt seventeen
Carol's first boyfriend
John Clyde was Carol's first boyfriend and the first boy she kissed. She wore his class ring around her neck.
Carol's ChapterDuring junior high and high school
Carol baby-sits for spending money
Baby-sat for neighbors and friends of Mom and Dad, mostly Iris and Bill.
Carol's ChapterIn the summer while Iris and Bill’s children were on summer vacation
Summer stays as a mother’s helper
Carol moved into their house to work as a mother’s helper.
Carol's ChapterSummers
Wisconsin cottage vacations
Carol joined their vacations and enjoyed boating, swimming, and fishing.
Carol's ChapterSummer between her junior and senior years in high school
Carol’s first part-time job at Tasty Treat
Mrs. Poston cooked and Carol delivered food on trays hooked to car windows. Carol says they made about seventy dollars plus tips that summer.
Carol's ChapterChristmas
Meeting Christmas Baby Carol
The children tiptoe in to see their new sister sleeping in a laundry basket. Grandpa is upset because Mommy is sick.
Bernie's ChapterWhen she needed a passport to visit Carol in Germany
Ethel searches for her baptismal record
With no birth certificate and official records destroyed by fire, Ethel located her baptismal record. It spelled her middle name Kathrine, listed her father's first name as Edwin rather than Edward, and established 1911 rather than her believed 1909 birth year.
Carol's ChapterThree months, when Carol, Charlie, and Chris lived in Germany
Mom's three-month visit to Germany
Mom visited for three months. Bernie visited during her stay, and the group traveled throughout Germany, Denmark, and Holland.
Carol's Chapterdate not given
Giving Mom a perfect 500 hand
Carol and her unnamed sisters stacked the cards to give their mother a perfect 500 hand. Her excitement kept them from revealing their trick.
Carol's Chapterthe years just before Daddy got sick and passed away
Visits from Uncle Clarence and Francis
They visited a few times with their five unnamed children, whom Carol came to know well.
Carol's Chaptera recent trip home
Carol hears Herb's memories of Daddy
Herb described Floyd's inventions, assistance to neighbors, and protectiveness toward his girls.
Carol's Chapterdate not given
Carol graduates from Moline High
Graduation preceded her first full-time job.
Carol's ChapterAfter graduation until December 1966
Carol's first full-time job
Vendla helped Carol obtain subscription work starting at one dollar an hour. Carol and Eilene commuted together.
Carol's ChapterAfter the 1972 divorce
Carol and Chris move in with Mom
Moved in with Carol's Mom.
Carol's ChapterBefore 1973
Carol works at Moline Daily Dispatch
Carol's ChapterBefore 1973
Carol works at Franciscan Hospital
Carol's ChapterDuring the years in Germany
Working at neighboring units in Germany
Carol was secretary to the commander of a Nike Hercules Missile Battalion, next door to the 28th Ordnance Company where Charlie worked.
Carol's ChapterDuring the years in Germany
European outings and vacations
Carol recalls skiing in Garmisch, visiting King Ludwig’s castles, and vacations to Denmark, Austria, Holland, Luxenbourg and Switzerland.
Carol's ChapterDuring the years in Germany
Festivals and weekend markets
Attended the Fasching Parade in Mainz, described as a Pre-Easter celebration, many Wine Fests, and Farmer’s Markets every weekend.
Carol's ChapterDuring the years in Germany
Visits and touring with Mom and Bernie
Carol remembers visits and touring with Mom and Bernie.
Carol's Chapterdate not given
A home in the Coolidge school district
Carol chose the district so Chris could attend the same schools she had attended. Nearby boys became his lifelong friends.
Carol's Chapter7th grade; thirteen years old
Chris's memorable field goal
While playing for the undefeated Coolidge Chiefs football team, Chris kicked what the passage calls the fourth longest field goal in Quad-City football history, twenty-three yards.
Carol's ChapterAt Christmas; on Carol’s 23rd birthday
Family portraits during Bernie's Christmas visit
Bernie photographed the family with a borrowed Leica camera against orange and green fabric in the girls’ bedroom.
Carol's ChapterLater that day
Carol’s 23rd birthday celebration
The family celebrated Carol’s 23rd birthday after the portrait session.
Carol's ChapterEarly Fifties
A school car built from two junk Chevys
The narrator's father combined a junker 1936 Chevy and a junker 1937 Chevy into one working stick-shift car to take the children to school. Robert thinks Bernie, Carol, and he all drove it.
Bob's Chapterdate not given
Carol's birth
Mom came home from the hospital after Carol's birth and remained very sick, anemic, pale, and weak for a long time.
Iris's ChapterWhen Carol was a baby
Carol comes home from the hospital
Carol could not turn the head independently because of weak neck muscles. Mom taught the others to turn the head to the opposite side when passing the baby basket. Carol eventually could hold the head up independently; Iris did not remember how long this took.
Iris's Chapterdate not given
Carol worked at the Moline Dispatch
Dee's ChapterAfter Carol's divorce
Ethel welcomes Carol and Chris
Ethel took them in after her children had left and Floyd had died.
History of the Guild FamilyAfter all the children had left and Floyd had died
Ethel welcomes family after divorces
Took in Carol and Chris after Carol’s divorce, then Dee and Susy after Dee’s divorce.
History of the Guild Family
Stories mentioning Carol
- Sisters’ Comfort in KindergartenWhen Barbara started Kindergarten at Roosevelt grade school, she cried every day and asked for Diana, Delores or Carol to come comfort her. She eventually adjusted but still missed being with her sisters.
- Mom's Card Tables and a Perfect HandBarbara remembers Mom crocheting over morning coffee, hosting Club with tuna casserole, yeast rolls, sweets, and nuts, and praising the prizes the children bought at the Highland dime store. Annual Club picnics at Riverside Park featured homemade food, flavored pop, swimming, cards, and watermelon. Shortly before Mom's death, during a card game at Carol's house while Diana visited from Florida, the players secretly arranged a perfect 500 hand for Mom and never told her. Barbara also recalls the haunting story of a Club lady losing a finger in a Mix Master, tentatively identifying her as Olene Allerdyce.
- Tin-Tub Baths and Saturday Night MoviesBarbara recalls Saturday baths in a kitchen tin tub with stove-heated water before Daddy and the boys built an addition with a bathroom. She describes crowded sleeping arrangements, a two-seater outdoor toilet, brown-painted iron beds, wool army blankets, and chenille bedspreads. Other memories include late Saturday movies while her parents played cards, Sturdevant Milk advertisements, visiting salesmen, and listening in on party-line conversations.
- A Midnight Drive to The PitsWhile recalling learning to drive, Barbara confesses that she took someone's car in the middle of the night while everyone slept. She thinks it was Carol's car. She picked up friends and drove out to The Pits, identified as strip mines, to swim, ending her confession with an apology.
- Thanks for the Memories, BernieBarbara thanks Bernie for encouraging their recollections and says remembering the early years has been fun. She also describes a few of her quilts, her siblings Diana, Bob, Carol, Iris, and Dee on her staircase, and Bernie in his kitchen.
- Strawberry Patches, Saturday Baths, and Childhood PlayDiana recalls Carol’s frightening knee injury, punishment for charcoal writing and throwing rocks, and fear during her mother’s pneumonia. She describes the small house before bedrooms and a bathroom were added, Saturday baths in kitchen tubs, outdoor games, dolls, jump rope, and Jacks. School memories include crying on her first day, health inspections, and a sixth-grade ribbon.
- Seven Children, Shared Adventures, and Sisterly MischiefDiana remembers Iris cutting hair, Bernie rescuing her from punishment and playing records, and Bob driving four younger sisters to school and building an igloo with Billy Johnson. Carol served as a second mother, led 4-H meetings, and accompanied Diana to the State Fair. Dee was a card-playing companion and peacekeeper. Diana and Barb shared sleeping space, television suppers, prank calls, forbidden games, and adventures with Carol’s car. Family outings included the drive-in, ice cream, carnival rides, and drag races.
- A Car for College and a Family That Always HelpedDiana recalls demanding study habits, family gardening and tomato sales, and her anxious departure for college. Iris and Bill’s gift of a car made nursing school feasible. During an earlier John Deere & Company strike, Iris brought groceries when the family lacked money. Diana describes her scholarship, difficult college years, friendship with Martha Kawada, and graduation. Memories of planting a flower garden and helping haul water from the water works lead to gratitude for the family’s enduring support and resourcefulness.
- Floyd, Tootsie, and Seven ChildrenDelores remembers her handsome, sociable father and her parents’ dancing at the Coliseum. She recounts the birth order of their seven children, her father naming Iris, and her mother naming the rest. She thought the oldest and youngest were spoiled but secretly believed she was Daddy’s favorite girl.
- Flour-Dusted Hands, Pretty Nails, and a Day of CurlsThe narrator remembers Mom’s full-time work at home, her habit of dusting off her hands after tasks, and her lasting pride in her appearance. Susy recalled how Mom displayed polished nails but concealed damaged ones. Mom taught the girls beauty tricks, and she and Virginia spent a whole day giving five girls home perms. The narrator refused school the next day because her hair was too curly, though she later loved curls.
- Sunday Chicken and Cakes from ScratchThe narrator recalls Mom's weekly fried chicken dinners, believing the fresh chickens came from their own chicken house. Daddy dipped the slaughtered chickens in hot water to ease plucking. Ruth Reichenberg's pursuit of a headless chicken frightened the children and became a humorous memory. Mom browned flour-seasoned chicken in a cast-iron skillet before baking it in a blue roaster, serving it with potatoes, gravy, rolls, garden vegetables, and homemade dessert. Carol took charge of desserts when old enough. Everyone ate the same meal at assigned places and on time. Alice Atchison shared memories of coffee-cup measurements and testing oven heat with her hand; the narrator wonders whether Mom used such methods but remembers her insistence on exact measurements except for pie dough.
- Comedy Favorites and Daddy's LaughterCarol recalls comedy shows and personalities, including Your Show of Shows, The Honeymooners, The Texaco Star Theater, Burns and Allen, The Red Skelton Show, Jack Benny, and Bob Hope. She calls I Love Lucy her all-time favorite and remembers Daddy laughing and laughing at “Red Skeleton.”
- Christmas Cookies, Stocking Oranges, and a House Full of GiftsDee recalls a Christmas season filled with Mom's cookies, candies, fudge, and carefully chosen gifts. Dad bought the real tree at the last minute; Dee speculates that freshness and fire safety were his reasons. Bernie decorated outstanding cookies and called the children to the window to see Santa, who was always gone before they arrived. Daddy filled stockings with large oranges from Lagomarcino’s, especially treasured during wartime scarcity. Dee carried the fruit tradition forward with Susy and her grandchildren. Carol's Christmas Eve birthday brought a homemade angel food cake, with the leftover yolks used for noodles served with chicken over mashed potatoes. Christmas gifts included homemade clothing, dolls, sleds, BB guns, and school-made presents. Daddy continued Grampa's gift of twelve pairs of stockings to Mom after Grampa died. Dad's insistence on slowly fried mush and his breakfast invitations added to Mom's work while she also prepared turkey dinner. After Iris married, the growing family gathered at her larger house on Christmas Eve, where gifts piled toward the ceiling.
- Pine Cones and Christmas TreasuresAfter Dad's death, Mom developed her craftwork, turning the basement into a hobby shop for pinecone wreaths and Nature Trees. Carol and the narrator took their children along to gather natural materials with her. The narrator still collects pine cones for the memories, despite Susy's restraint. Mom later made Christmas ornaments for family and friends, carefully providing one for everyone to choose during holiday visits. A newspaper featured her crafts and tree. The ornaments remain precious reminders of her generosity and love of hard work.
- Tuesday and Saturday with MomThe narrator recalls Mom's busy senior years, her pride in getting seven children through school, and her family, friends, card parties, and crafts. Carol and the narrator stayed in Moline, married, had a child each, and worked at the Moline Dispatch and a beauty salon respectively. After Daddy died, the narrator cared for Mom on Tuesdays and Carol on Saturdays; both followed similar routines of errands and lunches paid for by Mom. The narrator humorously insists Mom's light auburn hair was natural. Mom traveled to visit children from California to Florida and to Germany after Charlie's transfer. Family contributions included clothes from Bob's boutique and goods from Iris and Bill's Ben Franklin store. The narrative closes with gratitude for Mom's care, strength, and devotion, including keeping ten people fed and dressed.
- Circle Skirts, School Dances, and Teenage ConfidenceDee recalls crafts in the Peppy Steppers 4-H club, teenage fashions, and her lack of interest in food preparation, contrasted with Carol’s prizewinning baking. Though shy and unsuccessful at sports even after getting glasses, she loved school dances and a satin polka-dot dress bought at Kay Bee. She remembers her first crush on Merle Ericson, spending her socially difficult senior year with Carol and her friends, trying pizza at Frank’s, and graduating in 1959 with straight A’s in art.
- First Earnings and a Room to Be Proud OfSelling flower seeds door to door earned Dee two bedroom lamps, and she also babysat for the Hancocks and Iris. She recalls Iris meeting Bill at Cozy Corners, Iris’s wedding and emerald ring, and a frightening night babysitting in Iris’s large house, when she hid a knife beneath a sofa cushion. Summer work at Tasty Treat brought unlimited root beer and paychecks that Dee and Carol pooled for twin beds, turquoise bedspreads, a lamp, and a rug; Mom made matching curtains. Dee also praises Bernie’s lasting plasterwork in his room.
- Childhood Warmth at the Old Brass RegisterCarol recalls the brass heat register near the kitchen door in her childhood home's living room, installed when her father added a basement and furnace around 1943. Children warmed themselves and dried boots and mittens there. Despite repeated remodeling, the register remained unchanged, and standing before it on return visits brings back childhood memories.
- A Christmas Eve Baby in a Wicker BasketAfter her mother began having contractions while trimming the Christmas tree, Carol was born on Christmas Eve 1938 in Moline. Her father named her Carol Mae for the season. She joined Iris, Bobby and Bernie at the family's apartment; the later births of Delores, Diana and Barbara made her the middle child. Remembered as a very small baby, she was carried on a pillow and kept in a wicker basket on a bedroom shelf beyond her brothers' reach.
- An Acre and Four Rooms to Call HomeCarol remembers moving to 3209 39th Street in 1942 at age four, running through empty rooms and jumping through windows. The $2,187 house stood on an acre in South Moline Township and initially had four rooms, an outhouse, and a well, but no bathroom, basement, or garage. Her father built a basement. A family of ten shared the small house, with the girls' living-room beds put away each morning and Grandpa Williams living there until his death in 1953.
- The Garden That Fed the FamilyThe orchard and garden supplied fruit, berries, and vegetables that Carol's mother preserved for winter, with help from Grandpa Williams and Iris. Carol recalls shelling peas, snapping beans, apple pies, and the sound of canning lids sealing. About 1950, she helped her father prepare tomatoes for sale to Sam Gnatovich at three dollars a bushel and kept the proceeds. Her father later sold the garden land to George and Evelyn Sajben. In later years, family members could not reproduce their mother's dill pickles and suspected her well water made the difference.
- Ice Deliveries, Party Lines, and Summer in the BasementCarol describes well water pumped beside the sink, water heated on the stove, an icebox supplied by an iceman, and glass-bottled milk delivered during the war years. She contrasts her family's circumstances with school friends Juanita and Lavelle Nelson, who lived in a boxcar and cooled food in a hillside hole. She recalls distinctive party-line rings and secretly listening to conversations. In summer the family lived and ate in the cooler basement; her father eventually cut up their oak dining table to make a punching bag ceiling-mount.
- Washday Work and the Wonder of the MangleCarol recalls the all-day weekly laundry routine, usually on Monday, for a household of ten. Mom used a wringer washing machine, reused the wash water, and rinsed clothes in two tubs with bluing and Borax among her laundry supplies. She carried wet laundry upstairs to hang outside, arranging sheets to hide underwear, or dried it in the basement during winter or rain. Clothes were folded away or dampened for later ironing, and clean sheets marked the end of a hard day's work. One year Grandpa Williams bought Mom a mangle, and the children were so impressed that they fought over turns helping iron.
- Sharing Water and Learning to Save Every DropCarol recalls a family well that repeatedly went dry. Their water tasted and smelled good, unlike some neighbors' sulfurous water. Mom hauled water from Reichenberg’s well for laundry. Ruth and John Reichenberg and their children, Kent and Carolyn, were close friends and neighbors. Daddy fitted a wagon with a five-hundred-gallon tank he had made and fetched water from town two or three times a week to replenish the family's and neighbors' wells. These shortages taught Carol lasting water-conservation habits.
- Coal Hills and the Work of Keeping WarmCarol recalls the family's coal-burning furnace. Daddy took Bob and Bernie to an industrial coal yard, where the car and trailer were weighed before and after loading to determine the coal's weight. While Daddy shoveled, Bob and Bernie climbed and slid down coal piles, blackening their clothes and angering Mom. At home, Daddy shoveled coal through a small basement window that he repeatedly broke. Tending the furnace required banking it every day and night and removing the cinders and ashes.
- Brilliant Colors from a CinderCarol recalls making cinder plants by finding a pointed cinder and putting iodine on it. She describes it growing brilliant, iridescent, multicolored stalagmites.
- Twice a Year, a Fresh and Clean HouseCarol recalls the thorough spring and fall housekeeping required by the dusty, sticky residue from the coal furnace. Wallpaper was rubbed clean with a pink, gummy material, lace curtains dried on a nailed wooden stretcher, rugs were beaten, and bedding and draperies aired on the clothesline. Her mother also painted and wallpapered, teaching Carol to paint. Seasonal window changes included washing every window inside and out. Limited storage, a damp basement, and an impractical attic made clearing out unwanted belongings and rotating seasonal clothing essential. Her mother ended each cleaning season proudly admiring the home's fresh appearance and smell.
- Open Doors and a Winter Skeleton-Key RescueCarol recalls leaving doors unlocked in the early years, opening the front door for summer breezes, and hanging flypaper to catch the flies that entered. Later, the family used a skeleton key. One snowy winter morning, while Mom was visiting Diana in Florida, Carol stepped outside barefoot in a thin housecoat to shake a rug. Chris, whom Carol estimates was about five, slammed the door and accidentally locked it. Unable to get back inside, Carol sought help at the Sajbens. Mr. Sajben opened her door with his own skeleton key and joked that it would probably open every door on the street.
- Saturday-Night Baths in the Warm KitchenCarol recalls lining up with her brothers and sisters for Saturday-night baths, oldest first and youngest last. They bathed in a round galvanized wash tub in the kitchen, warmed by an open oven. Their mother screened the girls with towels draped over four chairs, added hot water to the shared bathwater, scrubbed each child, and dried them with oven-warmed towels. She kept all seven children clean and groomed, with clipped nails and clean, starched, pressed clothes.
- Iris, a Big Sister and Second MomCarol remembers Iris, the oldest child and six years older than Bernie, as a second mother. Iris played with her siblings, bathed and dressed them, babysat, cooked, and cleaned while their mother experienced many pregnancies over fifteen years. Iris married when Carol was ten.
- Goodbye to the Outhouse on 39th StreetCarol recalls living in four rooms on 39th Street and the family's happiness when Daddy added an indoor bathroom and two bedrooms. Their gray-board outhouse had two holes, no heat, and sometimes Sears Roebuck Catalog pages instead of toilet paper. Nighttime trips were frightening, and Mom accompanied the children with a flashlight. Carol concealed the outhouse from school friends because she associated it with being poor. Daddy initially kept it as a backup after indoor plumbing arrived, but her brothers demolished it while he was at work and got into trouble. Carol ends by imagining a prettily decorated modern outhouse with decorating advice from Martha Stewart.
- Gramps’s Helping Hands and Generous HeartCarol recounts Edward Williams’s birth, marriage to Agnes Tomitum, and family losses. After Agnes died of tuberculosis, he raised Mom and Lloyd alone and moved with them to Moline in 1925. Despite arguments with Daddy over drinking, Gramps was a valued family helper. He contributed two thousand dollars for a house addition, worked in the garden, helped with canning and childcare, and paid for Mom’s false teeth and occasional dresses. Mom’s “good” dresses for 500 Club meetings were cotton housedresses costing two dollars and seventy-nine cents in J. C. Penney’s basement.
- Experimental Treatment for Grandpa’s Injured LegWhile working as a fireman at Herman Nelson in downtown Moline, Grandpa Williams accidentally stepped into a vat of lye, severely burning and eating away the skin and flesh of his leg. Doctors used ACTH and Cortisone, described as experimental drugs at the time, to heal it. The Dispatch published an article about the treatment; Carol thinks it is in the family scrapbook.
- Lloyd’s Wartime Letters and KeepsakesAlthough the family saw little of Lloyd, Carol remembers his return from World War II in uniform. He brought Mom two fringed rayon “sweetheart” pillowcases embroidered with colorful flowers, which she kept unused in her cedar chest. Photographs of naked natives from the Philippines, where he was stationed, remained in the strongbox. He also sent “Victory” letters on thin stationery that folded into its own envelope.
- Carefree Days and Dandelion CrownsCarol recalls happy childhood days spent outside between meals. At about four or five, she watched insects and searched for four-leaf clovers. She and Dee spent hours making dandelion jewelry and crowns, fashioning hollyhock dolls with toothpicks, and plucking daisy petals for an imagined boyfriend.
- Close to Dee Across the MilesCarol describes her lifelong connection to Dee, with whom she was inseparable as a child. Despite living half a country apart, they often independently buy the same clothing, purses, or craft items. Dee did Carol's hair perfectly for thirty-five years, and since moving to Florida Carol has not found a hairdresser who understands her preferences as well.
- Imaginations, Paper Dolls, and the Warmth of HomeCarol remembers childhood games with her sisters and neighborhood friends when store-bought toys were scarce. They played House on an army blanket, dressed in cast-off clothes, played in a canvas tent and a deserted trailer, and enjoyed paper dolls. Quiet play in the kitchen while Mom ironed and listened to the radio gave Carol a lasting sense of security. The children made newspaper kites, Kleenex flowers, and Kool-Aid stands, played street games, and sledded through steep wooded hills before warming themselves at the brass heat register.
- A New Red Bicycle to CherishThe children usually rode old bikes, mostly boys’ bikes, mounting them from a cement block wall by the chimney. One year Daddy called Carol into the front yard, where he stood beside a new red bicycle. She nearly reached it before noticing it. She remembers her pride and how precious something brand new was in their household, though she cannot remember her age.
- Jump-Rope Rhymes and Fun Without BatteriesCarol recalls chants used while jumping rope, including counting kisses, a broken milk bottle, and teddy-bear actions. She remembers playing many different games and entertaining themselves for hours with simple things, without batteries.
- A Scooter Scar and a Strawberry LaughCarol fell from her scooter near the strawberry patch and badly cut her right knee. With Mom unable to leave Barbara, who had double pneumonia, Virginia arranged for Mrs. Hannah to drive them to the doctor. Carol received four clamps and retained a visible scar. Back home, her sisters, Marilyn, and Patty claimed to have found flesh from her leg, but Virginia identified it as strawberry—a mistake they still laughed about.
- Clean Sheets, Warm Flannel, and a Family DoctorCarol recalls doctors making house calls in the Forties. However sick the children were, Mom had them leave their beds so she could put on clean sheets before the doctor arrived. Mom also treated colds with Vicks and warm flannel cloths. Carol remembers Dr. Menton as their first doctor; he went to jail after being caught supplying illegal drugs to his wife. His successor, George Cook, provided medicine expecting more children to fall ill, visited frequently, and became a lasting family friend.
- Green Stamps and Two Brand-New PurchasesCarol recalls that the family never had new furniture, appliances, or cars, and that she was ashamed of their old cars. Daddy selected second-hand household items without criticism from Mom. Mom obtained new presents, small appliances, and accessories by saving S&H Green Stamps, and accumulated silver-plated dinnerware for eight using box tops redeemed for catalog points. Carol then remembers two things Daddy bought new: a turquoise Comet, financed with his first-ever loan through the John Deere Credit Union, and a kitchen table with three leaves and ten chairs from Phil Vinar’s Furniture Store. Her parents did not have a checking account until all the children had left home.
- Family Visits and Long Sunday-Style DrivesCarol recalls that the family never took what she considered a real vacation. Daddy visited his relatives in Brainerd, sometimes taking Iris or the boys, but Carol never went or met her paternal grandparents. He also took the family on long drives toward the Wisconsin border. They visited Bessie and Harry Means and their children in Cordova, and a family named Rogers nearby. Bessie worked at the East Moline State Hospital.
- Elmhurst Visits and a Zoo-Day TreatThe family made short trips to visit Ray and Arjean Moos and their four boys in Elmhurst near Chicago. Mom held a book in front of her eyes to avoid watching Daddy's fast driving and weaving on two-lane roads. The trips were special treats, often including a day at Lincoln Park Zoo.
- Watching for Burma Shave RhymesCarol remembers enjoying the Burma Shave signs along the roads. She describes sets of five signs, with four forming a catchy verse and the last reading “Burma Shave,” and says she still remembers a few.
- Free Air Shows and Sand-Burr BlanketsCarol recalls Daddy taking the children to watch airplanes at the airport and attend air shows. They sat on blankets in surrounding fields, where thorny, sticky sand-burrs clung to their clothing, but the outings were fun and free.
- An Ice Cream Stop at RosellesOn trips with Daddy, the children begged for cones whenever they passed Roselles on 23rd Avenue. Although Daddy often refused, occasional stops brought great happiness. The store sold Sealtest Ice Cream, and some cones contained a “Free Cone” note in the tip.
- Remembering Fluffy, the Family's White CatCarol remembers Fluffy as a big, fluffy white cat and the only family pet she recalled apart from Daddy's later canaries. Mom said the old, sick cat went into the woods to die. Years later Virginia McFarland told Carol that Fluffy had distemper: Daddy could not bring himself to shoot him, so Dale did. Virginia also recalled sharing coffee with Mom and hearing Fluffy using the children's potty-chair.
- A Place on the Bench and Cake for SupperThe family gathered around a rectangular table with three leaves and a wooden bench Daddy made. Carol remembers sharing the bench with Dee and Diana, while Mom sat beside the youngest child to help. Large homemade meals included bread at both ends of the table and dessert after every supper. Carol later thought the bread compensated for limited seconds. In junior high she made a two-egg cake almost every day, with leftovers packed into school lunches.
- Carol, a Sister Always NearDee's affectionate poem celebrates Carol as her childhood playmate and a sister who shares her appearance, mannerisms, and unspoken understanding. She recalls Carol's scooter injury, her skill in cooking, and her marriage and years in Germany with Charlie. The sisters cared together for their mother in her later years, and Dee affirms their enduring closeness despite living miles apart.
- Iris, Our Gentle Second MotherIn a loving poem signed Dee, Delores thanks her sister Iris for the care she gave her six younger siblings. An only child for over five years, Iris became like a second mother, feeding, bathing, hugging and comforting the children while helping their busy mother. Dee remembers Iris’s gentle ways and expresses lasting gratitude and unconditional love.
- Mom's Kitchen, Backyard Roasts, and a Special Sunday DinnerCarol recalls homemade meals, sweets, Friday-night treats, and bedtime snacks, including Lloyd teaching the children to dunk peanut butter sandwiches into cocoa. She remembers coloring margarine and refusing ten cents to eat liver. After the move to 39th Street, Mom raised chickens, Bob had a pig, and Grandpa Williams raised rabbits. Watching a chicken being killed terrified Carol, though chicken dinners and competing for the wishbone were memorable. Daddy prepared backyard wiener roasts. Restaurant meals never occurred and dinner invitations were rare, making a Sunday ham dinner with Ruth and Tom Johnson especially memorable.
- Sunday Pies, Shared Chicken, and the FunniesSundays were reserved for family, with Mom rising at dawn to bake pies with lard crusts, crescent rolls, and cinnamon rolls. Favorite noon dinners included Swiss steak or fried chicken with mashed potatoes. Carol jokes that ten people shared one chicken, then adds that surely there were at least two. Mom ate the wings and Dad the back, liver, and gizzards, saving the meatiest pieces for the children; Carol now enjoys wings herself. After dinner, Barb usually escaped to Margie’s house and Diana read behind a locked bathroom door, leaving Carol and Dee to do dishes while Bob snapped towels at them. Afterward, they read the Sunday paper Dad brought from town, especially Carol’s beloved funnies.
- Small Birthdays with Cake, Ice Cream, and StoriesCarol recalls small family birthday celebrations with a favorite cake, usually angel food, and ice cream. Her mother bought one pint each of vanilla, chocolate, and strawberry, cutting each into four slices. Ice cream was otherwise rare. Few early photographs survived to help recall gifts, but Carol remembers 365 Bedtime Stories, which her mother read repeatedly, and a View Master with fairy-tale and children's-story reels.
- A Treasured Doll Comes Home AgainCarol received her last childhood doll at about eight or nine years old. The bisque doll had yellow braids, opening and closing eyes, and a pouty mouth; Carol dressed it in outfits her mother made. After years in storage, she rediscovered it while unpacking after moving to 11th Street in Moline and told Dee how remarkable its survival was. A few years later, about 1986, Dee secretly had a friend mend its body and provide a new dress, wig, shoes, and socks. Dee presented the restored doll on a stand for Carol's birthday, making it one of her best birthday gifts. At the time of writing, the doll was over fifty years old and proudly displayed on Carol's dresser.
- Saturday Chores and a Sack of CandyCarol recalls the girls helping Mom clean every Saturday morning, including changing sheets, cleaning rooms, and washing the insides of windows. Carol disliked dusting Mom’s foot-treadle sewing machine but did it anyway. After sponge baths and dressing up, they shopped downtown, enjoying the New York Store elevator and visiting Penney’s and Block and Kuhls. At Kresge’s dime store they received a small toy and candy to share and savor. Grocery shopping at the A&P or Shinner’s Meat Market finished the day. Carol also recalls a scandal over Shinner’s selling horse-meat just after the war, when good meat was scarce.
- An Easter Coat and Mom’s Quiet GenerosityCarol saved her baby-sitting money to buy a pink, short, lamb’s wool coat for Easter Sunday at Penney’s. While she tried it on, a woman stole the wallet she had set on a chair. The clerks could not catch the thief, and Carol went home crying without the coat. Her mother comforted her and gave her the twenty-five dollars she needed. Carol believed her mother must have gone without something that week, though her mother never mentioned any sacrifice.
- Clothes Made with Care on Mom's Treadle MachineCarol remembers her mother's skill and industry in sewing childhood clothes on a White treadle sewing machine, including dresses, slips, pajamas, and coats. She especially loved an orange-and-white three-piece outfit made when she was in first or second grade. Her mother also sewed for Marilyn, Patty, and Iris' daughters and crocheted a baby dress for Linda. Virginia exchanged ironing for sewing for her girls. Mrs. Vandergeist sometimes helped with machine-made buttonholes, inspiring Carol's father to buy a button hole attachment. Carol does not remember her mother using flour sacks for clothing, although she notes that this was common in the Thirties and Forties. The family also wore hand-me-downs and used clothes from friends, with her mother reassuring her that they were fine to wear.
- Saturday Matinees and Cowboy HeroesCarol remembers almost weekly Saturday matinees at the Highland Theater, with twenty-five-cent admission and nickel popcorn. Roy Rogers was her favorite cowboy, though she also liked The Lone Ranger, Hopalong Cassidy and Gene Autry. She was fascinated by cowboy movies featuring Indians and recalls their clear division between good and evil. Double features included cartoons and news reels with World War II clips.
- The Witches That Sent the Girls HomeVirginia McFarland once took Carol and other girls to see the Wizard of Oz. Frightened by the witches, the girls ran to the concession area, and Virginia had to take them home.
- Popcorn Profits and Fifty-Cent DiscoveriesBernie and Bob grew popcorn one year in McFarland’s vacant lot. Daddy promised they could keep the sales money and encouraged harvest help by offering fifty cents for each ear of Indian corn found among the popcorn. The boys dried the ears on the garage roof, used a popcorn sheller Daddy bought, and bagged the kernels in the basement. Daddy then drove them to movie theaters to sell their popcorn.
- Riverside Picnics, Warm Rolls, and WatermelonCarol recalls favorite family picnics at Riverside Park, followed by swimming at the Moline Swimming Pool and playground play while the grown-ups played cards. Picnics with families from Mom's 500 Club featured each family's specialty foods. Mom rose at 5:00 a.m. to prepare cinnamon rolls and credited careful kneading for their texture. Bernie and Bob arrived early to save tables. Watermelon finished the outings; Carol accompanied Daddy to choose melons, which he tested for ripeness by cutting and tasting a wedge with his pocketknife.
- Woodland Nuts and a Buttery TreatThe family regularly went into the woods to gather black walnuts and hickory nuts, then dried them on the garage roof. Grandpa Williams spent evenings removing the nuts from their shells, and Mom baked them with butter and salt.
- Friday Nights, Fudge, and Family GamesCarol recalls Mom making a big batch of cocoa fudge after supper on Friday nights and pouring it onto her mother's hand-painted platter to cool. The family gathered around the kitchen table to play Tiddlywinks, Chinese Checkers, Parcheesi, or Monopoly, then finished the evening eating what Carol remembered as the best tasting fudge in the world.
- Christmas Records, Boxes of Goodies, and Mom's FruitcakeCarol recalls her mother playing favorite Christmas records and baking from just after Thanksgiving until Christmas. The cold back porch served as a freezer for the treats. After the children left home, their mother mailed them large boxes of cookies, candy, and breads. Her annual Depression Fruitcake was made early, repeatedly soaked in brandy, baked in assorted containers, and finished with glaze and candied fruit. Carol and her father dearly loved it.
- Christmas Trees, Stocking Treats, and Family TogethernessCarol recalls Daddy waiting until close to Christmas to buy inexpensive trees, once paying fifty cents, and drilling holes to rearrange branches. The family decorated with paper chains, popcorn, ornaments, saved tinsel, and fiberglass angel hair that made their skin itch. Their everyday socks held fruit, walnuts, and candy; they later learned Daddy bought the biggest apples and oranges at Lagomarcino’s. He traditionally gave Mom two pairs of nylon stockings. Larger family gatherings moved to Iris and Bill’s for Christmas Eve. Christmas was Mom’s favorite holiday: after the children left home, she usually put up her tree by early December, shopped with Barb in Normal, and enjoyed specialty shops and tearoom lunches. Norm took the group to the Apple Barn for apples and cider. Mom also finished ornament balls at Barb’s and taught Amy and Jenny to make them. Carol believed Mom especially loved the holiday because it brought the whole family together.
- Remembering the Philco RadioCarol recalls one of the first radios they had: a large, old-fashioned-looking Philco table radio with a dome on top and an illuminated dial for locating stations.
- Howdy Doody and the Neighborhood's First TelevisionCarol recalls movies in the Forties giving way to television in the Fifties. Around 1950, when she would have been about twelve, the McFarlands had the neighborhood's first TV, a large black-and-white console with a small screen. She visited daily to watch Howdy Doody and remembers its opening song and characters. Her family soon acquired a TV. Her father watched endlessly from his reserved favorite chair, while her mother seldom watched but liked game shows and possibly Arthur Godfrey.
- Wrestling Heroes and Barbara's TeasingCarol and her father loved Wrestling From Hollywood. She remembers Gorgeous George and Verne Gagne as heroes and Mad Dog Vershon as a villain, describing their appearance and behavior. Carol considers this wrestling more entertainment than sports, but Barbara insists that Carol still believes it is real.
- Summer Visitors and Backyard MemoriesCarol remembers meeting Floyd's three sisters from Brainerd and his warning that they might think the family rich and stay forever. Uncle Clarence, Francis, and their five children visited before Floyd's illness and death. Other memories include wartime hand-rolled cigarettes and smoke rings, later chewing tobacco, hunting trips with Bernie and Bobby, and playing house in Floyd's former backyard workshop after he moved into the new garage.
- Daddy's Favorite Foods and Familiar WaysCarol recalls Daddy's food preferences, dislike of milk, insistence on Sayman Salve, warnings about sun exposure and swallowed bubble gum, control of money decisions, and objection to Mom wearing shorts or slacks. He kept canaries, bought a motor scooter, slept in a characteristic pose while watching television, and enjoyed neighborhood conversations so much that Mom sent the children to find him at dinnertime.
- Caring for Daddy Through His Last MonthsDaddy suffered a stroke on Christmas Eve, 1967. Not realizing its seriousness, the family went to Iris and Bill's while Mom stayed with him. After Mom called Iris to report that he was worse, Lee and Bob took him to the hospital. Following two weeks there, his agitation prompted a search for other care. The family rejected St. Anthony's Hospital in Rock Island because patients were smoking while Daddy struggled to breathe. Mom tried caring for him at home with help from the girls and daily visits from Virginia, but the burden became exhausting. He was eventually taken to East Moline State Hospital. He died at sixty-three on May 23, 1968, surrounded by Mom and all the children, and is buried next to Mom at Riverside Cemetery in Moline, Illinois.
- A First Job and a Friendship That LastedAfter graduating from Moline High, Carol obtained her first full-time job through church friend Vendla Solmonson at Augustana Book Concern. She handled Sunday School material subscriptions for Lutheran churches throughout the United States, starting at a dollar an hour. She commuted with lifelong friend Eilene Peterson, whose family had been close neighbors, and stayed until December 1966.
- Chris, the Sunshine of Carol's LifeCarol recalls her 1965 marriage to Donald M. Boney, Chris's birth in 1967, and the joy her son brought her. After the 1972 divorce, she and Chris moved in with her Mom. She remembers Don as a supportive father, recounts his Navy Corpsman service and decorations, and records his death after years of cancer.
- A Dance with Charlie and a Wedding AbroadAfter jobs at Moline Daily Dispatch and Franciscan Hospital, Carol began working at Rock Island Arsenal in 1973, first as a secretary and later as a budget analyst. She met Charlie there, but their romance began at a January 1975 dinner-dance. They married in Berne, Switzerland, on April 30, 1976, and spent two years overseas.
- Happy Years in the Rhine River ValleyCarol remembers life in Ingelheim as the happiest time of her life. She and Charlie worked at neighboring military units, while Chris attended school, learned German, and enjoyed sports. Her memories include skiing, castles, the Fasching Parade, wine festivals, weekend markets, European vacations, and visits and touring with Mom and Bernie.
- A Short Florida Stay and a Return to MolineAfter leaving Germany in July 1978, Carol and Charlie worked at the 31st ADA Brigade at Homestead Air Force Base in Florida. They returned to Moline in September 1979 and resumed their careers at the Rock Island Arsenal.
- Chris: Backyard Friendships, Soccer, and a Life in MusicCarol's determination to live in the Coolidge school district placed Chris near three boys who became lifelong friends. His enthusiasm for soccer led to memorable football kicks and the captaincy of Moline Senior High School's first soccer team. At Northern Illinois University, he turned toward guitar and a college band while earning his degree. He later released a CD, founded a record company, supported local musicians, wrote music journalism, and compiled a family recipe book presented at the 1999 reunion.
- Phase Two: Sunshine, Church Friends, and SwansAfter retiring from the Rock Island Arsenal in October 1993, Carol describes moving to Florida in July 1995 and enjoying a slower life in North Port. Church friendships, reading, keyboard playing, and Christmas ornament making fill her retirement. A swan collection begun with Charlie's anniversary gifts has grown to more than one hundred through gifts from family and friends.
- Grandchildren, Joy, and the Gift of EncouragementCarol identifies Charlie's daughters Megan and Paige and their children. She reflects on the joy her grandchildren bring and the laughter, curiosity, wonder, and patience they have taught her. She hopes to make them feel loved and a little spoiled while encouraging them to try new things, take risks, and explore life.
- A Christmas Visit Captured in Family PortraitsBernie borrowed a Leica camera to photograph a new place in San Francisco, then brought it home to Moline at Christmas. Using orange and green fabric tacked up in the girls’ bedroom as a backdrop, Bernie photographed the family. A portrait of Bernie taken by high school chum Jerry Edlund during the same trip completed the folio. Later on the family portrait day, the family celebrated Carol’s 23rd birthday. Bernie treasured how clearly the portraits revealed everyone’s personality.
- Growing Up with the Peppy SteppersCarol recalls being very active in the Peppy Steppers 4-H Club for many years, starting at age nine, despite not living on a farm. The club leaders were Mrs. Earl Holder and Mrs. Earl Bustard.
- Making the Best Better with Biscuits and SewingCarol began cooking and sewing when she joined 4-H, supported by her mother's guidance. She frequently appeared in newspaper photographs and entered food and clothing projects at the Rock Island County Fair. Carol and Diana won trips to the Illinois State Fair for demonstrations on baking powder biscuits and coffee-cake, respectively. Carol practiced until her family was tired of biscuits and presented her demonstration on WOC-TV, ending with a joke about a bride's biscuits being as hard as stepping stones.
- A Scary Ferris Wheel and an Unexpected Teddy BearAt the Illinois State Fair, Carol and Diana especially enjoyed the midway. They rode the double Ferris wheel despite being frightened. When Diana wanted to play midway games, Carol refused because she believed the games were rigged. A barker overheard Carol, called the sisters over, and gave Diana his biggest teddy bear.
- Rainy Days and Sunset Campfires at White EagleCarol attended White Eagle 4-H Camp with Dee and Eilene Peterson, wearing halter tops her mother made for the three of them. They slept in tents, ate in a communal dining room, and used latrines down a long wooded path. Swimming in the river, making crafts, singing around sunset campfires, and making S’mores kept the week enjoyable despite constant rain.
- The Family Camper and Her Summer SongsCarol was a Brownie and then a Girl Scout. Her father drove her to Camp Shabone in Port Byron many summers, and she remembered herself as the family’s “camper.” She recalled songs about making new friends and the upward trail, as well as Tell Me Why and Down in the Valley.
- A Lifetime of Faith at CalvaryCarol recalls riding the Sunday school bus to Calvary Lutheran Church as a young child. Her father never attended church, but her mother joined after his death and worshipped with Carol every Sunday until she died. Carol participated extensively in church life through teaching, singing, office work, groups, and council service. She was baptized and confirmed there at fifteen on May 16, 1954, married her first husband Don Boney there, and recalls Chris's baptism and confirmation there. She describes over fifty years of membership before transferring to a church in North Port, Florida, in 1995.
- Next-Door Friends and a Lifetime of KindnessCarol remembers the McFarlands as next-door neighbors and closest friends. She played daily with Marilyn and Patty and attended school with them through high school. Virginia and Carol's mother supported each other through hard times over coffee and cigarettes. Despite working outside the home, Virginia helped with housework, ironing, babysitting, and overnight stays, once washing the girls' hair outdoors with collected rainwater. The two women were charter members of a 500 Card Club founded in 1948 and belonged for over forty years. The McFarlands moved into town in 1952, and Pat later moved away when she married. Carol and Marilyn remained close. Carol recalls the losses of Dale in 1994, Virginia in 1996, and Marilyn's husband Bill in March 1998.
- Banana Curls, School Games, and a Love of ReadingCarol remembers starting kindergarten at Roosevelt Grade School in Moline in 1944, riding in Mrs. Hogland’s improvised station-wagon seating, and wearing clothes her mother made and carefully arranged banana curls. Kindergarten included naps, a plaster handprint she still kept, and Drop the Handkerchief. Later memories include learning to read with Dick, Jane, and Baby Sally, riding the school bus, having tonsils removed with Marilyn and Bob, and loving fourth-grade teacher Mrs. Grafton. In fourth grade she learned time and multiplication, discovered boys, and began wearing glasses. In fifth grade she won a reading contest with over sixty books and became an enthusiastic comic-book reader. The section heading says First to Sixth Grade, although the account begins with kindergarten.
- War Stamps and Joyful News in Carolyn’s YardCarol recalls buying ten-cent Savings Bonds stamps at school as family finances allowed. A book holding $18.50 in stamps could be exchanged for a $25 War Bond redeemable in ten years. Her parents used ration stamps for food and gas, including rationed meat, coffee, sugar, and butter. While Carol and Carolyn Reichenberg played in Carolyn’s yard, a radio announced the war was over. Ruth and John tried to explain, and the children jumped, clapped, and shouted. Carol dates the memory to August 15, 1945, says she was about six, and states that the war was officially over that day.
- Carol's Favorite Comics and BooksCarol lists the comics she read: Donald Duck, Wonder Woman, Mickey Mouse, Archie and Jughead, Little Lulu, Felix The Cat, Popeye, Spooky, The Ghost, Batman, and Superman. She recalls enjoying Little Women, The Five Little Peppers and How They Grew, Nancy Drew mysteries, and Bernie and Bob's Hardy Boys books. Reading a good novel remains her favorite thing to do.
- A Blue Ribbon for JacksCarol remembers playing Jacks endlessly in fifth grade and winning a blue ribbon at school, which she kept in the family scrapbook. She describes scattering ten jacks and collecting them in increasing groups, from onesies through tensies, while tossing, bouncing, and catching a ball. A missed jack or ball ended a turn. After completing the basic game, players attempted harder variations, also progressing from onesies through tensies. She directs readers to the Our Childhood Games section on page 427 for those variations.
- Names and Verses Tucked AwayCarol invites comparison of family signatures and recalls Bernie's report that Dad's birth certificate spelled his name Floyde, leaving the reason uncertain. She still keeps her grade-school autograph book and shares playful verses and coded messages written by family and friends.
- Blue and Gold and BelongingCarol remembers feeling part of the 'in' crowd as a sixth-grade cheerleader. Her mother made her short blue satin circular skirt and long-sleeved gold satin blouse. Carol wishes she had a photograph of the outfit and reproduces two remembered school cheers under 'Coolidge Cheer.'
- Scrubbed, Starched, and Sent Off with LunchCarol recalls Mrs. Shadle's periodic ringworm inspections, teachers recognizing the immaculately groomed Guild children, and strict expectations of behavior. With no school cafeteria, her mother prepared six labeled lunch sacks each morning, carefully matching individual tastes. Room mothers occasionally provided hot spaghetti served from a large electric roaster.
- Woodland Walks, Taffy Apples, and Junior High DaysCarol recalled seventh through ninth grade at Coolidge Junior High School. She often walked through a slightly frightening wooded shortcut and stopped at King’s Apple Orchard for a taffy apple on her way home. She earned good grades without much studying and was a favorite of her Home Economics teacher, Mrs. McManus. Her social life included slumber parties, pin curls, record shopping in soundproof listening booths, and jukebox sock hops. She bought her first seamed nylons for her first dance, attended football and basketball games, and played intramural sports.
- High School Rides, Beautiful Papers and a Beloved Sister-in-LawCarol recalls Bob driving the girls to high school and picking up Sue Warner, who later became his wife and Carol's beloved sister-in-law. Sue died on Carol's birthday in 1996. After school, the girls met their father at the A&P Store for the ride home. Carol describes her courses, clubs, satisfactory A’s and B’s, enjoyment of research and Bernie's elaborate term-paper covers. Nursing was financially out of reach, but she later felt glad she had not pursued it. She also remembers relatively minor classroom discipline problems.
- Full-Circle Skirts and the Clothes SnatchersWanting to fit in as a teenager, Carol followed fashions including rolled jeans, stiff crinolines, full-circle skirts she made herself, cinch belts, bobby socks and saddle shoes. Barb and Diana secretly wore her clothes to school until wrinkles from rolled waistbands gave them away. Carol also describes boys' duck tails, crew cuts, sweaters and shoes.
- Nickels for Favorite RecordsCarol remembers loving records, repeatedly spending nickels on jukebox favorites and faithfully listening to the Top 40 on the radio.
- Carol’s Favorite Songs and the Record She KeptCarol recalls Elvis Presley as The King and a teenage idol whose hip movements upset parents. She lists favorite songs by Elvis Presley, Tab Hunter, Everly Brothers, Paul Anka, Debbie Reynolds, Pat Boone, Bobby Darin, and Neil Sedaka. Oh! Carol became a hit after she graduated from high school and remained a favorite because it included her name; it was the only 45 rpm record she still owned.
- Carol's Favorite Stars and Beautiful Swimming MoviesCarol recalls that she did not go to the movies very often in high school, but names many favorite stars. She also liked Dean Martin and Jerry Lewis, Abbott and Costello, and Johnny Weismuller as Tarzan. She especially loved Esther Williams's movies, remembering flowers woven into her wrapped hair and the beautiful synchronized swimming and underwater extravaganzas.
- A Green Chevy and a Ticket to FreedomCarol recalls intimidating tenth-grade driving instructors who also taught Industrial Arts. Only four of about fifteen students finished and received permits, and her leg shook during parallel parking. Her father opposed the children getting licenses because he needed his car for work and could not afford another car or repairs after a wreck. After graduating and getting a job, Carol lived with Iris and Bill and saved all her earnings for three months. Her father then helped her find a green 1948 Chevy for three hundred dollars, which she used to obtain her license. She and her sisters drove it for years, cruising with friends even after it lost one of its gears. Carol remembers gasoline costing about twenty-five cents a gallon and the car representing freedom.
- Friday-Night Games with a Dear FriendCarol recalls doing almost everything with Lila Lambert (now Becker) from grade school through high school, including attending the same church and its Luther League youth program. Their friendship continued into the time of writing. They attended Friday-night football and basketball games to support the Moline Maroons, whose rivals included East Moline and Rock Island. Home games took place at Browning Field and Wharton Field House. Carol humorously describes basketball's popularity by saying someone had to die before a reserved seat became available.
- Moline Cheers and Chocolate Marshmallow MaltsCarol shares the school song cheering for Moline and recalls using Lila’s dad’s pick-up truck to attend pep rallies and football games. Afterward, they loaded friends into the back of the truck and went to Iowanna Dairy in Davenport for chocolate marshmallow malts.
- Buck Night and a Car Full of FriendsCarol recalled popular drive-in movies, where staff initially washed the front window before the show. On Buck Night, a dollar admitted as many people as could fit in a car. Once, her group put a couple of friends in the trunk because the front was full.
- A First Puff at the Drive-InAt a drive-in, lifetime friend Sharon Carlson brought cigarettes, and Carol and the others each tried a puff. Carol described the experience as awful and said none of them liked it and none ever smoked.
- Popcorn and Pajamas at the MoviesCarol's family loved drive-in movies. They made buttered popcorn at home and carried it in Mom's blue enamel roasting pan. Sometimes they wore pajamas to the movies.
- A First Boyfriend and a First Taste of PizzaCarol recalls her first boyfriend at seventeen, John Clyde, a neighbor and fellow church member she had known her entire life. He was the first boy she kissed, and she wore his class ring around her neck. On a date with him at Mama Bosso’s in downtown Moline in 1956, she tasted pizza for the first time.
- Summer Helping and Cottage AdventuresCarol earned spending money baby-sitting, mostly for Iris and Bill. During summers she moved into their house as a mother’s helper and joined their Wisconsin cottage vacations, fondly remembering boating, swimming, fishing, and their enduring kindness.
- Jeff’s Bear Hugs and Loving HumorCarol remembers Iris and Bill’s son Jeffrey, who died July 7, 1987. She loved his sense of humor and the bear hugs he gave while teasingly calling her “Auntie Carol Mae.”
- Carhop Trays and Late-Night ReassurancesCarol’s first part-time job was serving root beer, hamburgers, and malts as a Tasty Treat carhop. Owner and neighbor Mrs. Mary Poston hired Carol, Dee, and Marilyn McFarland; Carol recalls that they made about seventy dollars plus tips that summer. Mrs. Poston also owned Hasty Tasty Restaurant, where Barb washed dishes on second shift. Despite being frightened when returning home around 1:30 a.m., Barb joked that she was protecting Carol from Peeping Toms.
- A Gold Tassel and a School That Still Feels Like HomeCarol recalls entering high school timidly in fall 1954 and graduating boldly in 1957 in the top fourth of her class. She still treasures her gold graduation tassel and drives past the former school when returning to Moline, mourning its conversion into an architectural firm while retaining a sense of belonging. Ironically, the new Moline High School was completed in 1958 within walking distance of her childhood home.
- Carol’s Extra Basket of Back-Then MemoriesAfter the book was finished, Carol collected memories Bernie said there was not enough room to include. Her nostalgic list moves from Mom reading the funnies, homemade treats, and Dad's comparison of a Studebaker to a two-row corn picker to Bob's Davy Crockett hat, Bernie's stilts, school dances, fashions, childhood games, illnesses, street names, music, and remembered entertainment quotations.
- A Roller-Skating Beginning and a Legacy of CareMary Hill arranged Ethel and Floyd's blind date, and they went roller-skating. They married in Moline on November 6, 1928, with Elva and Frank Melton standing up with them, then celebrated with dinner and a movie rather than a honeymoon. Carol remembers their independent household responsibilities, relentless work in the Forties, kindness to neighbors, and family values demonstrated through everyday actions.
- Remembering Roosevelt and Getting Out the VoteEthel and Floyd were lifelong strong Democrats who admired Franklin D. Roosevelt and Harry S. Truman. They listened to Roosevelt's Fireside Chats and trusted that the war would be won. Ethel mourned Roosevelt's death in April 1945, and the family kept his picture in the living room for years. She worked with Virginia McFarland and Mrs. Welander to arrange rides and remind people to vote, stayed informed about candidates and issues, and never missed voting.
- Dancing Together at the Turner’s ClubCarol recalls her parents' love of dancing early in their marriage. When her father first came to Moline as a single man, he joined the Turner’s Club to exercise and attend dances, which offered opportunities to meet girls. He became a tumbler, appeared in a Minstrel show there, and took Ethel to many dances over the years.
- Mom’s Records and a Lifetime of DevotionCarol recounts Ethel's birth in Newburg and her search for baptismal records when she needed a passport to visit Carol in Germany. The record supplied the spelling Kathrine, listed her father's first name as Edwin rather than the family's remembered Edward, and revealed a birth year of 1911 rather than 1909. Her already-engraved grave marker would remain incorrect, but she enjoyed learning she was two years younger. Carol also honors her mother's tireless work caring for the family, her support and guidance, and her life without an outside job after her first baby or learning to drive.
- Mom, the Quiet Heart of the FamilyCarol remembers Mom as the glue holding the family together: patient, calm, private, warm, kind, and uncomplaining. Mom had no vacations or days off during the children's upbringing and was seldom ill. She enjoyed novels, especially The Thorn Birds, loved Pepsi, and dressed impeccably. Every Tuesday, Dee devoted her day off to making Mom “Queen for a Day,” doing her hair, taking her to lunch, shopping, and running errands.
- Three Wonderful Months Together in EuropeMom spent three months visiting Carol, Charlie, and Chris in Germany, a highlight of her life. Bernie also visited, and the group traveled throughout Germany, Denmark, and Holland. Favorite stops included Anne Frank's house and hideaway in Amsterdam, the Rijksmuseum with Rembrandt's Night Watch, Tivoli Gardens where ten-year-old Chris got lost, The Little Mermaid statue in Copenhagen, and Hans Christian Andersen's home and the Museum in Odense, Denmark.
- Holiday Card Games and Mom’s Perfect HandCarol recalls lively games of 500 whenever the family gathered at home for holidays, with improvised prizes and laughter that prompted Mom to tell the girls to settle down. Once, Carol and her sisters stacked the cards to give Mom a perfect hand. They intended to reveal the trick, but Mom was so excited that they could not bring themselves to tell her.
- Morning Crochet and Keepsakes of LoveCarol remembers watching Mom crochet at the kitchen table between Daddy's departure for work and the children's rising for school. Mom made hundreds of household pieces, individually designed Christmas ornaments, wall hangings, wreaths, and painted bread dough figures with Diana. Carol sees these crafts as expressions of creativity and treasures even the ornaments that have faded or fallen apart.
- A Florida Visit and a Last Tender TouchAfter a couple of years of severe abdominal pain and inconclusive tests, Mom visited Diana and Lee in Florida in April 1988. They helped her relax and took her on a cruise, but the pain continued. Diana persisted in seeking medical help until an x-ray revealed a large ovarian cyst wrapped around blood vessels. A complete hysterectomy found no cancer, but Mom could not recover and died of heart failure at seventy-seven on April 22, 1988, in Coral Springs, Florida. Carol cherishes the hand caresses they exchanged while Mom was on a respirator. Mom is buried beside Daddy at Riverside Cemetery in Moline, Illinois.
- Remembering Lee's Sparkling EyesCarol recalls the family's sadness when Lee died on January 28, 1996, Mom's birthday. She remembers his soft-spoken Southern manner, sparkling eyes, and big smile, and expresses her love for him.
- Casey's Lunch Bucket and a Life of ProvidingCarol recounts Floyd's birth, conflicting family accounts of his birthplace, and his thirty-nine years at John Deere Plow Works. Known at work as Casey, he arrived early for his preferred parking space and carried six sandwiches in a black lunch bucket. Writing about his demanding life helped Carol appreciate his devotion to providing for the family.
- Daddy Could Make or Mend AnythingFloyd traded with Hugh Chase and proudly repaired and resold a broken chain saw at a profit after using it. Herb Spahn remembered his riding-sprayer, motorized plow, help to neighbors, and protective rule against swearing around his girls. Carol recalls his metalwork, woodworking, car repairs, plumbing, electrical work, and walnut carving, skills that kept the household from needing hired help.
- Bob's Bright Fragments of ChildhoodBob lists vivid childhood memories: neighbors, a gasoline burn while playing with a toy steamshovel, Barbara refusing medicine, Bernie's skating injury, and Tom Johnson knocking out power lines with a falling tree. He recalls visiting the Rodgers in Cordova, swimming at Campbell’s Island, annual Riverside Park picnics, Iris’s wedding, and poker games with Art and Eileen Cordingly. Other memories include orchard camping and spraying, gathering walnuts, toys and homemade kites, fireworks, homemade foods, hauling water when the well dried up, building a house addition, basement heat relief and flooding, coal heating, backyard tomatoes, and the surviving mailbox millstone.
- From Dad's Rebuilt Chevy to Beloved Station WagonsRobert recalls starting to drive at thirteen around the 39th Street neighborhood and earning his license in a stick-shift car his father built from two junk Chevys for taking the children to school. He thinks Bernie and Carol also drove it. His own cars began with a black ’48 Ford he washed daily, followed by a succession of Mercurys, Oldsmobiles, Chevys, Pontiacs, and Dodges. His yellow ’57 Olds saw plenty of drive-in movie outings, and his ’69 Pontiac wagon was his first brand new car. Friends teased him about his station wagons, but he prized their hauling capacity. He always wanted a red Corvette convertible and says the red Mustang convertible comes close.
- Railroad Treasures and Childhood Days by the RiverIn a sequence of childhood memories, the narrator recalls locomotives, Grampa's walks to kindergarten, gathering fallen coal for Mommy's stove, and finding treasures near the foundry. He remembers his fifth birthday, first-grade lessons, a printing prize, and a teacher locking out Arnold for lateness. Life in a big white house includes celebrations, baby Carol's arrival while Mommy is sick, Mommy returning with Baby Delores, games with Bobby and Iris, penny treats, a tavern visit, May baskets, and the fascination of a river the children are forbidden to approach.
- Hopscotch Lines and Double Dutch FlourishesDelores asked Bernard to draw Hopscotch courts on the sidewalk or in the dirt. He disliked Hopscotch but enjoyed Jump Rope, especially the accelerated finish of Double Dutch. Carol taught him Jacks, which she, Dee, and Diana could play for hours.
- A Lost Friendship and a Lifelong LessonBernard remembers Sonny Joiner as a giggling childhood friend living with his working mother. Although Bernard doubted accusations that Sonny watched girls bathing, he chased and punched Sonny after another accusation one late-fall evening. Sonny cried without resisting, and Bernard immediately stopped in remorse. A few days later, Sonny’s mother told Bernard that Sonny had undergone surgery that very day and had fresh stitches. Bernard says the lost friendship and her warning haunted him, and he never struck anyone again.
- Family Remedies and Memories of Childhood IllnessBernard recalls ringworm treatments for himself and Bob, crediting Daddy's use of Kerodin with becoming a standard treatment after the Arp doctors heard of it. He remembers Daddy's foot fungus and recurring malaria, Gramps's weather-sensitive rheumatism, and Mom deliberately exposing the children to whooping cough. Despite saying he cannot remember childhood sickness, he recalls ringworm, measles, and chicken pox. Other memories include Mom's sewing injuries, sunburn and bursitis, his own dog-bite scar, a girl's scarlet fever that he tentatively attributes to Carol, and the family's belief that childhood vegetables would protect them from cancer.
- Penny Candy, Hollyhock Dolls, and Front-Porch DaysIris recalls a small grocery store in a converted home's front room across from 1015 29th Street, where bread, milk, and penny candy were available. Living between the river and railroad tracks, the family received visits from hobos seeking food, and Mom shared despite the family's own limited supplies. Grandpa gathered dandelion greens for Mom to cook in bacon drippings. Iris remembers River Drive, Dad's beloved Model T Ford, a short-lived rabbit hutch, and making dolls from hollyhock blossoms beside the garage. One summer she badly hurt her knee falling from her bicycle on a black-cinder-covered street and spent long days recovering on the porch swing and cutting paper dolls. After Carol's birth, Mom was ill and weak for a long time; Iris tentatively recalls Grandpa being there part of the time and remembers Uncle Lloyd's brief visits. Grandpa Williams and Dad exchanged sharp words, while Saturday evenings also brought card games with Mom, Dad, and friends.
- From a Second Mother to a Cherished FriendIris reflects on her second-mother role in childhood and the friendships she now cherishes. She recalls Bernie's broken tea sets and playful dish-towel chases, taking little Barbara everywhere, soothing Diana's ulcerated leg with lard, helping reposition baby Carol's head until the neck grew stronger, regretting Delores's scoldings after her hearing problem was discovered, and understanding quiet Bob's pointing without his needing to speak.
- Floyd and Ethel: Dancing, Work, and Seven ChildrenFloyd and Ethel met on a roller-skating blind date, courted through dancing and picnics, and married in Moline in 1928 with Frank Melton and Elva as attendants. They raised seven children. The passage says Floyd worked his entire life for John Deere, while also recording a roughly year-long Depression layoff when Lloyd helped him obtain WPA truck-driving work. Remembered as hardworking, playful, outspoken, and devoted to family, Floyd died of acute kidney failure in 1968 after an earlier severe stroke and is buried beside Ethel.
- Treasured Presents, Music, and Bicycle RidesBarbara remembers Iris’s gift of a comic-book subscription and Bernie’s love of Mario Lanza records and thoughtful birthday presents after leaving home. Bob teased her and helped her do flip-overs; she took Carol’s outfits while Carol worked, and Dee styled or cut her hair before school. Barbara played most with Diana, riding bicycles on 39th Street, where a dog once tried to bite Diana but 'got the wrong leg.'
- A Family Remembered with Love and PrideThough her childhood memories are vague, Delores remembers warm and happy feelings. She lovingly describes her grandfather, parents, and six siblings, expressing gratitude for her life and pride in the family her parents created.
- Brownie’s Dancing Days and a Lifetime of MotheringDespite grief at home and being refused a college education, Ethel found happiness in friends, dancing, and work. Mary Hill introduced her to Floyd, whom she married in 1928. Together they raised seven children, while Ethel survived a serious goiter and worked several jobs. In widowhood she enjoyed crafts, cards, grandchildren, and travel, including a cherished 1979 European holiday funded by Bernie. She died during a visit to Diana in 1988, remembered for her unqualified love.
- Dances, Seven Children, and Grampa’s Helping HandsAfter moving to Moline, Ethel met Floyd through Mary Hill and married him in 1928. They raised seven children, while Ethel worked several jobs and survived goiter surgery. Ed became a permanent member of their household, contributing childcare, housework and money, despite drinking and a serious workplace injury. Lloyd served in the Army Signal Corps, suffered lasting injuries and eventually lost contact with the family, leaving fond memories and a cocoa-dunking breakfast tradition. The passage gives conflicting dates for Ed’s death and funeral.
- Cards, Christmas Ornaments, and a Long-Awaited European JourneyWidowed Ethel maintained a full life of handcrafts, Christmas ornament making, evening cards and helping family members after divorces. She visited Diana in Florida annually. In 1979 Bernie fulfilled her dream of Europe with a visit to Carol, Charlie and Chris in Mainz and a family trip to Denmark. Ethel died during her 1988 Florida visit and was buried beside Floyd, with an incorrect birth year on her headstone that had never troubled her.
- Keeping the Guilds’ Childhood Games AliveCarol Sutton recalls fond memories of the Guilds’ favorite childhood games and encourages passing them on to children and grandchildren. She emphasizes their simple requirements, personal contact, and lasting memories. The passage gives a counting rhyme for choosing who is “It” or selecting teams, followed by instructions for tag.
- Giant Steps and Baby Steps with MotherThe family explains Mother, May I?, in which players seek permission to advance toward a player acting as Mother across start and finish lines about twenty-five feet apart. Carol appears in an example requesting giant steps and being offered baby steps instead. Players who move without asking must start over, and the first to reach Mother wins. Taking turns as Mother gives everyone a chance to direct the game.
Referenced in
- The Guilds — CAROL MAE GUILD SUTTON
- Barbara's Chapter — BARBARA KAY GUILD MILLER
- Barbara's Chapter — MEMORIES OF MOM
- Barbara's Chapter — NICKNAMES
- Barbara's Chapter — LIVING ARRANGEMENTS
- Barbara's Chapter — TEEN MEMORIES
- Barbara's Chapter — THANKS
- Diana's Chapter — FAMILY MEMORIES
- Dee's Chapter
- Dee's Chapter — DADDY
- Dee's Chapter — DADDY
- Dee's Chapter — WEEKLY WOES
- Dee's Chapter — THE HOLIDAYS
- Dee's Chapter — EASTER
- Dee's Chapter — MY TEENS
- Dee's Chapter — TO CAROL
- Dee's Chapter — TO IRIS
- Carol's Chapter
- Carol's Chapter — HOME
- Carol's Chapter — HOME
- Carol's Chapter — WELL WATER
- Carol's Chapter — THE COAL BIN
- Carol's Chapter — TWICE A YEAR
- Carol's Chapter — WALK RIGHT IN
- Carol's Chapter — CLEANLINESS IS NEXT TO GODLINESS
- Carol's Chapter — BIG SISTER
- Carol's Chapter — OUTHOUSE
- Carol's Chapter — GRAMPS
- Carol's Chapter — CHILDHOOD
- Carol's Chapter — A FEW GAMES I REMEMBER
- Carol's Chapter — A FEW OF THE CATCHY VERSES I REMEMBER WE CHANTED WHILE JUMPING ROPE
- Carol's Chapter — STRING GAMES
- Carol's Chapter — SINGING BUTTON
- Carol's Chapter — A FEW PURCHASED TOYS I REMEMBER
- Carol's Chapter — THE STRAWBERRY
- Carol's Chapter — DOCTORING
- Carol's Chapter — BRAND NEW
- Carol's Chapter — TRIPS
- Carol's Chapter — BURMA SHAVE SIGNS
- Carol's Chapter — A PET
- Carol's Chapter — SUNDAYS
- Carol's Chapter — THE FUNNIES I REMEMBER
- Carol's Chapter — BIRTHDAYS
- Carol's Chapter — SATURDAY
- Carol's Chapter — THE THIEF
- Carol's Chapter — A STITCH IN TIME
- Carol's Chapter — THE SHOW
- Carol's Chapter — ENTREPRENEURS
- Carol's Chapter — PICNICS
- Carol's Chapter — YUMMY
- Carol's Chapter — OUR CHRISTMASES
- Carol's Chapter — YEAST BREADS
- Carol's Chapter — COOKIES
- Carol's Chapter — WE HEARD IT ON THE RADIO
- Carol's Chapter — SOME OF THE RADIO PROGRAMS I REMEMBER LISTENING TO
- Carol's Chapter — RABBIT EARS
- Carol's Chapter — KIDS
- Carol's Chapter — ADVENTURE
- Carol's Chapter — COMEDY
- Carol's Chapter — QUIZ AND GAME SHOWS
- Carol's Chapter — NEWS AND VARIETY
- Carol's Chapter — THE 4-H CLUB OF AMERICA
- Carol's Chapter — THE 4-H MOTTO
- Carol's Chapter — THE 4-H PLEDGE
- Carol's Chapter — CHURCH
- Carol's Chapter — BEST NEIGHBORS. BEST FRIENDS.
- Carol's Chapter — GRADE SCHOOL
- Carol's Chapter — THE COMIC BOOKS I READ
- Carol's Chapter — JACKS
- Carol's Chapter — PLEASE SIGN IN
- Carol's Chapter — JUNIOR HIGH
- Carol's Chapter — HIGH SCHOOL
- Carol's Chapter — SOME OF THE MUSIC I LIKED
- Carol's Chapter — FLICKS
- Carol's Chapter — DRIVING
- Carol's Chapter — SPORTS
- Carol's Chapter — OUR SCHOOL SONG
- Carol's Chapter — DRIVE-IN
- Carol's Chapter — BOYS
- Carol's Chapter — SITTER
- Carol's Chapter — GRADUATION
- Carol's Chapter — SOME THINGS I TRIED TO PUT IN THE BOOK
- Carol's Chapter — MOM AND DAD
- Carol's Chapter — DANCE WITH ME
- Carol's Chapter — OTHER THINGS I REMEMBER ABOUT MOM
- Carol's Chapter — CARD SHARKS
- Carol's Chapter — LASTING MEMORIES
- Carol's Chapter — LASTING MEMORIES
- Carol's Chapter — SOME OTHER THINGS I REMEMBER ABOUT DADDY
- Carol's Chapter — LIFE AFTER HIGH SCHOOL
- Carol's Chapter — CHARLIE
- Carol's Chapter — GERMANY
- Carol's Chapter — CHRIS
- Carol's Chapter — MY GRANDCHILDREN
- Carol's Chapter — A DAY IN THE LIFE OF THE GUILD FAMILY
- Bob's Chapter — MOST VIVID CHILDHOOD MEMORIES
- Bob's Chapter — CARS
- Bernie's Chapter — MISSISSIPPI
- Bernie's Chapter — DIRT
- Bernie's Chapter — FIGHTING
- Bernie's Chapter — MALADIES
- Iris's Chapter — LITTLE REMEMBRANCES
- Iris's Chapter — REMEMBERING EACH OF YOU
- History of the Guild Family — THE SAW MILL
- History of the Guild Family — ETHEL KATHERINE WILLIAMS
- History of the Guild Family — ETHEL KATHERINE WILLIAMS
- Our Childhood Games
- Our Childhood Games — KING OF THE HILL
- Our Childhood Games — CHILDHOOD PASTIMES
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